How to Re-Design Yourself

By Suzanne Hanson

How to Re-design Yourself is a book of how to design yourself so that you like you. It is based on true life events that Suzanne Hanson has lived and shows real life examples of some of the shitty things that happen in life and how to take the worst experiences and turn them into a blue print plan to re-design and discover who you are really meant to be.

The exercises in this book are the tools that Suzanne used to find out and apply who she really is and can help you find out who you really are, who you are meant to be and how to live a life that you design.

This book is designed to get you to take action and get the life you want.

When you have been hit by life and all your dreams and hopes have been shattered, When youre whole belief system has broken down, When the tunnel ahead looks dark, Do not give up yet!

Pick up this book and read it.

This could be the book that changes your life!

I realize that I cant help everyone and as you read this some of you will think of me as a genius while others may question my ways, but if it can help at least a few of you if not many I will have done my job as an author and have completed one of the chapters in my own personal life book future.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Trafford Publishing
• Release date: May 30, 2009
• ISBN: 9781425162894

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© Copyright 2011 Suzanne Hanson.

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the written prior permission of the author.

Printed in the United States of America.

isbn: 978-1-4251-6287-0 (sc)

isbn: 978-1-4251-6289-4 (e)

Trafford rev. 04/25/2011

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By Suzanne B. Hanson

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About the Author: Suzanne Hanson

I spent three years of my life working on this book and on my self-improvement. I hope that this book will help some of you to improve your life too!

I would like to send a special thanks to my Editor Sigrid Macdonald and to the many people at Trafford Publishing for making this book a reality.

I wish to send a special thanks Elyse Dufour for his understanding, compassion and his dedication to me and to my children for their patients, understanding and love.

I dedicate my book to Curtis Hanson, Jesse Hanson and Katrine Beausoleil, your light up my life!

Love always mom!

Table of Contents

Chapter 1….. Time Is a Killer or Is It?

Chapter 2….. You Are Special!

Chapter 3….. Being Alone

Chapter 4….. Acceptance

Chapter 5….. Redefining Yourself

Chapter 6….. Belonging, Understanding and Acceptance

Chapter 7….. Who Are You Really?

Chapter 8….. Dream a Better Dream!

Chapter 9….. Go Ahead—Make it Happen!

Chapter 1

Time Is a Killer or Is It?

This is a chapter about time. It is about how seconds turn into minutes that turn into hours, days, months and even years. I once had a moment but the moment wasn’t just a moment. It was combined with time and turned into years! What is difficult about moments alone is when you feel you need people around you to survive, and then you don’t have anyone or any place to go where you feel welcome.

Time, tic-toc, tic-toc, this seems to be the loudest of sounds and the most painful one too. The sound of the clock ticking heavily as if it is loudly thumping a hole into your heart, stealing and fading your happiness and strength to nothing. You start to cry and feel as though you are going out of your mind. You just wish that someone would call or stop by just to end this awful, painful feeling of total aloneness. You don’t hear any other sounds and so you wait and wait and wait. Until … nothing!

I did this waiting for quite a while, until at some point I decided to make a move. I called someone I had met a while back who seemed friendly and nice. Unfortunately, this was the case only for a short while because, you see, alcohol was a factor and after six p.m. she turned into the she-devil. She is a real-life version of Jekyll and Hyde. She would not think twice about causing you the most grief that she could provoke and did this simply to amuse herself. This person entertained herself by playing on the weaknesses of others. She would lure people in by pretending to care and wanting to help them until these people became so thankful, they felt they needed to repay her in some way or another. This is where she would get you and boy, did you pay! She would get you to lend out money till you had nothing left or she would get so involved in your life that she could manipulate the characters surrounding you by getting them and you involved in a backstabbing scheme. She would make you out to be the initial designer in a hurtful scheme or in some painful gossip story that she created. She did not stop there; you see, her main goal, if not for the money, was to make herself look like a hero where she would come out smelling like roses. Once you, or the other victim of her scam, were hit by the situation, she would tell you that she was the only one who could save you! Like I said, a real she-devil! This is how she passed her time.

I guess this is one way to stop the boredom, to destroy any human dignity that one has left in order to make yourself feel better. Dignity may not be a word that is in her vocabulary. If she is not preying on other people’s weaknesses, she is playing the victim only to lure you in. She even went as far as sleeping with her own father in order to say that she