Dr. Mariel Buqué joins the podcast to help us learn how we can heal from the past, create healthier patterns, and break cycles of trauma. Forrest and Dr. Buqué talk about what intergenerational trauma is, how we can “hand trauma down,” and how these problematic patterns show up in the real world. They focus on what helps someone take the first steps, the key role of insight, and moving from insight to action. Along the way, Dr. Buqué shares the powerful tools that help people resource themselves to do the hard work of breaking intergenerational patterns. About our Guest: Dr. Mariel Buqué received her doctorate in counseling psychology from Columbia University, and her work has been featured on major media outlets like The Today Show and Good Morning America. She’s the author of the new book Break the Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma, and host of the podcast by the same name.You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction1:15: What drew Mariel to this work10:25: How Mariel thinks about intergenerational trauma 17:00: Common patterns of her clients20:00: Most people’s initial motivation to find healing24:45: Courage and vulnerability with the people in our family systems33:20: Grounding, excavating the family tree, finding healthy alternative patterns39:40: Practices for stimulating the ventral vagal nerve44:05: Finding a way in to healing that is accessible to you47:40: Creating an intergenerational trauma tree55:00: Finding steadiness when the emotional floodgates open58:00: The shortcomings of the western medical outlook1:00:45: Integration, and creating a short buffer between stimulus and response1:06:15: Values and healthy pride1:08:40: RecapSupport the Podcast: We're on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.Sponsors:Join over a million people using BetterHelp, the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.Zocdoc helps you find expert doctors and medical professionals that specialize in the care you need, and deliver the type of experience you want. Head to zocdoc.com/being and download the Zocdoc app for FREE.Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website