Learn to say I Love You

By Surya Sinha

Surya Sinha, a human trainer of international fame and one of the no. 1 best-selling author adds a new dimension to learn practicality in his priceless book. A book which will help you be more practical. Innovative techniques to say frankly I Love You.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Diamond Books
• Release date: Dec 7, 2021
• ISBN: 9788128829611

Book preview

First of all,

something straight from

my heart

Every philosophy,

religion, or school of

thought emphasizes

‘love’ is the first and

the last goal of man.

Friends,

As I have said in my earlier books, I have been a successful TV serial and film editor. Many TV serials, edited by me, have been telecast on satellite channels. Those days I was staying in Mumbai, more or less permanently. Success became a heady drink for me and I stepped into the field of film distribution. I had no experience in this field and therefore, suffered heavy losses which rendered me a pauper. I tried to find out the reasons of my failure and losses and concluded that my partners, associates and employees had deceived me. Everybody deserted me in my hard times. Not only this, my family members and my opportunist friends also avoided me. They called me a naive, a fool and what not. Some laughed at me, others passed caustic remarks and ridiculed me. It was during this bad patch of my life I came to realize what goes on in the mind of one who has fallen from heights. I was worried and distracted. Among my detractors were persons to whom I had done a good turn in my happy days. So I felt hurt. I introspected if I was only responsible for fall from the grace.

You will be surprised to know that my introspection led me to conclude that it was entirely my mistake.

Yes, without hesitation, I acknowledge that the entire fault was mine. My biggest fault was my failure to win their hearts. I never said plainly and openly to anyone he belonged to me, and I loved them.

By then it was very late when I came to realize that I was too formal and business like. It was my mistake that I could not develop sincere relations with others. Nor could I induce others to have genial relations with me. The caravan of life kept moving forward. People came to me (for work) and then went away and like a careless person I was just glued to my work.

Both in business and other relations possibly the only reason of my failure was that I did not understand the mood of my colleagues, nor did I ever try to know their feelings. I was always formal, never practical. I thought that I was the sparrow that brought summer. I was at fault. I should have forged linkages at the level of heart. But how could I associate with them; I utterly lacked the art of winning hearts.

Everybody knows that in bad times even one’s own shadow deserts. But I was lucky and due to grace of God I kept my self-confidence intact. I took a firm decision to remove my weaknesses and short-comings and start life afresh. Reposing faith in God, I attended innumerable meditation camps where I meditated. In my spare time, I read the biographies of successful people. Side by side, I analyzed my own mistakes, shortcomings and recklessness along with my plus points. I wanted to reach a firm conclusion as to what went wrong and why my own people deserted me.

Meditation, i.e. intra-personal communication offered me solutions to my numerous problems and I started looking at life again from a beautiful perspective. As a result, I got substantial success and new avenues opened before me. Today, I am again moving towards success, but I have not been able to forget those days when my own people avoided and deserted me. To tell you the truth, I went through a lot of pain and I don’t hesitate in saying that others were not responsible for it. I was at fault. Yes, I was guilty.

One day I thought that I should apprise others about the drawbacks which lead to failure and expose that impracticality and formality, which made others to avoid me. There may be thousands and lakhs of people like me who suffer failure because of their inability to express their love and sincerity and thus are subject of indifference of others. Should I not tell them the secret of success, so as to win others as friends?

It is that art which will lead you to success. First of all, you should get close to others, win their hearts and acquire a skill which, even in the midst of failure, will make you believe that you are not unsuccessful. This rare skill will be able to turn back all failures and will take to success.

Friends! I decided to write this book for this very purpose, so that my readers learn from my experience.

There are many minor things which we neglect because we consider them insignificant. But these very things play a significant role in our success or our failure. Therefore, become practical. Essence of my life is: good public relationship is most valuable and profitable human quality. Your conduct or relationship not only defines your business or professional life, it also provides the most reliable and sound foundations for your social and personal life. If you are not practical even though you are successful in a particular field, remember that the foundation of your success is week. If you falter at any turn of life, then like a house standing on weak foundations, you will collapse in no time. If you are not practical or have not remained practiced in a genial manner, then, as in my case, no one will turn up to help when you fall apart. Even your own people will avoid you and may be you hear a sentence thrown about, He was very proud of himself. Now he will know where he stands.

In such a situation, you will be broken and ultimately fall apart and it will not be easy for you to get back to the normal.

Dear friends! the only purpose of writing this book is to help you get over from draw backs of your personality and not letting these retarding drawbacks to even creep in.

In the present hustle and bustle of life, we are linked with one another for selfish purpose only. This rat race is dangerous. We have to associate with other fellow being through heart for a lasting success in economic, social and familial spheres. The best way to do it is to win over others.

Yours

Surya Sinha

CHAPTER 1

Odyssey of

human development

If you want

to be practical,

then learn to accept,

learn to express

your feelings

and

at the same time

understand the broad

and

comprehensive meaning

of practicality.

F riends!

Everybody wants to succeed, to move forward, and to touch the sky. He wants to be recognized, acknowledged by his name, all over the world.

But is it that easy?

I’ll say, ‘Yes, friends! It is very easy. So easy that you will be surprised’.

But one thing which is necessary for success, for touching and reaching the sky, is your conduct, your relationship with people around you, with whom you are in close contact in your profession. In other words, you can call it your dealing with others,