Submissive Training Vol. 3: Online Submission - 25 Things You Must Know To Have A Safe, Fun, Kinky, & Fulfilling BDSM Relationship Online

By Elizabeth Cramer

There are a number of reasons a woman may choose online submission. It’s a good way to ease into the community by making friends and observing other people at a safe distance. Creating an online persona allows women to keep their real names and identifiers private. This not only helps maintain physical safety but also gives her the freedom to talk about sexual fantasies and naughty ideas without fearing judgment from other people or consequences on the job.

Online submission also allows for a sexual experience rooted in the world of fantasy. A woman can take on any role or persona she wants, and perform acts she would not be willing or able to do in real life. She can express emotion, devotion and talk as dirty as she likes without feeling self-conscious or uncomfortable. While the scenarios sometimes described in online submission can be pure fantasy (seemingly endless sexual romps with multiple orgasms and no pain or soreness), the feelings of lust, love, loyalty, friendship, and arousal are all very real and can be a part of a vibrant sexual life.

This Submissive Training guide will take you into the world of online submission, along with safety protocols and techniques for making the digital fantasy a physical reality. You will also learn how to make the transition from online submission to a real life meeting.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
• Release date: Feb 11, 2014
• ISBN: 9781311981691

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Submissive Training Vol. 3: Online Submission

25 Things You Must Know To Have A Safe, Fun, Kinky, & Fulfilling BDSM Relationship Online

Elizabeth Cramer

Copyright© 2014 by Elizabeth Cramer

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Submissive Training Vol. 3: Online Submission

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Motivations

1. Why Online?

2. Who Are You?

3. What Kind of Dom Do You Want?

4. What Do You Want to Get from This Experience?

Building Blocks

5. Pick Your Place

6. Put up a Profile

7. Choose Your Photos Wisely

8. Control Your Access Options

Meeting Your Match

9. Prepare for the Offers

10. Red Flags

11. Yellow Flags

12. Green Flags

13. Taking the Next Step – Access

Starting Off Well

14. Set Goals and Share Ideas

15. Set and Communicate Limits

16. Share Your Inventory

17. Share Your Abilities and Inabilities

18. Set a Schedule for Your Communication

19. Set a Protocol for Conversation

Making it Work

20. Basic Logistics

21. Sexual Service

22. Online Discipline

23. Training Tasks

Face to Face

24. Preparing to Meet

25. Fun at First

Conclusion

Appendix

Introduction

When it comes to swimming there are three different types of people in the world; people who jump all the way in at once, people who start with their toes and inch themselves into the water and people who think the pool looks inviting, but never really get in. The world of Dominance and submission (D/s) is the same. There are women who jump right in – attend a munch, find a Dom, and get to the spanking, and then there are women who want to start slower, learn more, and get a clear view up front. For that kind of experience, online submission is a great way to start.