A Christian Woman's Guide to Great Sex in Marriage

By Rhonda Stoppe

Imagine if you had your own PERSONAL MENTOR to help you learn to enjoy sex in your marriage bed…Rhonda Stoppe is that mentor! With her honest, fun-loving manner, and from a biblical perspective in this short–to the point–book, you will feel as though Rhonda is sitting across from you over a cup of coffee to help you learn the secret to becoming the lover you had hoped you would be on the day you said "I do".

Learning to enjoy sex with your man from the PRACTICAL insights in this book can help you:
- Discover ways to delight in sex in your marriage bed
- Find victory over whatever holds you back from enjoying sex with your husband
- Transform the intimacy you experience in your marriage relationship
- Build a NO REGRETS MARRIAGE that others will want to emulate

• Language: English
• Publisher: eBooks2go, Inc.
• Release date: Mar 4, 2020
• ISBN: 9781618131911

Rhonda Stoppe

Rhonda Stoppe is the No Regrets Woman. With more than 30 years of experience helping women build a no regrets lives, she’s committed to fulfill the Titus 2:4 commission by mentoring, teaching and writing books that are inspiring, grounded in Scripture and easy to read.   Rhonda is an author, speaker, and host of the The No Regrets Hour.  An evangelist at heart, sharing the gospel is her sweet spot. Rhonda ministers alongside her husband Steve, who pastors First Baptist Church of Patterson, California. They live out their own Real-Life Romance writing books and speaking at their No Regrets Marriage Conferences, but their favorite ministry is their family. They have four grown children and 10 grandchildren.

Book preview

Rhonda has a gift for writing in a way I feel like I am simply spending time with her visiting over a cup of coffee.

I needed a mentor to help me, and I don’t know that I would have wanted anyone to know I wanted to learn about sex.

A Christian Woman’s Guide to Great Sex in Marriage has helped me to see the act of sex as godly, not secular as I did previously. I plan to put into practice what I have learned with God’s help.

I am convicted by Rhonda’s phrase, living with no regrets. If I apply the principles Rhonda lays out in this book, she seems to make it a real possibility for me to live without regrets, to build a no regrets marriage!

~Anonomous Wife

A Christian Woman’s Guide to

GREAT SEX

In Marriage

By Rhonda Stoppe

Copyright© 2015 Rhonda Stoppe

www.NoRegretsWoman.com

ISBN-13: 978-1-61813-191-1

CONTENTS

1.WHAT HAPPENED?

-When You’re Not the Wild Cat You Thought You’d Be

2.IN-AND-OUT AND NOBODY GETS HURT

-When Quickies are Not Enough

3.SECRETS TO SATISFYING SEX

-When You Discover the Key to Great Sex

4.BUT WHAT IF I STILL DON’T WANT TO?

-When Sex is Truly an Act of Love

INTRODUCTION

You did it—You downloaded an ebook about sex! I am proud of you for your desire to learn valuable insights into how you can develop a GREAT sex life within your Christian marriage.

If you’re anything like the majority of Christian women who are looking for ways to improve the sexual intimacy experience between you and your husband, you may not have an older, more mature woman in your life that you feel comfortable asking about sex.

Titus chapter 2 instructs the older women to teach the younger how to love their husbands, and I take seriously this mandate to train younger women what I have learned from life’s experience, God’s Word, and from mentoring other young women for more than three decades.

I am not a licensed therapist, so I cannot offer any professional advice. But I am an older women who has done a fair amount of biblical marriage coaching along side of my pastor-husband, Steve. From this experience I believe I have gleaned insights that can help you learn to truly enjoy sexual intimacy with your husband.

Over the past twenty years, Steve and I have taken numerous engaged couples through six weeks of premarital training. With week number six being the week we talk about sex. We like to tell our engaged couples, We take you through week six so you won’t have weak sex.

Of the many premarital couples we have mentored, we have been blessed to hear from numerous husbands and wives how that one week spent learning the way God designed their bodies to enjoy intercourse—and how the Lord who created the sexual experience wants His people to find great pleasure in their marriage beds, provided them with satisfying sex lives that tend to grow more pleasurable over the years.

Often, I have thought, What about the married couples who never had anyone tell them how to have great sex? Are they left to figure it out for themselves? How can we help them enjoy sex in their marriages the way God intended?

It is for you sweet girl, I am writing this short ebook. SO LET’S GET STARTED, shall we?

Soli Deo gloria

CHAPTER 1

WHAT HAPPENED?

When You’re Not the Wild Cat You Thought You’d Be

Before you were married did you find you could hardly keep your hands off your man? Did your heart skip a beat when you thought about the day you would be able to have sex as husband and wife?

Whether-or-not you and your husband waited to have sex until you were married, you most likely spent time wrapped in each others arms kissing, and possibly even making out—yes, making out.

If