Stop Simpin in Cyberspace

By Shawn James

What is a Cyber Simp? A Cyber Simp is a guy who spends his time online pandering to women on the Internet such as Instagram models, cam girls, cosplayers, and e-girls in the hopes of winning them over. In this book men will learn why chasing these female predators online by dropping direct messages and donations through superchats and Ca$happ to get their attention is a waste of their time and all the tricks they use in their trade to enrich themselves at their expense.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Shawn James
• Release date: Dec 31, 2022
• ISBN: 9798215920381

Shawn James

Shawn James is the author of over seventy Books. A graduate of Monroe College he's been writing fiction and nonfiction for twenty years.

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Stop Simpin In Cyberspace

By Shawn James

Copyright © 2021 Shawn James

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Chapter 1

Definition of a Cyber Simp

What is a Cyber Simp? A Cyber Simp is a guy who spends his time online pandering to women on the internet in the hopes of winning them over.

Cyber Simps are socially awkward guys who are too afraid to pursue relationships with women in the real world. Because many of these men lack social skills they think interactions with women in cyberspace are the equivalent of a connection in real life with a woman.

Who is a Cyber Simp?

That guy dropping thirsty comments on the Instagram posts of a so-called model,

That guy watching the livestream of an e-girl spending his money on superchats just to get her to call his name,

That guy paying for cam shows and subscriptions to a site like OnlyFans to be able to see exclusive photos livestreams, and videos of a cosplayer, porn star or a stripper online,

That guy who peruses the profiles of women on online dating sites looking for the girl of his dreams,

That guy paying a dating coach to show him the secrets to getting laid,

That guy ordering mail order brides online,

And that guy buying sex dolls and thinking it’s a viable alternative to a relationship with a woman.

Most Cyber Simps believe that if they spend money on a woman online it’ll increase their chances of having a relationship with her in real life. However, many of these men don’t understand that they never had a chance with those women at all. Many of the women they’re looking at on social media like Instagram, Twitch livestreams, or on subscription sites like OnlyFans are female predators putting on a persona to get the attention of naive and gullible men to get them to spend their money on them. And while these women are living lavish lifestyle at their expense, many of these men are sitting at home in front of their computers with ashy dicks, dry balls, and empty bank accounts.

Why should a man stop being a Cyber Simp? Because a dream of a relationship with a virtual woman is not a real one. And real life is too short to waste it on an imaginary woman. There are too many great women out there in the real world for a guy to waste his time trying to chase a fantasy that never existed outside of someone’s webpage.

Can a guy stop being a Cyber Simp? Yes he can! All it takes for a guy to change is to realize that the Internet is not the real world. And that there are lots of great women out there. Yeah, it will be tough in the beginning as a guy goes out here and learns how to interact with women face-to-face, but once he works past his fears, anxieties and social awkwardness, he can go on to have great relationships with real women in the real world.

Chapter 2

How A Man Becomes A Cyber Simp

How do boys and men become Cyber Simps? Easy. They’re raised with technology but given no guidance from their parents.

Over the last 40 years as we’ve entered the information age, many young boys grew up with computers. And while the computer offered them a gateway to the information superhighway that took them to anyplace in the world, it couldn’t teach these boys the life skills they needed to survive on that road. Those had to come from their parents.

Unfortunately, many of these boys’ parents didn’t have the time to teach them the life skills they needed to survive in the world. Some were busy with their careers. Others weren’t there because they were forced to leave the home due to divorce. A few neglected their sons because they were dealing with their own personal issues and addictions. And a handful passed away before they could impart their knowledge to their boys.

What made things worse for many of these boys is that they grew up in homes without fathers. And because they grew up in homes without fathers there was no man to teach them how to navigate the world socially. The world works differently for men than it does for women and without a father there to take them places and model how a man socializes with both men and women many of these boys didn’t learn how to develop their interpersonal skills. And because many didn’t learn how to develop their interpersonal skills with real people they became introverts.

Many of these introverted boys and young men fear face-to-face interactions with people and oftentimes avoid them. Some avoid them because they weren’t raised to develop their interpersonal and social skills. Others avoid engaging in conversations with people because they have had traumatic experiences when they tried to socialize with them. A few were bullied and humiliated in public spaces like school and work.

As a result of these negative experiences regarding social situations with people, these boys and young men withdrew to the Internet to avoid having to deal with socializing with real people in public. Instead of learning how to work through their shyness, social awkwardness, and social anxieties, they compensated for their lack of social skills by learning how to communicate with others on the information superhighway known as the Internet. In the intimacy of their bedrooms, libraries and office spaces, these boys and young men found it easier to communicate with people in chat rooms and message boards in the early days of the Internet. Because there was no one there to harshly criticize them for their social mistakes like in the case of face-to-face contact, these boys felt safe about expressing themselves online.

As time progressed and message boards and chat rooms evolved into modern social media sites like Twitter, Facebook, Instagram and YouTube, many of these boys and young men growing up into manhood felt more comfortable engaging with a woman halfway across the globe than the girl next door. Unfortunately, chatting with a woman online doesn’t help a man