There are dozens of reasons why dating nowadays is so hard for men and women. While lack of communication seems to be a significant factor, being able to read the people you date is also part of the equation.

Is he asking you out just because he’s interested in sex?

He booked reservations at a high-end restaurant you’ve been wanting to go to, does this mean he’s serious about you?

You’re having a great time together, what will he think if you decide to sleep with him on the first date?

Being able to spot red flags is great, but it helps very little without you being brave enough to address it, ask questions and assess his behavior also.

Stephan Speaks, one of YouTube’s favorite relationship experts has a straightforward approach and way of helping women (and men) understand and see the challenges everyone is facing. Dating is complicated and there’s a lot of unhelpful advice being shared with both sexes.

This episode is going to help you spot the red flags if he’s only in it for the sex, learn how to better interpret his actions, determine if he’s toxic or just not the guy for you, and figure out how to solve the dating problems keeping you single.

QUOTES:

“The guy that just wants to have sex is trying to get the most for the least effort.”

“I believe that real love, real connection happens extremely fast if not instant.”

“Him chasing you is not always the greatest indicator that he’s serious about you, or that he has genuine interests.”

“It can’t not be true love on my end but true love on your end, it doesn’t work that way, [...] true love requires a flow back and forth.”

“Every woman who dates from now on should give that man permission to be blatantly, brutally honest because it will save her the headache of confusion and his fear of how she’ll receive it.”

“It’s not about what the person does, it's about how they handle your feelings about it.”

“A lot of situations are just symptoms that they’re with the wrong person.”

“Red flags are not see it, run. Red flags are see it, address it, and if it’s not corrected walk away.”

“You either want to be heard or you want to be received.”

“When there is connection, there will be chemistry.”

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