The Vigorous Lifestyle of Dating

By Calvin B. Shivers

This book is about the vigorous life style of dating that changes course every
time a person surfs the web. Making dating sites of all the familiar chat
rooms give chase, where dating is a means of finding out what you like
and dislike about a persons, attitude, character, behavior. Which is modified
by peoples over all sickness on how they act and think. No one is sincere any
more and it seems like every body and their momma wants to have someone
new. In my book you will be able to gain insight on a forever changing dating
process while giving a person a chance to reevaluate their thoughts and feelings
about what they may or may not think about the person they are dating. It will
also open up new ideas on the type of people to look for without becoming
to judgemental about a person because they dont think the way you do. The
idea of this book is for people to follow protocol sense dating has become more
and more complexed, my book will guide you through certain situation that will
identify the perfidy of the poisonous people you come in contact with. Helping
men and women gravitate to a more unique means of question and answers that
they may not other wise never have.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: Mar 29, 2012
• ISBN: 9781468549416

Calvin B. Shivers

I was born in Lansing Michigan August 6th 1964 I grew up briefly in Florida and soon after moved to California to begin a life with plenty of sunshine and lots fun. Like any other curious little boy I was always fascinated by bugs, animals, plants and trees. My mom thought I would grow up a veterinarian because I loved to care for animals so much. However, that never happen as the wheels of life kept turning time would reveal another side to me that was much more complex. As I grew older I found myself wanting to travel, so at eighteen I left home to explore the many avenues of life. I always wanted to do something that I could share with others. I spent the majority of my time at beaches reading paperback novels, and watching the tides roll in and out to sea. It wasn’t until I read Dean Koontz, and Sidney Sheldon when I had became truly inspired by the way they presented their stories of fiction. I really liked the way they told stories that would linger in my mind for days about some of the things they said in their books that had me thinking, what if some of the stories were true. I welcome the day when I could write like them and become a famous writer for people to enjoy my books. My hobbies are fishing, hiking, swimming, and reading a good novel. I relay enjoy the great outdoors because that’s when I truly feel connected to life, hearing the sound of the birds and watching all the different little animals running and playing had me wondering, what it must really feel like to be free and worry about absolutely nothing but surviving.

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Contents

Dating

Never Date

Contact

The Hunt

High Impact

Show Confidence

Do It in Moderation

Dress To Impress

Hygiene Means Everything

Being Stood Up

Most Impressive

Never Talk About

Past Relationships

Be Honest With Your Date

Sexual Exploits

Idle Conversation

What To Look For

In Body Language

A Woman’s Insecurities

Dating Online

Supposedly Single Women

Indication Of Not Interested

The More Subtle Approach

Stay Away From Fake Bitches

What Makes Dating So Unique

Each Woman Is Different

Getting To Know Her

Trust

Behave Your Self

Herpes And

Other Venereal Diseases

Can She Be The One

Women That’s Been Divorced

Clever Women

Research Taught Me

Give Me Some Play

When Dating Two Women

To Date With Sophistication

There Is No Secret To Dating

Diversify Your

Option When Dating

A Woman That’s

Willing To Experiment

Male And Female Species

The Threat of A Predator

The Game Of Chance

Out Of Touch

If She Is Close To Her Daddy

When A Woman Show Cleavage

Covering Your Bases

Know What A Woman Wants

If A Woman Is Separated

How A Woman Thinks

When A Man Shares His Woman

If You Just Got

Out Of A Relationship

Illegal Citizens On Sites

Mixed Up Women

Women Thats Been Hurt

Dating Women

That’s Out To Hurt You

Women Lie More Than Men

Don’t Date Women In Morn

Don’t Date

Very Religious Women

A Womans Scorn

What Happen to Your Feet

Have A Strict Don’t Tell Rule

Don’t Date Abusive Guy’s

Emotions Take

Women Day By Day

Women That Don’t

Want To Be Controlled

Dating Women

In Other Countries

Dazed And Confused

Pointing Out His

Or Her Short Comings

When You’re Not Compatible

Change Of Ideas

Difference In Matter Of Opinion

Men Have Feelings Too

Dating Women That’s Curious

Dating Controlling Women

Dating Controlling Men

Women That

Like Being In Control

Don’t Date Men

That’s Been With Other Men

When Dating Certain Women

Don’t Leave Long

Messages To Women Online

Date With Confidence

Playing The Mind Game

The Short Comings Of Loneliness

The Power Of Words

Dating In Both Direction

Sick And Psychotic Dates

Bad behavior Patterns

Rude And Obnoxious Dates

Knowing When

To Leave Your Date

A Calculated Misfortune

What Went Wrong In Her

Emotional Decision Daters

Dream Dates

An Open Door Inside Dating

Close Your Minds Door To No

Personality Disfigurement

Detachment Eye’s

Don’t Be A Lost Soul

If He Is Anything Like His Mother

Don’t Date A Flunky Punk Man

Male Jackasses With Large Ego’s

Twisted Sista’s

Those Guy’s With Pants Sagging

Don’t Date

The Bottom Of The Barrel

Chapter-1

Dating

If you have a date with a lady you just met from one of the dating sites, and you exchange phone numbers. When the following Monday arrive and you decide to give her a call to express your gratitude for the wonderful time spent together at the restaurant and movies. If she doesn’t respond to your verbal or texted messages that you sent. Make it a three day rule not to call her until that coming Thursday of the week. If she still don’t respond chalk it up as a learning experience and move on, no doubt she probably has a man on the side or she’s simply not interested in you.

Chapter-2

Never Date

When a woman has three or more children expect drama, any woman with that many kids is not looking for a serious relationship. Unless it’s with the kids farther, and since that’s not going to happen any time ever considering their past. You might want to find a woman with less luggage, like one or two kids where the mother has more control. If not, and you continue dating this kind of woman with three or more kids. You will only find yourself helping her keep food in her refrigerator paying most of her bills, and babysitting her badass kids if they are not of age to watch themselves. My suggestion to you is run, run as fast as you can and try to stay away from women with kids.

Chapter-3

Contact

A physical attraction is one the most psychological traits of the human species, which is a curiosity in us based on our emotion that we feel. People are attracted to one another by sight when we show interest in who we see and what we like. Singles dating has become more sexual than inhibited, expressing what we want inspite of our plans of what we need. It consumes us of the possibilities on what we all have become considering the facts about how we live our lives.

Chapter-4

The Hunt

In the mood for love, just like shopping for a car a women have her own unique characteristics. What a man look for in viewing a woman shape, size, eye’s and smile, with certain facial features that appeal to our sense of taste in the kind of woman we would like to have. While seeing these women on a computer screen we cannot determine what her behavior pattern is like by a simple profile. However, in most cases we can chat online and send messages only to find some women with screwed up attitudes and mixed up minds whenever they present themselves as real. They come off like they are so interested in you then like a child in candy store they want everything that’s meant be to ordered, what a slut; However, each woman is different in their action as far as finding a man and most are truly looken to find a compatible mate depending on the nature of her social involvement.

Chapter-5

High Impact

The first barrier in getting next to a women is improachment, taking gradual steps to advance beyond the brick walls she has put up over her past relationships. Don’t come off with a line like some young teenager having one thing in mind. Just be yourself without violating her right of space, always be polite when making your intention clear. Let her know you are available and ask if she is single. A key method of phrase is I like what I see; No matter what her response is you are sure to get a smile with an indication if she is interested in you or not.

Chapter-6

Show Confidence

Choose a woman that is compatible to you, make sure she is the type of lady that you like and want her to be. When a women is not willing to go that extra mile for her man, this is a very selfish person by nature, and considering the type of woman that she is. You will never have a meaningful relationship with a woman of her character. Instincts should tell you to get rid of her immediately without any hesitation discontinue any involvement with a woman like her.

Chapter-7

Do