Submissive Training Vol. 2: The 12 Submission Styles/Subcultures Any Woman In A BDSM Relationship Must Know

By Elizabeth Cramer

Whether you have always dreamed about life in a collar or just discovered a desire to be sexually adventurous, there is a place for you in the fetish world of submission. The culture of kink, once thought to be limited to couples who wore leather pants and played slap-and-tickle in the bedroom, has grown into a varied and well defined umbrella for sexual identity.

Because fetish culture, like all cultures, grows and changes with the people who practice it, there are distinct roles and categories that developed to help women define their preferences and find like-minded people and playmates.

Women in BDSM relationships no longer have to start with the basic tenets of submission to wrap that skin around their differences. Now you can look into the whole spectrum of submissive behavior and find the place you feel most fulfilled and comfortable. From women who enjoy the occasional bondage session handcuffed to their headboard to the girls who want to be fed out of a bowl and locked in a crate at night – there is a place for everyone.

In this Submissive Training guide we will look at twelve subcultures of submission (including the New Misogyny), explaining the overall principles and practices of each one and illustrating the pros and cons inherent in each style of sexual diversity.

All people are different and you may not find one that covers everything you like, or don’t like – but chances are you’ll see something in one of these subcultures that makes you say, “That’s what I want.”

• Language: English
• Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
• Release date: Jan 15, 2014
• ISBN: 9781311363138

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Submissive Training Vol. 2

The 12 Submission Styles/Subcultures Any Woman In A BDSM Relationship Must Know

Elizabeth Cramer

Copyright© 2014 by Elizabeth Cramer

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Submissive Training Vol. 2

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Part 1: Eleven Subcultures

1. Kinkster

2. Taken in Hand (Domestic Discipline) Relationship

3. Dominance/Submission (D/s)

4. A Switch

5. Daddy Dom/little one

6. Consensual Slavery

7. A Pet

8. Pony Girls

9. Code d’ Odalisque (Pleasure slaves)

10. Kajira

11. Masochist (Pain Pig)

Part 2: The New Misogyny

Misogyny/Consensual Slavery is Different

Un-Training for a Misogynist Life

Discipline for a Consensual Slave

Sex in the New Misogyny

Communication Strategies

Reality and the New Misogyny

Conclusion

Introduction

Whether you have always dreamed about life in a collar or just discovered a desire to be sexually adventurous, there is a place for you in the fetish world of submission. The dawn of the Internet not only brought an increased awareness of sexual diversity and kink practiced across the globe, it also began to shine a light on practices that have developed into new communities all their own. The culture of kink, once thought to be limited to couples who wore leather pants and played slap-and-tickle in the bedroom, has grown into a varied and well defined umbrella for sexual identity.

Because fetish culture, like all cultures, grows and changes with the people who practice it, there are distinct roles and categories that developed to help women define their preferences and find like-minded people and playmates. Women no longer have to start with the basic tenets of submission to wrap that skin around their differences. Now you can look into the whole spectrum of submissive behavior and find the place you feel most fulfilled and comfortable. From women who enjoy the occasional bondage session handcuffed to their headboard to the girls who want to be fed out of a bowl and locked in a crate at night – there is a place for everyone.

In this guide we will look at twelve subcultures of submission (eleven well established and one fairly new), explaining the overall principles and practices of each one and illustrating the pros and cons inherent in each style of sexual diversity. In addition, we will devote a significant amount of space for the New Misogyny – a relatively new subculture that is quickly gaining traction in the BDSM community.

All people are different and you may not find one that covers everything you like, or don’t like – but chances are you’ll see something in one of these subcultures that makes you say, That’s what I want.

Ready? Let's begin!

Part 1: Eleven Subcultures

1. Kinkster

Be a mom, wife, friend, business woman by day and a slut, slave, sex object by night; that’s the kind of diverse world offered to the kinkster. The most loosely structured and understood of the submission subcultures, being a kinkster is about acknowledging that your bedroom practices have left the dock of missionary position vanilla sex on Saturday night, and take occasional trips into the ocean of sexual diversity. Kinkster couples are most often defined as IBO – In Bedroom Only.

For a kinkster, fetish behavior isn’t a lifestyle or a personal identity. It is simply a collection of sex acts that you’ve brought into your relationship for pleasure and fun. It is not who you are; it is what you do. Kinksters don’t have any illusions about continuing this behavior outside of their sexual selves or sexual roles. For them, adding some bondage or a spanking to a sexual event is just like adding sprinkles to a bowl of ice cream.

Even though kinksters play in an informal way – make no mistake - they can be as edgy, rough, painful and extreme as any other fetish couple. Some kinksters enjoy hours of deep bondage, water sports, whipping, cutting, or slapping. Their fetish sexuality tends to be scene based, but can involve all the elements of any other submissive role. The only difference is that once the moment has passed, the kinkster is untied and goes back to her normal vanilla life as she knows it. She will fit right in with all the other vanilla women at the gym, although she might just be smiling a little deeper and feeling a lot happier with her sex life than the usual vanilla housemate.

Pros of Being A Kinkster

One of the great advantages of being a kinkster is the freedom it gives you to experience a diversity of behaviors, acts and pleasures. Kinksters aren’t locked into any one pattern, protocol or role. A submissive kinkster can be tied in layer after

Reviews for Submissive Training Vol. 2

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What can i say ? This was a true eye-opener for me.