Forrest and Dr. Rick both identify as “reformed rigid people,” and in this episode they explore how to become more psychologically flexible. Just like how physical flexibility is the amount of stretch in our muscles, the ability they have to bend without breaking, psychological flexibility is the same quality in our minds. It helps us look at situations in new lights, be open to our emotions, let go of old versions of ourselves, and step into new ways of being. They talk about rigidity as a form of psychological defense, the motivations for rigidity, the trap of assumptions and limiting beliefs, releasing attachment, and embracing new ways of thinking. Watch the Episode: Prefer watching video? You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction1:35: Choice, and the tradeoff between flexibility and speed2:55: Rigidity, agency, and flexibility in relationship7:50: Behavioral vs. psychological choices10:30: The dock and the river, and self-protection15:40: Inflexibility as a means to an end17:30 Tools to inquire into your rigidities20:50: When others’ behavior isn’t about you23:20: Assumptions and limiting beliefs27:35: Willingness to change, and comfort in feeling change34:10: Releasing attachment to your ‘place’39:50: Understanding the function of your rigidity41:35: Over-identification with goals and accomplishments44:40: Stepping into the river45:20: Recap Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.Sponsors: This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp, and you can join over a million people using the world’s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!Want to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.Connect with the show:Subscribe on iTunesFollow Forrest on YouTubeFollow us on InstagramFollow Forrest on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookVisit Forrest's website