Cuffed

By Kim Ruff-Moore

This book was written to inspire and give hope. It was also written to educate.  You can find love at any age. I speak directly to widows, widowers and single people in general regarding having courage and faith to love again. My target audience for women would be anyone 35 and older. Specifically, women over 50.  Statistics seem to show data that it's harder to find a spouse or love for that matter once you reach a certain age. I am a witness that what God has for you is for you. If he has a spouse for you, it will come to pass.  I also speak to the single woman praying for a spouse. I charge you to block out the chatter of society norms and hear me please. It does not take long for a man to know if he wants to marry you. Society has duped people into falling for a time frame fallacy.  Quite the contrary, men know pretty quickly if you are wifey or not.

 

 Every case is different. You should definitely make sure you are certain not to rush into any relationship haphazardly. However, pray and ask God to navigate your path. The bible says He who finds a wife finds a good thing. Women should not pursue men.  Women should not be looking for a man, but carry herself in a manner that attracts a quality man. My love story is proof that you should not dismiss a potential soulmate because of the timeframes set by people.  I researched the topics and I will share my findings.  I will share facts and data as well as biblical scripture and doctrine. I believe in the word of God, so this book will have a strong biblical influence. It's because of God I am married to my soul mate. I know that many people will need more than just the word of God to totally get what I'm trying to convey, so no worries. I will provide that in this book. 

 

I chose to title this book "Cuffed '' because it is a term growing in popularity in our culture to mean married, in a relationship, or off the market. Urban dictionary states it means to start an exclusive relationship. People are also referencing "Cuffing Season" as a time when people who are normally single cuff up in the winter. I thought the title would be hip and urban and also an attention grabber for a middle aged fox like myself. I will discuss some pretty heavy things in this book, so being fun and edgy with the title may add balance and interest. I will share a few things in hopes to encourage men and women on this journey of life hoping to be "Cuffed" permanently with their soulmate. I will share my testimony about God sending my Boaz. God blessed me with a wonderful man of God.

 

• Language: English
• Publisher: Ruff Moore Media Publishing
• Release date: Dec 23, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223403173

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Introduction

This book was written to inspire and give hope. It was also written to educate.  You can find love at any age. I speak directly to widows, widowers and single people in general regarding having courage and faith to love again. My target audience for women would be anyone 35 and older. Specifically, women over 50.  Statistics seem to show data that it’s harder to find a spouse or love for that matter once you reach a certain age. I am a witness that what God has for you is for you. If he has a spouse for you, it will come to pass.  I also speak to the single woman praying for a spouse. I charge you to block out the chatter of society norms and here me please. It does not take long for a man to know if he wants to marry you. Society has duped people into falling for a time frame fallacy.  Quite the contrary, men know pretty quickly if you are wifey or not.

Every case is different. You should definitely make sure you are certain not to rush into any relationship haphazardly. However, pray and ask God to navigate your path. The bible says He who finds a wife finds a good thing. Women should not pursue men.  Women should not be looking for a man, but carry herself in a manner that attracts a quality man. My love story is proof that you should not dismiss a potential soulmate because of the timeframes set by people.  I researched the topics and I will share my findings.  I will share facts and data as well as biblical scripture and doctrine. I believe in the word of God, so this book will have a strong biblical influence. It's because of God I am married to my soul mate. I know that many people will need more than just the word of God to totally get what I’m trying to convey, so no worries. I will provide that in this book.

I chose to title this book Cuffed '' because it is a term growing in popularity in our culture to mean married, in a relationship, or off the market. Urban dictionary states it means to start an exclusive relationship. People are also referencing Cuffing Season as a time when people who are normally single cuff up in the winter. I thought the title would be hip and urban and also an attention grabber for a middle aged fox like myself. I will discuss some pretty heavy things in this book, so being fun and edgy with the title may add balance and interest. I will share a few things in hopes to encourage men and women on this journey of life hoping to be Cuffed" permanently with their soulmate. I will share my testimony about God sending my Boaz. God blessed me with a wonderful man of God.

On the journey of life, where threads of love and loss weave a complex pattern, Cuffed unfolds as a testament to the remarkable resilience of the human spirit. This heartfelt book is my story, and it delves into the life of a widow navigating the delicate dance between grief and the courage to love again, guided by unwavering faith in Christian biblical principles. Hold on as I share my testimony of Faith, Love, and Second Chances" 

As I grappled with the void left by the departure of my late spouse, I embarked on a journey marked by divine intervention. Cuffed explores the profound belief that God, in His infinite wisdom, sends unexpected blessings into our lives precisely when we need them most. A poignant tale of rediscovery unfolds, reminding us that love, though lost, can be found anew through the divine orchestration of fate. This book will also share my story about how love can literally be a miracle sent by God. He knows His children inside and out. He knew exactly what I needed and who I needed to complete my divine purpose on this earth. When you trust God to navigate your life, He will do it. Our plans are not His plans and our thoughts are not His thoughts.

He is indeed a mysterious God. He has our best interest at heart. My favorite scripture is Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans that I have for you. Plans to give you a hope and an expected in or plans to prosper you and not to harm you. 

Yet, this is not merely a tale of love's resurgence. It's a testament to the courage required to step beyond the shadows of grief and say yes to the unexpected paths that God lays before us. In a society where judgments linger and skepticism looms, I faced the scrutiny of friends and family, weathering the storm of rejection with an unyielding faith that surpassed human understanding. You see, my love story happened fairly quickly. I was not looking for love. When God moved in the bible with miracles, many of them were done suddenly. My miracle happened suddenly. I will be very transparent about the scrutiny and judgment that I received at the time when I thought people would be so happy for me. To find love and be given a second chance to love a remarkable man and he reciprocate was indeed a gift from God. How could anyone see anything different?

Through the lens of Christian principles, Cuffed sheds light on the transformative power of faith, urging us all to believe in the unseen and embrace the divine timing of love's arrival. As