HOW I LOVED YOU

By FERDINANDO FREGA

Man is led to focus on well-being, initially measuring it with his own state of health, in being autonomous, in daily movements, in the things we want to do, in finding that security that is often lost, all the things that constitute valid elements which certify our real physical and psychophysical condition, this is our life.
But that's not all: character, education, training, experience, drama, work, friends, genetics, also influence us on an emotional and affective level, and almost no one, rationally, has control over them. .
Those who dedicate more time to thoughts, to introspective analyses, those who study others in their manifestations, be they pessimistic or optimistic, altruistic or selfish, passionate or romantic, positive or negative, good or bad, genuine or malignant, introverted or extroverted, solitary or companionable, generous or stingy, suspicious and distrustful, possibilityist and dreamer, but all committed to doing something to know.
All the people in the world cry, they do it in a different way, some alone, some with a woman, some with a friend, but they all express their pain, the most delicate part of themselves, encountering our intimacy within which we build our internal Temples to strengthen us and defend us from everything.
This book tells stories of men aimed at everyone, living or not, an idea of my being Creator and Ideator, in expressing a living feeling, which is often kept hidden, but lived with greater intensity, for fear of not wanting to be seen one's weakness towards true and genuine love.
These are the Men.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Apr 11, 2024
• ISBN: 9781445789514

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AUTHOR

FREGA FERDINANDO

(1965) began his professional career as a salesman in Gillette Italy; a journey that lasted 20 years, starting from the lowest roles, as bag holder and assistant, to then move on to manager and be recognized first by the Company and then by the Market, in the role of Top Manager, it was the year 2003.

In 2004 he became a Freelancer, as a Business Consultant, Recruiter, Social Communicator, in Romania, Bulgaria, Georgia, Spain, until 2017 and Councilor in the Reggio Calabria Chamber of Commerce.

From 2018 to 2020 he actively collaborates with international humanitarian organizations present in various parts of the world to aid and support to needy and difficult populations, teaching social communication at embassies to refugees from some nations.

From 2020 to 2021 he created the UNIVERSO AL FEMMINILE website, a sentimental, love and affective consultancy project, online only. The investment is considerable, but the Italian investors express their intention of not wanting to participate in the new corporate asset and the activity is considered definitively concluded, recording the first failure.

September 2021 he becomes Author, Poet, Writer of Fiction-Non-Fiction, Autobiographical, Creator and Creative Executor, in conjunction with a Psychiatric illness, inherited from his mother, the effects of which lead him happily to cure himself, and to gain the settlement of the Pathology (living without effects) and achieving a better and normal life.

He produces and publishes narrative texts and autobiographical stories in America, always monitored by critics, and is recognized as an author who creates reading by bringing a new way of writing, with his seventeen multilingual books and his seventeen e-books in English.

The thing that surprises him is that out of interest in his books, they are bought and resold at double the market price, but there are many who are doing this exercise.

His training leads him back to attending an Esoteric school for 30 years and to his life values based on Universal Principles and Values oriented towards good and justice.

He has three adult children, and because of his activity he is always looking for places in the world to live, which can give him the best inspiration, because writing always remains the only means to be able to tell and remember, bringing smiles.

His concept of women leads him to express and say that they are especially important, stating that they are truly at the center of his Universe, unfortunately not all of them can be satisfied, alas. He has gained professional experience in the following sectors and managerial positions on:

Consumer Goods, Temporary Agencies, Construction, Corporate Security, Fast-food Restaurants, Electronics, IT, Hard Discount, Real Estate, Truck Mechanics, Food Organizational Plans, Writing, Social Communication, Relationship Counseling, Teaching, Charity.

There are still many things to do, and even if the time is not enough, he tells us the minutes, our heart and our soul always give us the desire to bring help and a word of comfort to people in need, and I am always offering unique moments, each story is truly unrepeatable.

Frega Ferdinando

FOREWORD

Man is inclined to focus on well-being, measuring it initially by his own state of health, in being autonomous, in daily movements, in the things we want to do, in regaining that confidence that is often lost, all the things that constitute valid elements that certify our real physical and psychophysical condition, this is our life.

But that is not all: character, upbringing, training, experience, dramas, work, friends, genetics, also affect us emotionally and affectively, and almost no one rationally has control over them.

Those who spend more time on thoughts, introspective analysis, those who study others in their manifestations, whether they are pessimistic or optimistic, altruistic or selfish, passionate or romantic, positive or negative, good or bad, genuine or malicious, introvert or extrovert, solitary or companionable, generous or stingy, suspicious and distrustful, possibilist and dreamer, but all committed to doing something to know.

All people in the world cry, they do it in a different way, some alone, some with a woman, some with a friend, but they all express their pain, the most delicate part of themselves, meeting our intimacy within which we build our inner Temples to strengthen and defend ourselves from everything.

This Book tells stories of men addressed to all, living and not, a glimpse of my being Creator and Ideated, in expressing a living feeling that is often kept hidden, but lived with greater intensity, for fear of not wanting to show one's weakness toward a true and genuine love.

These are the Men.

WARREN BUFFET.

It was the year 2000, I was still working for Gillette, and a trip took me for three weeks to Boston, the headquarters of the Company, for a series of business and entertainment meetings.

I was staying at the Marriot Hotel, and when I saw the cost for one night's room, I was startled-just $850 a night, including breakfast.

We had been instructed not to call room service, but to make use of the dispensers on each floor, for drinks and ice, not to bring either women or men for entertainment and in emergencies to turn to the Hotel Bar which is always open H 24.

That night the dispenser on my floor was not working, and I made four floors checking the others, but the network connection was missing, and as I found myself dressed in overalls and clogs, I went straight to the bar, to get some mineral water for the night.

A gentleman not far away, about 65 years old, asked me to please get him a Jack Daniels, but he used all courtesy and I found no difficulty in complying.

I took the mineral water and bourbon, heading for the couch, where this gentleman thanked me and gave me a hundred dollars, begging me to keep the change.

I started to look at him, the face was familiar, I had seen him many times, but I could not believe it was him: WARREN BUFFET.

Mr. Buffet good evening, I'm Frega I work for one of his companies, for Gillette and I know his whole story, he looked up and nodded