TINK BEFORE SHARING

By FERDINANDO FREGA

IT IS A HABIT EXTENSIVE BY MOST USERS OF ELECTRONIC AND COMPUTER EQUIPMENT; BUT THE AUTHOR OFFERS A CLEAR POINT FOR REFLECTION ON THE OPPORTUNITY OF REFLECTING BEFORE OPENING YOUR MOUTH, GENERATING ALWAYS LESS STUPIDITY. I AM THE FIRST EXAMPLE OF THIS. AT 58 YEARS OLD I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO MODIFY MYSELF COMPLETELY. BUT I STILL HAVE ONE HOPE, WHICH ONE? IT IS SOON TO BE SAID: I STOP TO REFLECT.......WHAT A BEAUTIFUL SATISFACTION.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Nov 8, 2023
• ISBN: 9781446661932

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AUTHOR

FREGA FERDINANDO

(1965) began his professional career as a salesman in Gillette Italy; a journey that lasted 20 years, starting from the lowest roles, as bag holder and assistant, to then move on to manager and be recognized first by the Company and then by the Market, in the role of Top Manager, it was the year 2003.

In 2004 he became a Freelancer, as a Business Consultant, Recruiter, Social Communicator, in Romania, Bulgaria, Georgia, Spain, until 2017 and Councilor in the Reggio Calabria Chamber of Commerce.

From 2018 to 2020 he actively collaborates with international humanitarian organizations present in various parts of the world to aid and support to needy and difficult populations, teaching social communication at embassies to refugees from some nations.

From 2020 to 2021 he created the UNIVERSO AL FEMMINILE website, a sentimental, love and affective consultancy project, online only. The investment is considerable, but the Italian investors express their intention of not wanting to participate in the new corporate asset and the activity is considered definitively concluded, recording the first failure.

September 2021 he becomes Author, Poet, Writer of Fiction-Non-Fiction, Autobiographical, Creator and Creative Executor, in conjunction with a Psychiatric illness, inherited from his mother, the effects of which lead him happily to cure himself, and to gain the settlement of the Pathology (living without effects) and achieving a better and normal life.

He produces and publishes narrative texts and autobiographical stories in America, always monitored by critics, and is recognized as an author who creates reading by bringing a new way of writing, with his seventeen multilingual books and his seventeen e-books in English.

The thing that surprises him is that out of interest in his books, they are bought and resold at double the market price, but there are many who are doing this exercise.

His training leads him back to attending an Esoteric school for 30 years and to his life values based on Universal Principles and Values oriented towards good and justice.

He has three adult children, and because of his activity he is always looking for places in the world to live, which can give him the best inspiration, because writing always remains the only means to be able to tell and remember, bringing smiles.

His concept of women leads him to express and say that they are especially important, stating that they are truly at the center of his Universe, unfortunately not all of them can be satisfied, alas. He has gained professional experience in the following sectors and managerial positions on:

Consumer Goods, Temporary Agencies, Construction, Corporate Security, Fast-food Restaurants, Electronics, IT, Hard Discount, Real Estate, Truck Mechanics, Food Organizational Plans, Writing, Social Communication, Relationship Counseling, Teaching, Charity.

There are still many things to do, and even if the time is not enough, he tells us the minutes, our heart and our soul always give us the desire to bring help and a word of comfort to people in need, and I am always offering unique moments, each story is truly unrepeatable.

Frega Ferdinando

PREMISE

The real point is social media where we often share stories, photos, ideas without thinking and for what purpose.

An ex-girlfriend to whom we want to let know that we have a new partner, and this creates jealousy, but no one reflects gratuitously on the harm that is done.

Posting in a blog, sharing an intimacy, my wife discovered one day that I had adopted a child from a distance, and it was not nice to let her know like that.

Most users of electronic and IT devices share without thinking.

Reflection as an opportunity for life lets us know that before opening our mouths, generating less and less stupidity, we need to think.

I was an example of this a long time ago, convinced that I could still run the one hundred meters in 11 seconds, it was the first example at 58 years old, and then I understood that I would have to change myself completely.

But I still have hope, which one? It is easy to say: I found the strength to stop and reflect.......what a great satisfaction.

THE POSTS

The idea of wanting to share everything with social media subscribers has no economic or financial purpose, just the pleasure of talking.

Everything was born very spontaneously on August 1, 2023, and has only one mission: to let everyone know about the reflection, linked to family history, or some funny fact that happened, or was experienced around the world.

No notoriety sought, nor a job to conquer, I am an author with six books produced, but this is a fact that has already become public some time ago.

All those who want to become followers must follow a path made of patience and time, everyone hopes to be welcome, but it is never possible to be able to please everyone, but always being available to exchange one's opinions with everyone is an indicator of maturity matured over time.

Social Italia in giving me this opportunity gratified me in my attitude, recognized as serious and correct, which is unexpectedly reaching more places, and in the interest in the authenticity of the information never exploited because the purposes they inspire are only noble.

TEACHING

I have always lived a quiet life, never routine, but serious and complex because the various diversities constitute the spice of my life.

One morning a telegram arrives at home: Ministry of Education, the S: V: I: is summoned to Rome on 6 June at 11.00 am, for professional communications.

My wife says to me: what did you do this time?

I arrive in Rome in the morning at 10 I go to the Ministry but for guests there is another access gate, I change entrance and arrive at the office with the secretary who kindly welcomes me, making me sit in the waiting room, but after less than ten minutes he asks me to move to this large meeting room, where there is no one waiting for me.

Shortly afterwards, a blonde lady arrives, thin, tall, elegant, with perfect make-up, refined, who with kind manners, class, and style, introduces herself with her name and shakes hands and her role at the Ministry: first Chief Director.

I speak only with the Minister and the Undersecretaries.

I immediately understand that I must not be an idiot, or make jokes or misrepresent the meeting as if it were a game, and I immediately shut myself away, ready to listen, but she immediately tells me, let's try to be on the front line, I won't eat you.

Before telling you why you are here,