Knowing Who To Marry

By Toby Sam

The success of any house is dependent on the foundation on which it is built. Likewise, the journey to a blissful marriage starts with knowing who to marry. Knowing who to marry is a great task for every single person because many marriages have been wrongly built.

The person you marry will determine your destiny. Many destinies have been sharpened and destroyed because of marriage. If the foundation of choosing who to marry is perfectly and strongly built, there won’t be domestic violence, separation and divorce.

Going into marriage requires knowledge to scale through the challenges of marriage. When your knowledge bank is full, you will know how to tackle issues in your marriage whenever they arise. Marriage is not for babies, boys, girls and immature people. You need to grow your capacity to becoming a man not a boy or girl.

This book will transform you as you read it and meditate on them. The secret to every champion is resident in the applied knowledge they have acquired. When you have adequate knowledge before going into marriage, it will make you a better person.

Toby Sam

• Language: English
• Publisher: TobySam
• Release date: Jun 24, 2021
• ISBN: 9787007692261

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Dedication

I dedicate this book to my queen, my love, my wife and mother of my children. Thanks for your full supports for me and the children.

Disclaimer

No part of this book should be considered legal or professional advice.

Take everything I say in this book as my opinion and regard it as entertainment.

You are responsible for your action by acting on the thought and views shared in this book.

INTRODUCTION

The success of any house is dependent on the foundation on which it is built. Likewise, the journey to a blissful marriage starts with knowing who to marry. Knowing who to marry is a great task for every single person because many marriages have been wrongly built.

The person you marry will determine your destiny. Many destinies have been sharpened and destroyed because of marriage. If the foundation of choosing who to marry is perfectly and strongly built, there won’t be domestic violence, separation and divorce.

Going into marriage requires knowledge to scale through the challenges of marriage. When your knowledge bank is full, you will know how to tackle issues in your marriage whenever they arise. Marriage is not for babies, boys, girls and immature people. You need to grow your capacity to becoming a man not a boy or girl.

This book will transform you as you read it and meditate on them. The secret to every champion is resident in the applied knowledge they have acquired. When you have adequate knowledge before going into marriage, it will make you a better person.

CHAPTER ONE

NO AGREEMENT, NO MARRIAGE

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Marriage is not determined solely by love. But as important as love is in a relationship or marriage, it is just as fundamental. This is why love is never enough. In Amos 3:3 the Bible says, Can two walk together except they be agreed?

Marriage is agreement. If you and your partner disagree about everything, don't switch to the wedding or wedding plans. Come back now!

Many relationships and marriages were not planned, yet the two lovers defied the voice of reasoning. Not agreeing on all salient matters are the main reasons for wrong marriages.

Friends, a troubled marriage is not the same as a wrong marriage. A troubled marriage is attacked by the devil. Whereas a wrong marriage is one that was not intended at all.

Over the years, there has been an alarming growth in the number of wrong marriages and the number of problematic marriages around the world. It should not be according to God's plan.

While a troubled marriage may not be preventable due to our shortcomings, a wrong marriage can be avoided. Unfortunately, many people fall into wrong marriages because of this love is blind syndrome, in large part because of their disregard for caution.

Beloved, love isn't truly blind and must never be during dating and courtship. People who were once completely blind in a relationship now have sad stories about marriage. Being single is an easy way to identify God's will in a life partner.

COMPATIBILITY

Compatibility in this aspect of marriage simply means agreement. Therefore, no agreement, no marriage. Please understand that.

Marriage is not everything. This is serious business and should be contacted in the same way. Never marry from a weak position, but from a strong position. Be kind and don't be desperate for a loved one no matter how much you love them. Never pretend that you have untreated issues in your relationship life.

If you are not satisfied, happy, at peace with yourself about your loved one or your love affair, if you are confused or scared, these are not positive signs. In fact, these are red flags you shouldn't ignore, but which you should resolve by simply ending this love affair without further ado.

So, if you don't agree spiritually, academically, materially, financially, and spiritually, immediately end the relationship as that can never be God's will for you.

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WARNING SIGNALS EXPERIENCE

When you fight, he hits you first. He came back in tears and apologized, saying it was a mistake. It happened another time, and he yelled at you, embarrassed in front of a lot of people, and secretly pleaded with you.

He once got out of his car and attacked the driver, saying it was sheer anger. Another time, after seeing his misbehavior, he stabbed you, pushed you away, and angrily moved away from you.

But later he came back to apologize and said God raised you up

Straighten the curve.

You see a lot of warning signs and lack of confidence. The truth is, faith is not foolish. He said you are his angel and the Lord sent him on his way. Then use the