Confidential
So disappointed
Q I’ve found out that my 15-year-old son is bullying kids at school. I’m furious. I didn’t bring him up that way – so why is he doing it? I feel like I’ve failed.
Annabel, Kettering
A It is important to take a step back from your anger to discover why he might be doing it. Remaining calm rather than scolding him will encourage him to share his side of the story and help you to understand.
