What Every Woman Wants In a Man

By Jill Charlene Smith

"What Every Woman Wants in a Man" is a book that encourages and challenges women to be honest with themselves about what they are truly looking for in that special someone. So many times, women end up settling for a bad situation rather than be alone because they are not completely honest with themselves or the person they are dating. This book uses personal experiences and the beauty of poetry to inspire self-reflection while exploring the truth of how it is to date at a time such as this.

This book is intended as a tool for women in the dating world to help them achieve their hearts’ desire. The experiences and advice available in this non-fiction account, is designed to help readers not only understand what they are looking for, but also help them find that seemingly "hidden treasure."

Everyone deserves to have that special love.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Oct 10, 2018
• ISBN: 9780359148219

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What Every Woman Wants In a Man

What Every Woman Wants in a Man

Jill Charlene Smith

What Every Woman Wants in a Man

Copyright © 2018 by Jill Charlene Smith. All rights reserved.

No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any way by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopy, recording or otherwise without the prior permission of the author except as provided by USA copyright law.

ISBN:  978-0-359-14821-9

What A Woman Wants

A woman wants a man who values her thoughts.

He thanks her for the supper she made.

He listens when she talks.

....oh yes....

His gaze is fixed on her walk.

Her laughter brings him joy.

Snuggling is a must!

He shares the secrets of his heart.

It hurts him when they fuss.

A woman wants a man, whose heart is knit to hers,

He finds comfort in her arms.

He thinks of her when their apart.

Her gentle kiss somehow makes him stronger.

Her smile touches his heart.

A woman wants a man that calls just to say hello.

He loves the sound of her laughter.

He hates to tell her no.

His voice brightens her day.

His touch makes her feel safe.

He says silly things that make her laugh.

He loves to caress her face.

He’s a loving, attentive man.

He’s gentle yet he’s strong.

He knows who and whose he is.

He knows what he wants.

He’s not afraid of tender moments.

He loves to show he cares.

He’s affectionate and he’s kind.

He even likes to share.

Is this too much to ask?

Does my quest seem extreme?

Does he even exist?

What does a man want?

Does he share the same dream?

A woman wants to be desired.

She wants his feelings to be true.

I wonder if I found what a woman wants.

I wonder if it’s you.

~ Poetry by Jill Charlene

Chapter 1 – So, What Do You Really Want?

Ladies, do we ever really know what we want? We say we want a saved man who’s going to treat us right, but anytime one presents himself (even when he’s good looking), we manage to detect every little fault. On the other hand, every man that is not quite what we need or not what we say we’re looking for, we find every reason why he could be Mr. Right. Is it because we really just like the excitement of forbidden fruit? Or could it be deeper than that?

Sometimes deep down we don’t feel we deserve someone good. Could God love me that much?  Does He really desire to give me what’s best for me? Perhaps our insecurities and low self-esteem sabotage every good relationship.  We tend to have this suspicious little guard up. We look God’s chosen man up and down and say in our hearts, What’s the Catch? Can I really have the desires of my heart?

If we believe that God is who He says he is then we also must believe that He wants His children to live that abundant life. Yes, once and for all, we can have the deluxe package with all the benefits! One of the benefits is having the relationship and spouse God has designed just for us. He really cares that much! Just as God specifically chose Rebekah for Isaac and had a Boaz ready and waiting for a Ruth, He has that special one for you. Yes, He loves you that much!

Something Good

I’ve had the worst. I’ve had the bad. I’ve had those things I shouldn’t have.

Sometimes I feel unworthy to finally have a good thing.

I ask questions like, What on earth could he want with me?

Nah… this can’t be.  Am I good enough to