Social Skills: Social Fluency: Genuine Social Habits to Work a Room, Own a Conversation, and be Instantly Likeable

By Patrick King

Do you DREAD networking events? Parties where you don’t know anyone? Work functions?

Social situations where you need to be able to turn it on at a moment’s notice – they’re horrible aren’t they? Having to put a face on, perk up, and have the same conversation for hours? Draining.

These situations can be terrible if you don’t have the genuine social habits to deal with them optimally time after time... What are genuine social habits?

How about: the power to turn on your best moods on in a snap, overcome your social excuses, condition people to be attracted to you, and master the best mindsets to connect with people? In this book you’ll find the secrets to be ready for any social situations... and expertly navigating social situations is the key to unlocking everything that you want in life – friends, love, and career. When you cultivate genuine social habits, you won't have to say a word for people to be drawn to you!

Learn the genuine social habits that will let you be socially fluent on command, while taking your social and interpersonal skills to the next level. Social Fluency draws upon my years of date and social skill coaching, as well as study of human nature and psychology, to teach you exactly the ways you can develop your social self... to the point that working a room, owning a conversation, being instantly likeable – just inevitable side effects that you’ll embody! These are highly nuanced and insightful techniques into what makes people tick and act the way they do.

What’s inside? How about the following ways to change your life:

✅ How an accountability buddy for social skills can push you to the next level.
•Breaking down the components of your best and most social moods so you can call them up – anytime.
•The two best approaches to talking with big groups.
•The surprising way your barista or cashier can help you build your social habits.

What, theres more?

•The best mindset about conversations and how it will result in you never being boring again.
•Exactly how social skills and social fluency are learned by modeling and observation.
•Why being completely yourself allows you to find your tribe instantly.
•BONUS - the ONE exercise you can do today to increase your social confidence.

Learn to master genuine social habits and you will simply be the person in the room that everyone is drawn to – without having to say a word! You’ll never depend on the right witty phrase at just the right time if your social habits are on point. You will appear exactly how you envision you appear, and projecting the best version of yourself will pay dividends in all aspects of life. You’ll break out of your introverted shell. You will be able to approach any social situation with excitement instead of anxiety, boredom and dread.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Patrick King
• Release date: Apr 4, 2020
• ISBN: 9780463177662

Patrick King

Patrick King is a social interaction specialist/dating, online dating, image, and communication and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. His work has been featured on numerous national publications such as Inc.com, and he’s achieved status as a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author. He writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. Learn more about Patrick at his website, patrickkingconsulting.com.

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Social Fluency: Genuine Social Habits to Work a Room, Own a Conversation, and be Instantly Likeable

By Patrick King

Social Interaction and Conversation Coach at www.PatrickKingConsulting.com

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The Checklist describes in-depth the 7 essential components to exceptional interactions and conversations between you and everyone from a stranger to your partner – and The Worksheet puts a few of those components to the test with practice exercises that will instantly upgrade any conversation.

Learn how to:

Make people comfortable

Connect easily in any context

Develop killer eye contact

Prepare for any social situation

Appear as intuitive as a mind reader

Never run out of things to say

Practice and drill all of the above

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Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Chapter 3

Chapter 4

Chapter 5

Chapter 6

Chapter 7

Chapter 8

Chapter 9

Chapter 10

Chapter 11

Chapter 12

Chapter 13

Chapter 14

Chapter 15

Chapter 16

Chapter 17

Chapter 18

Introduction

I’ll never forget the day I met Janice.

Partially because she was one of the most beautiful women I’d ever seen in real life… but mostly because I was flabbergasted that she was actually interested in me.

Despite my profession these days, I’m what you’d call a late bloomer. It took a while to come out of my shell and become truly comfortable with my identity, while simultaneously striving to improve all aspects of it.

Naturally, college was not an experience I’d describe as ideal, as I was just seeing other guys succeed socially and with women in ways that I could only dream of. Coincidentally, I feel that this experience allows me to be that much more effective in my line of work, as I can commiserate with exactly what they are feeling.

So when I met Janice, I was in no way, shape or form prepared for her. I was bookish, poorly dressed, and much more introverted than I am now. Despite her plethora of options, she opted to take an interest in me and apparently saw my diamond in the rough.

She asked me out for a drink and I readily agreed by telling her that I was free the next two weeks, not even knowing how to hide my eagerness. To her credit, things between us were great... when we were alone. I was truly comfortable with her and overcame many insecurities to open myself up to her. She was incredibly understanding and empathetic.

But once we took the leap of introducing each other’s friends, the relationship was noticeably strained in a way that I couldn’t figure out at first. I distinctly remember feeling invisible when we were out with her friends, even to her. If there was a hole in the ground, I would have jumped into it in a second, and not because of her friends, who were nice as could be.

I just didn’t possess the social habits necessary to successfully connect with people and navigate social situations at that point. I didn’t know how to connect with others on a deeper level than the weather, and it became all too apparent that it was Janice’s superior social habits and focused effort that even allowed us to be dating in the first place.

As soon as I made that realization, she did too… and she was gone shortly thereafter.

A difficult lesson learned, but a lifetime of perspective gained.

I eventually learned that my social outcomes are truly 100% within my control, and that placing dependence on someone else to carve out a spot at the table for you – that’s a losing proposition. I had to develop the social habits I wanted for myself, and discovered that