Getting out of bad relationship

By Pharable

The first thing to remember is not to be attracted to people who always disappoint you.
 You usually notice how bad you felt when you were done with the man who always sat you down.
 If you immediately felt better than you left it, it means that you have your self-esteem again.
 If your self-confidence is very low, you may be attracted to men you don't like too much.
 At least you have something in common, right?
On the other hand, if you have low self-esteem, ask yourself why and what to do about it instead of turning to a man who confirms your worst ideas.

• Language: English
• Publisher: PHARABLE JAMES
• Release date: Jun 17, 2020
• ISBN: 9787089712079

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Disclaimer

No part of this book should be considered legal or professional advice.

Take everything I say in this book as my opinion and regard it as entertainment.

You are responsible for your action by acting on the thought and view share in this book

Content

1. The thought of moving forward

2. Face truth that has never been true

3. Positive come from bad and negative relationship

4. Process of a violent relationship

5. Decide that you are in a violent relationship.

6. The rules of abusive relationships

7. Jealous towards your friends and family

8. Do not answer calls or texts.

9. Why we stay in turbulent relationship

10. Don’t expose yourself to abuse, condemnation and infidelity

11. Important thing is not to stay there.

12. Understand the meaning of tolerance

13. Ways to get out of prison with co-addicts:

14. You are the only person you can fix

Chapter one

The thought of moving forward

In my relationships, I have often thought of moving forward.

There were times when I divorced for a short time and found myself in an invisible force.

There was always a bond which I interpreted as love and which seemed to hold me like an adhesive for the relation on the level of the deep soul.

Leaving was hardly an option as it would have cost a bribe to lose the group.

It was like we were Siamese twins who didn't know which part was mine and which part it was.

Since narcissistic lovers have no real limits, our relationship with these charismatic charms is rather a total fusion of souls.

When he was not in my life, I felt like he was missing a piece of my soul.

Leaving it behind was like leaving a piece of my soul behind.

I tended to romanticize this all-powerful connection and to develop the belief that we were somehow connected.

But intuitively, I always knew that I would be better off without him.

He never assumed emotional responsibility in the relationship.

He was always right and I was always held responsible for everything.

I served an important goal in his life, because without whom would he project all of his deep mistakes? It was logical that my feelings of inadequacy were only reinforced in the relationship.

My old image of me as a strong, capable, loving, and caring woman slowly disappeared until I was only the shadow of my old self.

His confidence now seems to be increasing

Her life has improved! He realized his dreams when a mine collapsed.

What was wrong with this photo? I was so wrong.

The conclusion was that there was a serious imbalance in this union and that affected me negatively. Sorting out everything in the relationship was usually too confusing, so the only choice was to leave. Under the two narcissistic conditions, I told myself that love, if it were real, would survive divorce.

After all, there is real love, right?

But the two times I left the relationship, the truth I had hidden came to the surface of my consciousness like a tsunami.

As long as I followed the line in the relationship and I was a good, kind, and kind little girl, everything was relatively calm.

But when I dared to question the integrity of the relationship and regain my power, hell was unleashed. How dare me! How dare I will be strong and capable and regain my strength!

It flourished on my strength! The part I gave him! He felt powerful and I felt helpless!

To regain my power would mean that it upset his fragile balance.

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