Marriage Releases God's Favor

By Kim Ruff-Moore

When my husband Jeff and I first began our conversations over the phone, he shared with me a profound belief rooted in biblical scripture. He referenced the verse that states, "He who finds a wife obtaineth favor of God." Jeff expressed his conviction that certain challenges I faced would find resolution through our union, and even some illnesses would see improvement or diminishment due to the favor and covering he provided as the head of our household. This belief is deeply rooted in our shared commitment to follow God, with Jeff leading our marriage. As a result, we expected God to release unmerited favor in our relationship. The biblical foundation of our understanding finds resonance in other scriptures that portray marriage as a divine blessing. Jeff's foresight proved accurate; as his wife, I witnessed the cessation of struggles and an overall improvement in various aspects of my life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Ruff Moore Media
• Release date: Feb 21, 2024
• ISBN: 9798224472482

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Marriage Releases God’s Favor

A Guide For Couples

By Kim Ruff- Moore

Table Of Contents

Instant Favor

Foundation of Favor

Partnership in Purpose

Power in Two

Cultivating Spiritual Intimacy

Overcoming Challenges

Generational Blessings

Walking in God's Favor

Your Journey Together

Introduction

When my husband Jeff and I first began our conversations over the phone, he shared with me a profound belief rooted in biblical scripture. He referenced the verse that states, He who finds a wife obtaineth favor of God. Jeff expressed his conviction that certain challenges I faced would find resolution through our union, and even some illnesses would see improvement or diminishment due to the favor and covering he provided as the head of our household. This belief is deeply rooted in our shared commitment to follow God, with Jeff leading our marriage. As a result, we expected God to release unmerited favor in our relationship. The biblical foundation of our understanding finds resonance in other scriptures that portray marriage as a divine blessing. Jeff's foresight proved accurate; as his wife, I witnessed the cessation of struggles and an overall improvement in various aspects of my life. The unmerited favor that God has unleashed is actively pursuing us, affirming the transformative power that Our journey together reflects the scriptural truth that marriage is not merely a union of two individuals but a sacred covenant blessed by God. One such scripture that resonates with our experience is found in Proverbs 18:22, which states, He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. This verse reinforces the idea that the union between a husband and wife is not only a source of joy and companionship but also a channel through which God bestows His favor.

The concept of marriage as a divine favor is further emphasized in Malachi 2:14, where it is written, The Lord is witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. This verse underscores the sacred nature of the marital covenant, emphasizing God's role as a witness to the commitments made within marriage

As Jeff and I embrace the journey of marriage, we recognize that it is not without its challenges, but our shared faith and commitment to each other create a foundation for God's favor to manifest. Ephesians 5:25-33 reinforces the mutual love and respect that should exist between spouses, drawing parallels between the relationship of a husband and wife and that of Christ and the Church. This understanding guides us in fostering a marriage characterized by love, grace, and divine favor.

In our daily lives, we witness the tangible impact of God's favor – a harmonious partnership, a strengthened bond, and a shared sense of purpose. Psalm 128:3 beautifully captures the essence of a blessed marriage, declaring, Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your table. This imagery paints a picture of abundance, growth, and flourishing, reflecting the blessings that emanate from a union grounded in faith.

Our marriage stands as a testament to the truth that he who finds a wife obtains favor from God. Through the lens of biblical wisdom, we continue to embrace the divine favor that surrounds our union, grateful for the blessings bestowed upon us as we walk this journey together.

Our marriage is not only a personal journey but also a reflection of God's redemptive and transformative power. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 guides us in understanding the nature of love within our marriage: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. This scripture serves as a compass, directing us to nurture a love that aligns with God's design, encompassing patience, kindness, and resilience.

The blessings of our marriage extend beyond our individual lives, reaching into the lives of those around us. As Galatians 6:2 encourages, Carry each other's burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ. Our union empowers us to support and uplift one another, creating a haven of love and encouragement. The ripple effect of God's favor within our marriage touches not only our relationship but also those we encounter on our shared journey.

In times of joy and celebration, we turn to Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Our partnership exemplifies the strength found in unity, enabling us to navigate life's challenges and triumphs hand in hand.

From the very beginning, the foundation of our marriage was rooted in a profound sense of divine guidance and purpose. I remember the moment when I knew, without a shadow of a doubt, that Jeff was meant to be my husband. It wasn't just a feeling or a passing thought; it was a deep, undeniable conviction that settled in my heart like a warm embrace from above.

I can recall the clarity