The Complete Guide to Erotic Role-Playing: How to Make Your Wildest, Hottest Sexual Fantasies Come True, 125 Naughty Scenarios Included

By Matthew Larocco

Sex is boring. Sex is just the same old, same old. Sex just loses its thrill after a while.

Wrong! You might have heard such sentiments from other people but chances are they have never honestly tried to make their sex lives more exciting. Using role play, toys, and a little kink, you can transform just another roll in the hay into something downright magical. You can role play with your partner and experience the most intense sexual affairs, fantasies, and fetishes you’ve never had!

In Part 1 of this book, we’re going to discuss all the rules, scenarios and energy dynamics involved in “serious” sex games and erotic role playing.

You’re going to learn how to broach the subject with your spouse, how to get even kinkier with more people (if you want), and how to bring back that spark in your current relationship.

Still not sure what to do? Don't worry. In Part 2 of this book, we have listed 125 "Done-for-You" ready-to-use erotic role playing scenarios to get you started.

Some of these scenarios are kinky and wild. Some are romantic and cute. Some are even hilarious and over the top. And it takes all kinds to make for an unpredictable and fun sex life!

So go ahead and try them out. You will be pleasantly surprised!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
• Release date: Oct 27, 2016
• ISBN: 9781370311545

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The Complete Guide to Erotic Role-Playing

How to Make Your Wildest, Hottest Sexual Fantasies Come True, 125 Naughty Scenarios Included

Matthew Larocco

Copyright© 2016 by Matthew Larocco

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The Complete Guide to Erotic Role-Playing

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1: The History of Sex Games

Chapter 2: The Psychology of Playing a Role

Chapter 3: Talking About Your Sex Life

Chapter 4: How to Communicate in a Role

Chapter 5: Monogamous Role Playing

Chapter 6: Multiple Partners and Role Playing

Chapter 7: Anonymous Role Playing

Chapter 8: Role Playing Choreography

Chapter 9: The Rules of Fantasy and Reality

Chapter 10: Method Acting

Chapter 11: BDSM in Role Playing—The Spice That You’re Missing

Special Bonus – A List of Kinky Things to Review with Your Spouse

Part 2: 125 Done-for-You Role Playing Games and Scenarios

On the Job

Trade Agreements

Crime and Punishment

Malpractice

Oldest Profession in the World

Comic Book Mayhem

Time Travel

All in the Family

Dangerous Plays

Cheating Scenarios

Simulating an Orgy

Same Sex Play

BDSM Wild Experimental Sex

Real Multiplayer Scenarios

Conclusion

Introduction

Is your marriage stuck in a rut? Your live-in relationship going nowhere fast? Do you sometimes wonder how much more interesting your life could be if you were single again?

Even if you’re happy with your relationship right now and don’t consider yourself on the market, it’s safe to say, you would LOVE a more exciting sex life, right?

Sure, who wouldn’t? How can you not think about sex these days, given all the explosive sexual content on TV, the constant barrage of porn and erotica online, and of course apps like Tinder which make hooking up just a click away.

Very few people are going to say that their love life is going great and that they’re 100% satisfied. We all yearn for something better. We all crave the exotic, the dangerous and the unusual. It’s only natural to want what we can’t have.

But did you know that you do not have to rearrange your life, lose the person that you love, or venture too far out of your comfort zone to fulfill your sexual bucket list?

You don’t have to cheat on your spouse to get that sickening stir in your stomach that hits you whenever a new stranger flirts with you. You don’t have to actually have a threesome or an orgy just to feel the thrill of a new sexual experience.

You can have all of this and more by becoming an active member of the sexual role playing community. You can fulfill your deepest, darkest and kinkiest fantasies WITH your partner, risking nothing and gaining everything.

Maybe you’re saying right about now, My spouse would NEVER go for that. Or we don’t have time for all that.

Believe it or not, there are ways around these excuses. There is a way to build up your sex life into the role playing roller coaster that it could be. It’s just a simple process of communicating with your partner and understanding HOW to role play in the first place.

Throughout this book we’re going to discuss all the rules, scenarios and energy dynamics involved in serious sex games and erotic role playing.

You’re going to learn how to broach the subject with your spouse, how to get even kinkier with more people (if you want), and how to bring back that spark in your current relationship.

Sex should never be so ultra-serious that you can’t take a break to laugh at yourselves. So what if you flub a line of dialog? So what if your penis slips out or someone sneezes at the wrong time?

That shouldn’t take away from the fun that you’re having. Because role-playing is fun, and it’s supposed to be a reminder than even though you an honest to goodness Adult that you still are allowed to be silly, use your creativity, and entertain all those forbidden encounters that you’re afraid to say out loud.

Still not sure what to do? Don't worry. In Part 2 of this book, we have listed 125 Done-for-You ready-to-use erotic role playing scenarios to get you started.

Some of these scenarios are kinky and wild. Some are romantic and cute. Some are even hilarious and over the top. And it takes all kinds to make for an unpredictable and fun sex life.

It’s actually a great idea to go through these role plays and try all of them, or at least the ones that you like the most, just to break the ice with your partner and realize that role playing is much easier than you’ve heard.

We’ve broken down our fantasies into categories like "on the job, comic book mayhem, malpractice" and even some bizarre fetish plays that will definitely be memorable. Talking about what you like and don’t like are all part of the negotiation process. Feel free to read through these scenarios and pick your favorites.

Once you try them, try them a second time but add a new variation into the mix. You may find that you enjoy something new each time you try the same scenario. Consider the teacher-student scenario, a popular one. How many characters could you invent? How many class subjects could you invent as a backdrop for the scene? How many sexual positions could you list? Maybe you’ll have just one idea for the first time…

But by Session #5 you may have a dozen new ideas. Write them all down and refer back to them. You can eventually create your own rolodex of fantasies and characters, creating a virtual Hollywood of sex.

It sure beats the old 1-2-3 usual routine. Sex should be about spontaneity and experimentation. That’s what we want you to start doing—experimenting!

So let’s get started in exercising our imagination, shall we?

Chapter 1: The History of Sex Games

The history of sex games and role playing is probably as old as the theatre itself. For over 2,500 years humankind has felt theatrical and felt the joy of performing, whether for entertainment or even education.

Classic Athens was the birthplace of western theatre but it was also just one of many cultural revolutions taking place at the time, including leaps in religion, ritual, politics, law, music, and poetry. Even the weddings and festivals of Athens were all about performance.

Taking part in Athens’ many festivals was part of the culture itself, part of citizenship. Along with these concepts, so too did we get dramatic criticism, theatre presentation and professional acting, as opposed to good old fashioned lying to your spouse, which served no particular purpose.

Romans took the ideas of Athens and Greece and expanded it and brought even more spectacle to the art with nude dancing, acrobatics and even gladiatorial sport, which cast a rather dark shadow to the stage that is life.

In eastern culture, drama and theatre references date back to the 1st century A.D., though it could be said that the Vedas of the 1000 B.C. era started much of what we understand as dialog or role playing, even if they were not thought of as professional acting or drama. Much of it was rooted in religious symbolism, as in the identities of males and females and how they related to the divine. China’s history of theater date back to the Shang Dynasty, with its acrobats, mime acts, very large and elaborate puppets and various showy displays.

What we learn from the history of the stage is how instinctive it is to act, or pretend to be someone else. Why pretend to be someone else when evolutionarily speaking, we should only want to be ourselves?

Possibly because when we assume the identity of someone else we also assume his or her characteristics, and thus enjoy his advantages in life. We also absolve ourselves of accountability, feeling the same emotions as the character, while still distancing ourselves from actually doing anything that might be contrary to our nature.

Sexual role play as distinguished from acting really originated with BDSM’s origins, specifically, the social construct of men dominating or being rough with women and gaining power, as well as the psychological phenomenon of masochism and sadism—the sexual enjoyment of receiving or giving pain.

The abuse of power and the abundance of aggression have always played a part in human sexuality, whether because of rape or because of non-consensual sex, that of course kings and warriors always demanded as the spoils of a successful war.

After some semblance of civility came about in society, it was much easier to approach these dark concepts of using power and aggression in sex through performance. We learned how to take these animalistic and anti-social desires and express them through art; not actually hurting anyone but working through the emotion and perhaps experiencing the excitement, or the rush of sexual dominance.

Perhaps it’s no coincidence that all tragedies of the ancient theater are based on the formula of hero, heroine, villain and sometimes clown. We use something similar today in our books, movies and TV shows. Drama thrives on conflict and it’s the same in sexual role play, a sub-genre of performance.

What is Erotic Role Playing Today?

While sexual role playing may be new to mainstream North American culture, it’s hardly something new to the human experience. If anything, this type of performance lets everybody experience the joy of acting, performing and entertaining an audience.

The basic intent when sexual role playing, however, is not performance or entertainment per say—it’s actually about YOU,