Jealousy Makes You Sick

By Kim Ruff-Moore

Jealousy has always been a topic close to my heart, something that I've felt compelled to explore and understand. I've seen it rear its ugly head in various aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional settings, and it's left me with a burning desire to unravel its mysteries. I find myself constantly confronted with the pervasive presence of envy and jealousy in human interactions. It's like an insidious force lurking beneath the surface, ready to rear its ugly head at any moment. It's a feeling I've dealt with myself at times, and witnessing it in others only amplifies the weariness I feel. I can honestly say, I really don't get jealous often. These emotions seem to serve as catalysts for conflict, as noted in Galatians 5:21, where envy is listed among the works of the flesh. Envy breeds resentment and bitterness, turning friends into enemies and poisoning relationships. It's a mark of unbelievers, according to Romans 1:29, indicating a lack of faith and trust in divine providence.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Ruff Moore Media
• Release date: Feb 21, 2024
• ISBN: 9798223373209

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Introduction

Jealousy has always been a topic close to my heart, something that I've felt compelled to explore and understand. I've seen it rear its ugly head in various aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional settings, and it's left me with a burning desire to unravel its mysteries. I find myself constantly confronted with the pervasive presence of envy and jealousy in human interactions. It's like an insidious force lurking beneath the surface, ready to rear its ugly head at any moment. It's a feeling I've dealt with myself at times, and witnessing it in others only amplifies the weariness I feel. I can honestly say, I really don't get jealous often. These emotions seem to serve as catalysts for conflict, as noted in Galatians 5:21, where envy is listed among the works of the flesh. Envy breeds resentment and bitterness, turning friends into enemies and poisoning relationships. It's a mark of unbelievers, according to Romans 1:29, indicating a lack of faith and trust in divine providence.

But why are people so prone to jealousy? Perhaps it stems from a deep-seated insecurity, a fear of inadequacy or a sense of entitlement. In a society that often measures success and worth in material terms, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparison and coveting what others have. Social media exacerbates this phenomenon, presenting curated snapshots of seemingly perfect lives that can fuel feelings of envy in even the most contented individuals.

I often turn to the teachings of 1 Corinthians 13:4 for guidance. Love is patient, love is kind...it does not envy. These words serve as a powerful reminder of the destructive nature of jealousy and the virtues we should strive to embody instead. Cultivating gratitude, fostering contentment, and practicing empathy are antidotes to envy, allowing us to find joy in the blessings of others rather than resenting them.

Yet despite this knowledge, jealousy persists, buried into the fabric of human nature. It's a constant battle to resist its allure, requiring vigilance and self-reflection. But perhaps therein lies the key to overcoming it – acknowledging our own vulnerabilities and insecurities, and choosing love and compassion over comparison and competition. Only then can we hope to break free from the cycle of envy and build a more harmonious world.

I am a Christian author, so my writings will always reflect my personal worldview. In this book I hope to bring awareness to this horrible spirit coming straight from the enemy. It is my goal to have those who struggle with this chronically to get deliverance.

For me, the journey begins with Lucifer, the original embodiment of jealousy. His envy of Jesus in Heaven serves as a cautionary tale, a stark reminder of the destructive power of jealousy. It's a spirit that I believe is not of God, but rather a force that seeks to divide and conquer.

As I reflect on my own experiences with jealousy, I can recall a few instances where it crept into my life. Like when I was struggling to conceive, or when I found myself envious of a friend's beautiful home, when at that time I was praying for one.

It wasn't that I didn't want them to have these blessings; I just wished I had them too. It's a feeling of not wanting others to surpass us or outshine us,  a sentiment that I've come to realize is all too common. Either way, the feeling did not come from God. If it does not come from God, it comes from the enemy.

I've observed how jealousy can permeate families, passed down from one generation to the next like a toxic inheritance. And while some may dismiss jealousy as a trivial emotion, I've come to understand that for many, it's a significant barrier to experiencing true freedom and fulfillment.

That's why I feel compelled to look deeper into this issue, to shine a light on its dark corners and offer a path to liberation. I believe that by sharing my own struggles and insights, I can help others break free from the stronghold of jealousy and embrace a life filled with love, joy, and genuine happiness. And if my book can make even a small difference in the lives of those who struggle with jealousy, then I will consider it a success.

In my journey of understanding human emotions and spiritual principles, I've come to a profound realization: there truly is nothing new under the sun. The age-old adage encapsulates the essence of our existence, highlighting the cyclical nature of life and the enduring presence of certain emotions like jealousy. Looking into the origins of jealousy unveils its ancient roots, tracing back through the annals of history to our primal instincts and societal dynamics. It's a complex emotion, often stemming from fear, insecurity, and comparison.

To truly grasp jealousy, one must look into its intricacies, unraveling the origin of envy, resentment, and possessiveness that weave its fabric. Understanding jealousy isn't merely an intellectual exercise but a journey of self-reflection, confronting our own insecurities and acknowledging the toxic patterns it breeds in our lives. Yet, beyond the psychological realm, there's a spiritual dimension to jealousy, one that transcends the material and delves into the realm of faith and divine providence.

Jealousy, I've learned, is not merely a personal struggle but a