The Cesspool of Online Dating

By Caleb Powers

"I suggest men never use dating apps and put them out of business for their shady practices. Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are notorious for having paywalls. Those apps are designed to keep you coming back and give you that dopamine rush of matching, just like slots at a casino. This is a man's guide to optimizing your success online in a game rigged against the Average Joe." - Caleb Powers

In this groundbreaking guide to online dating, the author Caleb Powers packages his experiences with hundreds of women and several hours on dating apps to teach men the true nature of women and how to play the dating game to successfully transform their lives.

• This book is a compilation of skills that will transform you into the ultimate online dating expert by teaching you:
• How to build a successful online dating profile
• How to decode women's online profiles
• How to get the first kiss
• Sex on the first date
• The type of women to avoid (red flags)

and much more.


About the Author:
Caleb Powers is a retired veteran Navy helicopter aircrewman who specialized in SAR, honorably completed one tour in Iraq, and spent time as a Navy recruiter, where he learned to mentor and mold men into their true potential. He now commits his life to building strong men and helping them succeed in all areas of their lives.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Caleb Powers
• Release date: Feb 11, 2023
• ISBN: 9798987587232

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Caleb Powers

The Cesspool of Online Dating

A Man’s Guide

Copyright © 2023 by Caleb Powers

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Contents

Introduction

1. The Cesspool of Online Dating

Let The Dating Games Begin

Even If You Match, the Battle is Not Over

Texting Script That Works Like Magic

The Script

Leads and Sales: Working Your Inbox

Always Confirm Your First Date

Always Follow Up

Pre-Date Strategies

Never Do Dinner on the First Date

Always Set Up a Time Constraint

Get a Full-Body Picture

First Date Strategies

Escalation and Touch

Mimicking Behavior

Eye Contact and Smiles

Going for the Kiss

Setting up the Second Date

Sex

The Moment of Truth

We Shouldn’t Be Doing This.

Setting Up Your Profile and Photos

Your Bio Should be K.I.S.S.

Don’t Say Things Like…

Women’s Profiles and What They Actually Mean

Sample of a Typical Woman’s Dating Bio

Red Flag Catch Phrases and Traits

Foodie.

Love to travel.

I’m sarcastic, or I have a sassy attitude.

Not here for hookups.

I’ve had my fun and am ready to settle down.

Live, laugh, love.

Astrology Queens

I like to have a good time and go out with friends.

Says, just ask In her bio

A Laundry List of Criteria

Single Moms

Divorced Women

My kids come first.

30+ Year-Old Women

Dog Mom or I have fur babies.

Hit me with your best pickup line.

HMU on IG, Snapchat, or OnlyFans

Messages That Come On Too Strong

I’m probably funnier than you.

Hobbies and Interests to Avoid

Mental Health Awareness

Self-Care

Have Children and Want More

Gym, Yoga, Fitness

Vaccinated

Profile Pictures of Women and what to Avoid

Never Ever Catfish

Features Excessive Alcohol

Includes Their Kids in pics

With Other Dudes

Any Kissy Face or Snapchat Filters

Holding Fish

Excessive Tattoos or Piercings

Only Group Photos

Shows Only Their Face and is Heavily Filtered

Avoid Frequent Flyers

Women Have Unrealistic Expectations

2. High-Value Men Play the Field

3. Red Light, Yellow Light, Green Light… Go!

Red Lights Are a No-Go

Single Moms

Social Media Validation Vixens

Energy Vampires

Cheaters and Promiscuous Women

Excessive Male Friends and Ex-Boyfriends

Extreme Jealousy

Will Not Admit Fault or is Always the Victim

Bad With Money

Feminists

Divorced Women

Addiction Problems

Violent Behavior

Mental Health/Medication

Crabs in a Bucket

Yellow-Light Behavior

Perpetual Online Daters

Heavily Tattooed and Pierced

Hates Your Friends and Family

Women Over 30

Green Light, Go!

Free-Thinker

Confident

Self-Aware and Accountable

Cheerleader

Maintains Her Health and Wellness

Has Respectable Values

4. Grooming and Style

Hair and Beard

Ears

Teeth

Shower Daily

Fingernails

Lotions and Skin Care

Manscaping

Cologne

Dress to Impress

5. Chasing The Dragon

Sources

Introduction

Online dating for men in their 20s, 30s, and 40s can be highly exhausting. We are slowly getting to the point where everything we do these days is online. We lead busy lives, always on the go, and finding companionship online has become the norm. Getting good at online dating will give you the advantage other men don’t have. If you want to be successful, you have a lot of work to do if you are average-looking. Take an honest assessment of your looks, money, status, and game. How would you rate yourself from 1-10? If you fall below a 7, you have much work to do. Women only swipe right on the top 5% of guys. Their criteria is based on superficiality only, so you have got to increase your sexual market value. These women have so many guys in their inboxes, and they will disqualify you for the littlest reason. You can be average-looking, but with great photos, we can increase your odds of getting matches. In this book, I will discuss several strategies and things to look out for on your journey. These dating apps are full of society’s leftover women, but occasionally you can find a unicorn.

Women have been led to believe they are the prize and can do no wrong. They have overinflated egos from the amount of attention they get from these dating apps. There are 75 guys for every 25 girls, so competition is fierce. You have to separate yourself from the pack. You must get in shape, grow your wealth, and lead an interesting life to have a chance if you are just average. It is imperative to get professional photos done and, at a minimum, have a friend or family member take some quality pictures if you cannot afford it.

Getting matches and dates is only half the game to master, unfortunately. Sitting face-to-face and learning how to go from conversation to sex in a few dates is another. Knowing what to look out for and the women to avoid will also save you from wasting your time on these castaways. Scoring dates with women you meet online will become easy if you get good at playing the game. Every woman says they are looking for love, but let’s be honest, they are all just looking for something casual under the guise of a long-term relationship. They