The Best Marriage Flavours: Volume 2

By Yusuf Wasiu

The Best Marriage Flavours, volume 2, is a book that discussed, how you will not become hopeless in your relationship, how to improve your manner, how to be tolerant, cultivate friendship, and show concerns, good relationship with God, and how to be patience. Marriage should be symbiotic, and both the husband and wife needs to be cheerful givers. You really need to know that, if marriage breaks down, everything in the relationship breaks down, and this will really have adverse effects on the couple, and their siblings. This book, also discussed maturity in marriage, the ability to make decisions, that will have positive impacts in the relationship. Lovers needs to be dedicated to each other, and share love everytime. This book will also enable one to know that women are the keepers of the home, and they can either make or break their home through their decisions, and taking advises from people that does not have the interest of their relationship at heart.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris UK
• Release date: Jun 16, 2015
• ISBN: 9781514460887

Yusuf Wasiu

Yusuf Wasiu is the author of the Best Marriage Flavours, Volume 3. He is an indigene of Ede town, Osun state, western Nigeria, in West Africa. He graduated with higher national diploma in Electrical Engineering, from The Polytechnic, Ibadan, Oyo state, Nigeria, West Africa in 1996. He specializes in electrical power systems and machines. His areas of interests are in the fields of research and development, safety and reliability, construction, health, environment, training, good human relationship, good housekeeping, synergy, team work, motivation, innovation, co-operation, coordination, collaboration, sustainability, interdependence and networking. He is blessed with two children.

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CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

Covenant of Marriage

The Nature of Covenant.

Terms of Covenant

Characteristics of Covenant.

Intimacy in Marriage

Characteristics in Intimacy.

Hindrances to Developing Intimacy

Benefits of Intimacy

Some of the Things that Will Help Intimacy to Grow.

What are the Things for Making Right Choices in Marriage

Marriage Success Systems

Home Success

Ways to Achieve Success in Life.

What do I do to Connect to this Heritage of Success

What is Success?

Three Things to Know to Succeed

Foundation for Success

Access to Divine Secrets

Solomon’s Success Secret Systems

The Virtue of Purpose

Information Systems

Seven Success Habit Systems

The Pillar of Diligence

Diligence Systems

How Can You Cope/Manage Blindness in Marriage?

Patient – Load

Cost of Reflex Lens.

Where to access lens.

Shortsightedness

Children

Age Bracket

Quacks

The Role of Extended Family Between Husband and Wife

Should In-Laws Live With Newly Married Couples?

Becoming a Father Civilizes Men

You Can Be Too Old to Be a Dad

Should Children Sleep on the Same Bed With Their Parents?

If you must allow your children to sleep in the same room with you for whatever reasons, you should consider the following, points

Things parents should know about co-sleeping

What It Takes to Solve Real Life Problems

Causes of Broken Home

Who Has the Right to Take Care of Custody of the Children or Child in the Event of Divorce?

What You Should Do to Avoid Unnecessary Stress Both at Home and Working Place

Intercede in Prayer, for Your Partner, Nation, Family and Those at the Helm of Affairs of Your Country.

The Characteristics of Intercessory Prayer

Perseverance

Focus and Purpose of Intercessory Prayer

Those that Cannot Intercede

How Can You Improve Your Relationship to be Rich?

Who is a Rich Person?

Who is a Man of Influence?

How Do You Fare?

Determining Factors

Improve your social network

It’s Never Too Late to Start

What Do You Have?

How Money Can Create Problems

Money Doesn’t Fulfill Emotional Needs.

A Wealthy Woman Needs More Permission to be Upset

INTRODUCTION

In marital relationship, you really need to take all the factors below into serious considerations.

(a) Do not be hopeless: No matter the situation in life, never lose hope. Your answer lies in the hope in you. The mate you have lost hope of will never come to you. Keep hope alive through what you see in your mind, think about your man, your wedding day, that home you desire and before you know it, hope is kindle.

(b) Improve on your manners: Do you know that you can say the right thing at the wrong time and, at the wrong place? Learn to talk right to friends or any loved ones. That tongue could send away many men or women who could have been yours. Learn to pick your words when you are angry. Learn to be courteous, even to strangers. They could be agents of that change you desire.

(c) Be tolerant: Tolerance is a virtue that every single man and woman should cultivate. Do you know that people do change for better when you are tolerant with them. There is need for you to stick to some habits and tame such persons with love. Learn to be tolerant!

(d) Cultivate friendship and show concern: It might not be your colleague, it could be anywhere! Just be friendly and show genuine concern to people’s problems. Stop putting on an air of you are-not-my-kind everywhere you go. It could be a cleaner’s testimony of your kindness at work that could get you, your mate somewhere. You can never tell how fair the news of your good gestures could get.

(e) Tell God: Some singles tend to push God out of the scene when, issues of marriage partners are concerned. God will always be a help in time of trouble and knows that, what is good for you. Tell him what and whom you desire, and don’t hesitate to say the truth to a spiritual leader concerning your dreams of a mate.

(f) Be patient to observe: Continually listen to your heart.

If you manage to marry a man or woman, he or she will manage to damage you.

Success in marriage is not automatic, there is in fact nothing automatic in life. That you are a believer, prayer, does not guarantee success in marriage. Marriages breakdown because of a lot of people who are unlearned, who are ignorant entering to marriage. Marriage is as old as creation. If the heaven and earth is standing, nothing is wrong with marriage. Wrong motives, and bad marriage operators destroys it, it is an institution where you keep learning. Marriage is highly dynamic.

A change of job can change the character of a husband or wife. A change of car can change a husband or wife. The woman is not sensitive enough, the way you handle a wife who’s a student is not the way you handle wife that is working as her own boss or has someone else as her boss in an establishment, example, a woman working in a bank, who wakes up early in the morning as early as 4:00 am to prepare for work, and come back as late as 10:00pm or on the extreme of 1:00 am everyday. Remember when you both started, and what you are doing to each other then, that you are not doing to each other again, to make each one of you happy and enjoy your union, or marital bliss it was honey, everywhere.

If you see a good driver, that had been driving a car for ten years, and suddenly now have accident, please check, may be he or she is worried about something, or he or she is thinking of something. The bible in the book of Malaki 2:14, Psalm 89:34, Genesis, 2:18, and Genesis 1:2-5 confirm the Word of God concerning marriage. Genesis 1:5 Yet ye say wherefore, because the Lord hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against marriage was put in place by God, so that he can rest in heaven? Marriage is a covenant, instituted by God. The challenges in any home, is not authorized by God. Marriage is as old as creation. Marriage is an establishment, always under attack by the devil. Bad management of marriage leads to divorce in marriage. For example children was not number one in the list of God, it is fellowship. That you are having children is not spirituality. For example, the spirituality level of Adam and Eve was very low when they left the Garden of Eden. They toil and fend