Romantic and Sexual Satisfaction in Marriage

By Rev. Col. Adeniran Gbolagade Jacob and Rev. Dr. Adeniran Rosita Talatu

The general situations of parental failure due to failures of marriage are the main motivation of this write-up. The most neglected root causes or less talked about causes of failure in marriage is sexual relationship in marriage. This is why this book has attempted to examine and discuss the vitality of healthy sexual relationship as a panacea for collapse of marriages as a result of sexual matters.
Multiple of social events emanating from irresponsible sexual relationship in marriage have compounded our sociocultural lives. The situation is so precarious to the extent that most youths matured for marriage have never even witnessed any good marital relationship for them to emulate. This is due to long-term neglect and negligence of good virtues and sanctities of marriage. In other to join forces with other discerning authors on subject of sexual relationship in marriage to bridge the gap of knowledge of couples and intending couples as to how best to conduct their sexual relationships, with a view to building a strong, lasting marriage. This book is geared towards having a practical reference material for all that want a blissful marriage with high resistance to wrong values prevalence in our society. This book itself is not exhaustive in all issues destroying marriage and homes. It, however, bring to fore the pivotal issue of sexual relationship in marriage that helps cohesion of marriages.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse UK
• Release date: Jun 28, 2016
• ISBN: 9781524635299

Rev. Col. Adeniran Gbolagade Jacob

Rev. Col. Gbolagade Jacob Adeniran is an Accountant, an Entrepreneur, author and a preacher of the gospel with Prophetic anointing preaching both in Nigeria and abroad. He is the General overseer of Assembly of Believers Of Christ Ministry with different branches in Abuja and Lagos. He is army Officer of the Nigerian Army. Rev. Dr. Rosita Talatu Adeniran is a chemical Pathologist, an Investor,an Educationist, an Author and a philanthropist running education scholarship foundation of the girl child who is poor, drop out and victims of domestic violence. She is into micro financing assisting the poor but active micro business owners. She is a Pastor- Teacher by calling in charge of the administration of their Church. Gbolagade and Rosita ADENIRAN have been preaching the gospel interdenominationally and hosting Radio Programme For over Two decades. They have interdenominational quarterly couples' retreats, seminars and workshops. They are blessed with Four Boys.

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Published by AuthorHouse 06/21/2016

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CONTENTS

Acknowledgements

A Word of Welcome

Introduction

Chapter 1

Foundation of a Successful and Romantic Marriage

Chapter 2

Marital Bonding

Chapter 3

Errors, Facts, and Challenges of Marriage

Chapter 4

Sex in Marriage

Chapter 5

Tips to Achieve Sexual Satisfaction

Chapter 6

The Consequences of Sexual Dissatisfaction

Chapter 7

Live Marital Issues Discussed

Bibliography

This book is

dedicated to the glory of God for all homes.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

We acknowledge the help of the Holy Spirit in writing this book. We are indebted to our children, Joshua, Samuel, Joseph, and Daniel, for their understanding and encouragement.

We also acknowledge the typing of Mrs Okunade and Pastor Oluyole’s secretary, who did the initial typing under tight schedule. We appreciate all participants in our couples seminars, workshops, and counselling, whose questions prompted us to write this book for the benefit of humanity.

I recommend this book for every genuine seeker of God’s will in marriage. This book in your hand is a pathfinder, is a book of wisdom and is a key that will open the door of an un-regrettable marital relationship. Why did I say this? Because it teaches you how to discover the right person to marry, how to become the right person yourself; because marriage may be made in heaven but maintenance must be done on earth. This book equally teaches you how to recognize the voice of God, different ways by which God talks to people, the secret of a successful courtship and many more. That is why is a must read for all singles whose desire is to seek the will of God in marriage and how to have a successful marital life. Congratulations! If these are your needs; you don’t need to search any further because the answer is already in your hands through this book.

Pastor Paul D. Oluyole

Freedom Gate Int’l Christian Centre

Author and Motivational Speaker

A WORD OF WELCOME

The situation of parental failure due to failure of marriage is the main motivation for this write-up. The most neglected root cause of failure in marriage is the sexual relationship in marriage. This book has attempted to examine and discuss the vitality of a healthy sexual relationship as a panacea for the collapse of marriages as a result of sexual matters.

Multiple social events emanating from irresponsible sexual relationships in marriages have compounded our sociocultural lives. The situation is so precarious that most youths have never even witnessed a good marital relationship for them to emulate. This is due to the long-term negligence of good virtues and the sanctity of marriage. We join forces with other discerning authors on the subject of sexual relationships in marriages, and to bridge the gap of knowledge of couples as to how best to conduct their sexual relationships, with the view to building a strong, lasting marriage. This book is geared towards having practical reference material for all who want a blissful marriage with high resistance to wrong values that are prevalent in society. This book itself is not exhaustive in all issues destroying marriages and homes. However, it brings to the foreground the pivotal issue of sexual relationships, which affect the cohesion of marriages.

As you read, the Holy Spirit will help you to find relevant help, support, instruction, and information, which will help heal your homes and marriages.

God bless you.

INTRODUCTION

Notwithstanding the fact that God established marriages, different people have different perspectives on what marriage is. To many it is a social contract between a man and woman from a legal perspective. Others see marriage from a traditional point of view, whereby upon maturity tradition requires young men and women to start their lives together.

There are other perspectives of what marriage is to many people, however drawing from the fact that God established the marriage institution, there is a need to put into proper perspective what marriage is as originally planned and ordained by Him. "God wants you to have a