Benefits of Boredom

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Benefits of Boredom

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Do you encourage boredom? Or do you run from it? Most people are afraid of boredom and think something is wrong if they feel bored. I want to flip the script on this idea. I want to share 5 benefits of boredom and encourage you to build the skill of boredom. Show Notes

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