WE ARE NOT FRIENDS, BUT JUST ACQUAINTANCES

By FERDINANDO FREGA

Looking at the world, different peoples have demonstrated how they want to manifest themselves, always using few words, but strong intensity and action, distrust and doubt, war and peace.

But friendship is complex, a relationship between two people, full of emotion, respect, sincerity and loyalty, which no one would really give up. But where to find it?

There are those who are passionate, possessive, interested, amorous, curious, mischievous, you just need to have the time to stop even for just five minutes and say: who do I have next to me? When did it arrive?
Man and Woman cannot be friends, history says so and I confirm it, even if there will be those who will be ready to insist on saying the opposite, for a very specific reason: whatever the precious type of wood available, it will always burn close to the fire. and words won't be enough, it's just a natural condition of life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Dec 13, 2023
• ISBN: 9781446633458

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AUTHOR

FREGA FERDINANDO

(1965) began his professional career as a salesman in Gillette Italy; a journey that lasted 20 years, starting from the lowest roles, as bag holder and assistant, to then move on to manager and be recognized first by the Company and then by the Market, in the role of Top Manager, it was the year 2003.

In 2004 he became a Freelancer, as a Business Consultant, Recruiter, Social Communicator, in Romania, Bulgaria, Georgia, Spain, until 2017 and Councilor in the Reggio Calabria Chamber of Commerce.

From 2018 to 2020 he actively collaborates with international humanitarian organizations present in various parts of the world to aid and support to needy and difficult populations, teaching social communication at embassies to refugees from some nations.

From 2020 to 2021 he created the UNIVERSO AL FEMMINILE website, a sentimental, love and affective consultancy project, online only. The investment is considerable, but the Italian investors express their intention of not wanting to participate in the new corporate asset and the activity is considered definitively concluded, recording the first failure.

September 2021 he becomes Author, Poet, Writer of Fiction-Non-Fiction, Autobiographical, Creator and Creative Executor, in conjunction with a Psychiatric illness, inherited from his mother, the effects of which lead him happily to cure himself, and to gain the settlement of the Pathology (living without effects) and achieving a better and normal life.

He produces and publishes narrative texts and autobiographical stories in America, always monitored by critics, and is recognized as an author who creates reading by bringing a new way of writing, with his seventeen multilingual books and his seventeen e-books in English.

The thing that surprises him is that out of interest in his books, they are bought and resold at double the market price, but there are many who are doing this exercise.

His training leads him back to attending an Esoteric school for 30 years and to his life values based on Universal Principles and Values oriented towards good and justice.

He has three adult children, and because of his activity he is always looking for places in the world to live, which can give him the best inspiration, because writing always remains the only means to be able to tell and remember, bringing smiles.

His concept of women leads him to express and say that they are especially important, stating that they are truly at the center of his Universe, unfortunately not all of them can be satisfied, alas. He has gained professional experience in the following sectors and managerial positions on:

Consumer Goods, Temporary Agencies, Construction, Corporate Security, Fast-food Restaurants, Electronics, IT, Hard Discount, Real Estate, Truck Mechanics, Food Organizational Plans, Writing, Social Communication, Relationship Counseling, Teaching, Charity.

There are still many things to do, and even if the time is not enough, he tells us the minutes, our heart and our soul always give us the desire to bring help and a word of comfort to people in need, and I am always offering unique moments, each story is truly unrepeatable.

Frega Ferdinando

PREMISE

Our origins have changed us a lot, the people, the environments, the mentality, the territory are strong conditioning elements.

People always try to relate, and it does not mean that they do it in the best way.

The word Love towards others, always inflated in speeches, brings us to the memory of something to love, despite lacking emotional and emotional factors.

But friendship is complex, a relationship between two people, full of emotion, respect and sincerity, and loyalty, which no one would really give up. But where to find it?

There are those who are enthusiastic, possessive, interested, amorous, curious, malicious, you just need to have the time to stop for just five minutes and say: who do I have next to me? When did it arrive?

People cannot be friends, history says so and I confirm it, even if there will be those ready to argue otherwise.

The belief arises for an extremely specific reason: whatever the precious type of wood available, it will always burn near the fire and words will not be enough, it is just a natural condition of life.

TINA

There is a principle in everyday life that says: every story must be told in detail, only in this way is it remembered and never forgotten.

But what do men want: it is a bit of an alchemy, they want to be the first for a woman, and women would like to be the last for a man.

Whatever happens, being the first gives you the advantage of having lived before.

Just last night I was surfing the Internet, captivated by an advertisement on a famous and important social network, which guaranteed, in the advertising banner, the production and sale of new websites.

It was right for me, it arrived now in which I had made my decision, I started the registration without completing it and as if by magic after 30 minutes my phone rang.

A female voice with a clear Neapolitan accent, a little hoarse, a heavy smoker, was trying to understand if she could invest her time with me or if it were someone with unclear ideas.

After the first ten seconds, the key time for effective communication, she began to listen to me, smiling appropriately and remaining attentive and surprised, because crazy people also give and create addiction, always inspired by illusion.

My name is Tina, I work remotely, I have two sons, and my company that you know is a Multinational.

I decided to accept the offer of a new site and give it my trust, it would have cost me a maximum of one thousand euros, I considered that from March 2024 I would have been able to spend it.

In doing some in-depth knowledge, I asked him where he lived, but the Neapolitan Street urchin referred to the headquarters of the Agency, his contact details were hidden from me.

Unfortunately, I was not stupid, she still had not had the chance to understand it, just because she had had the new dose of the vaccine against stupidity.

I had the idea of a 40-year-old woman, well versed in the world of the web, 160 cm tall, stout, robust and with blue/green eyes, Cancer as a zodiac sign, all elements that I could never have known, but this was just a free idea.

His intelligence showed itself to be clearly above average, without ever revealing his cards, but absolutely wanting to know those of others.

He came from Naples; many do not know that all the stupid people in the world are collected and sent to this city which is the only one to offer special courses to make them intelligent.

She prudently maintained a detached attitude, the profession required it, but driving her crazy would not have been difficult, she just needed a special man by her side, because now I understood she was alone.

Dear Lady, I told you a story, perhaps some truth, or all nonsense, but I hope I made you smile, you who always think of everyone, especially your parents, because you have a good soul and many take advantage of you, you that you are good at hiding feelings and emotions.

ROSARY

Each of us is unique in our own manifestations and when we try to steal a bit of knowledge, we do it in our own way, we personalize it, we make it our idea.

You have managed human resources for many years, going from training, to training, from explanation, to teaching, from being a friend to an older brother.

You have always done it with the joy of giving, because you are a genuine man, a man who can really be counted on, dependable and serious, whose origins you have never hidden.

Your values lie in the education you received from a town in Ribera (AG), known throughout the world for many things, where everyone knows each other, everyone knows everything, and many have never understood, for years, that you work conducted.

Family, the cornerstone concept of all your thoughts, towards