I say as my friend holds up her phone. We are having lunch and she’s showing me a screenshot taken from a chat with a man she met online. We do this all the time: sharing receipts from conversations we’ve had on dating apps, laughing, or cringing at the weird things strangers say to us. And it seems fine, because we are only showing each other, in person or in our private chats, and everyone does it. It is no big deal, right? Maybe not. But does the moral code change when you go public?
These days, our lives are inherently lived online. And we share almost everything—whether intentionally or not—with millions of strangers on the internet without much thought. So it is no surprise