Whether you’re on a quest for your special someone, or want to take your relationship to an entirely new level, then do we have the show for you!
Today we’re interviewing Mali Apple and Joe Dunn, relationship coaches extraordinaire, speakers, and best-selling authors of The Soulmate Experience and the Soulmate Lover.
Today we’ll be talking about attracting a soulmate, nourishing your soulmate, being a soulmate, and a soulmate approach to life…That, plus maybe just a bit on sex, something they’re known to write about too!
Topics Include:

Being Mindful
Playing with the edge to keep things new and fresh
What is a soulmate experience

Anyone can have this experience of total connection – doesn’t require a one and only
Soulmate experience can be with anyone

Family
Co-workers
Friends






Begins with the relationship of yourself

Not looking for someone else to complete you or to fix your self-esteem
Why Tom Cruise’s “You Completely” is dangerous!


Helping the other heal brings you closer together
Being able to reframe everything
How am I looking at my reality? How I’m looking at the world completely effects my world.
Body image – The Importance of Being Comfortable With One’s Body

How it’s a mirror at the county fair.
How we see ourselves is not how others, or our spouse sees us.


When we look at ourselves we see the things we don’t like and we reinforce them

Instead we should be looking for the Mirror-cles


Self-inventory – look at every aspect of who you are

Including addictions

Including social media – that pull towards is there something important


Reducing baggage
How do you become aware of your baggage?

Go ask your last partner!
Sometimes baggage isn’t really baggage, but could be gifts

Such as kids, which you may think are “baggage” where others see they’re incredible gifts!
Re-framing “baggage” as an asset is incredibly empowering.


Often don’t see our own talents and abilities

Ask your best friends “what are my free greatest gifts?”


Having a magical space where negativity doesn’t exist.
Scrubbing away the negativity

Changing your mind
Loving your body
Removing your baggage
Raising your soulmate potential – the mindsets to give you the greatest potential to find and maintain a really incredible potential
One very practical thing you can do, look at the expectations you have and see how many are valid and how many can you do without. The more you can do without the more likely you’ll be able to connect with someone on a soul level.

Letting go of all the superficial stuff that gets in the way


Law of attraction

The most powerful way is to get the feeling and the energy and let go of the particulars of what that looks like. The universe knows better than you…let go of the limiting beliefs and need to control and trust the universe.
Don’t be limited by your list
Mali would have never have found Joe
Have an energetic feeling and let the rest go.
Staying in a place of gratitude – they’re just temporary, they’re just a guest.
Staying in touch with the fact of how short our lives are, but helps us stay in touch with the gratitude
Having a guest card, like a get-out-of-jail card.
What is true commitment?

Not a fearful or manipulative thing.
Most people’s commitment is coming from a place of fear












Should be commitment made out of love


Do you need to keep repeating a commitment to love to yourself – staying mindful

Is awareness of the great relationship and wanting it to continue


“Context” an idea of what you have to offer to the relationship

Idea of what I have to offer rather than what you have to give


Why jealousy can be a good thing!

A very juicy, alive feeling.
Often attracted to other people, how you deal with that is what’s most important




She wants him to be attracted to other people, keeps him feeling alive


Free to be yourself


Why innocent flirtation can be healthy

Playful I see you, you see me


How to move past resentments
Making positive changes allows you to attract the pe