Couple's Guide To Spice It Up: 71 Tips On How To Experiment Safely With Your Wildest Fantasies & Make Your Love Life As Hot As You Want

By Elizabeth Cramer

Are you frustrated from a lack of sex in married life?

Do you long for the days when you were red-hot and on fire sexually?

You have come to the right place! This book is going to teach you how to put sparks back into your sex life by experimenting safely, enthusiastically and always with a view towards SHARING with your partner. This is about your relationship.

You’re going to learn fundamental lessons on what makes sexual experimentation as a couple work; and how to always experiment within your own comfort zone. You can be just as wild as you want to be.

You will discover:

- How to make your love life just as hot as you want it

- How to talk to your mate about fantasies and taboo subjects

- How to be a good story teller

- How to role play and make it good

- How to introduce Tantric principles into your sex life

- How to improve a man’s staying power

- How to experiment with taboo fantasies with imagination

And guess what? Here’s the secret to it all. Your partner wants the same thing as you do. We’re going to show you how to get him or her on board with this idea of sexual fantasy fulfilment.

So what are you waiting for? Let's get started!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
• Release date: Nov 29, 2017
• ISBN: 9781370385812

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Couple's Guide To Spice It Up

71 Tips On How To Experiment Safely With Your Wildest Fantasies & Make Your Love Life As Hot As You Want

Elizabeth Cramer

Copyright© 2017 by Elizabeth Cramer

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Couple's Guide To Spice It Up

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1: It’s Time to Experiment for a Righteous Cause

Chapter 2: The Danger of Moving Too Fast

What Can Go Wrong and Threaten Your Marriage

Chapter 3: Talking Honestly About Kinks

Chapter 4: Negotiating Compromise

Chapter 5: The Golden Rules of Faithful but Kinky Fun

Chapter 6: Sexy Couples Activities from 0 to 60 mph

Chapter 7: How to Tantra and Kama Sutra Your Way Out of a Sexual Rut

The First Step – Changing Your View of Sex

What’s Your Position on the Kama Sutra?

Chapter 8: Role Playing and BDSM Play—Acting at its Finest

Chapter 9: What Porn, Erotica, & the Swingers Teach Us

What Porn Teaches Us

What Erotica Teaches Us

What Swingers Teach Us

Chapter 10: Sexual Games for Couples

Sexual Games for Monogamous Couples

Sexual Games for Non-Monogamous Couples

Working New Sexual Practices Into Stories and Fantasies

Chapter 11: Acting Exercises to Make You More Confident in Bed

Chapter 12: How to be a Multi-Orgasmic or a Longer-Lasting Man

Chapter 13: How to Get Flexible Safely

Conclusion

Introduction

Are you frustrated from a lack of sex in married life?

Do you long for the days when you were red-hot and on fire sexually?

Maybe it was during those first few weeks—maybe even the first year. Then what happened? You both seemed to get used to a routine and fizzled out. That’s not to say you’ve changed. You still love each other. You still find your partner attractive and love pleasing them. But something in your romantic life together has just grown stale.

It could be any number of reasons such as: desire discrepancy, where one partner likes the quantity of sex more than the other; lack of communication, in that you don’t seem to have enough sex and talk about it even less; or you have the desire to do more exciting things and your partner doesn’t seem interested.

You have come to the right place! This book is going to teach you how to put sparks back into your sex life by experimenting safely, enthusiastically and always with a view towards SHARING with your partner. This is about your relationship.

You’re going to learn fundamental lessons on what makes sexual experimentation as a couple work; and how to always experiment within your own comfort zone. You can be just as wild as you want to be.

You will discover:

• How to make your love life just as hot as you want it

• How to talk to your mate about fantasies and taboo subjects

• How to be a good story teller

• How to role play and make it good

• How to introduce Tantric principles into your sex life

• How to improve a man’s staying power

• How to experiment with taboo fantasies with imagination

And guess what? Here’s the secret to it all. Your partner wants the same thing as you do. We’re going to show you how to get him or her on board with this idea of sexual fantasy fulfillment.

Let’s start by discussing the most obvious issue first: why is it actually better to confront your mate and suggest experimentation than it is to just let it go? In fact, the most devastating mistake of all is—letting things go and avoiding conflict!

Chapter 1: It’s Time to Experiment for a Righteous Cause

It’s always a shame when a married person gives up the dream of having a fulfilling sex life. Either that person decides to pursue extramarital relationships or he/she just figures sex isn’t all that important and finds other hobbies.

Sex, however, is a need. It’s not just a hobby or even something you outgrow. While it is possible to live without it, it makes for a sad life and can cause one or both partners to feel frustrated with their life. The truth is that couples who don’t have sex very often are depriving themselves of intimacy—not just sex. While you can have sex without being intimate, and can be close to someone without having sex, you are never fully complete unless you have both.

Granted, having children or dealing with anxiety and career-stress is a mood killer for sure. This is why it is necessary to proactively make your sex life better, rather than just letting sex happen when the mood strikes.

Couples often get