Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3: 89 Advanced Topics Every Sub Must Know Before Submissive Training

By Matthew Larocco

One thing we can all agree on in our “safe, sane and consensual” lifestyle is that punishment must feel good. Pain must ultimately be pleasurable. And any sort of masochism or sadism must work in the context of pleasing the sub.

In BDSM culture, it seems relatively easy to get the hang of the attitude, the behavior and the words. But in terms of logistics, as in how to properly discipline or punish a sub, things do get a bit more complicated.

And that’s why we’re devoting this entire book on how to play right and how to punish the sub so that she likes it, rather than the Dom abusing her and violating trust—the ultimate sin in the game of discipline.

We’re also going to cover some of the more “fringe” topics of BDSM, including health risks, extreme pain, unique psychological states and how you as a sub can protect yourself. This will be of crucial interest to you as a sub or switch or Dom, since it’s best to understand the logistics and motivations of both roles before you fully submit.

You may also discover that as you take precautions and grow in knowledge, more extreme practices may appeal to you. At the very least, you will always know what a Dom means by some of these code words and what they imply sexually or in punishment. It’s always a good idea to stay informed and never take chances—never assume anything! Because in BDSM, assuming anything of your Dom can be a big mistake.

To get truly healthy and pleasurable BDSM experience, these are the topics you surely don't want to miss!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
• Release date: Aug 1, 2016
• ISBN: 9781370613267

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Submissive's Guide To BDSM

Vol. 3

89 Advanced Topics Every Sub Must Know Before Submissive Training

Matthew Larocco

Copyright© 2016 by Matthew Larocco

Smashwords Edition

Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1: The Most Common Health Risks in BDSM

Chapter 2: How Much Pain is Too Much?

Percussion or Spankings

Chapter 3: Get a Rope! All Your Questions About Bondage Answered

Chapter 4: Share Your Bed with a Robot

Chapter 5: Just How Physical is Rough Sex?

Blood Play

Chapter 6: A Sex Game of Fire and Ice

Other Ways to Feel the Burn or the Brr

Chapter 7: The Most Intense Psychological Games

Mind Fucking – What Does it Mean?

Chapter 8: A Peak Into Extreme Pain

Accidental Passing Out

Genital Torture –Striking and Weighing

Chapter 9: A Lesson in Chastity, Denial and Mummification

Emotional Denial

Chapter 10: What You Need to Know About Anal Sex and Bodily Fluids

Tips to Keep it Clean

Scat Play and Water Sports

Conclusion

Personality-Based Questions to Ask Your Dom

Surprise—BDSM is Healthy for You!

Introduction

In BDSM culture, it seems relatively easy to get the hang of it—the attitude, the behavior and the words. But in terms of logistics, as in how to properly discipline or punish a sub, things do get a bit more complicated. If you’ve ever been a sub or even a Dom, you may have wondered some pretty basic questions like, how do I tie a knot so that it doesn’t come loose? or how do I use a vibrator or dildo the right way?

Granted, to each his own applies here, and there is no right or wrong answer as to sexual pleasure / punishment. However, one thing we can all agree on in our safe, sane and consensual lifestyle is that punishment must feel good. Pain must ultimately be pleasurable. And any sort of masochism or sadism must work in the context of pleasing the sub.

And that’s why we’re devoting this entire book on how to play right and how to punish the sub so that she likes it, rather than the Dom abusing her and violating trust—the ultimate sin in the game of discipline.

We’re also going to cover some of the more fringe topics of BDSM, including extreme pain, unique psychological states and how you as a sub can protect yourself. This will be of crucial interest to you as a sub or switch or Dom, since it’s best to understand the logistics and motivations of both roles before you fully submit.

You may also discover that as you take precautions and grow in knowledge, more extreme practices may appeal to you. At the very least, you will always know what a Dom means by some of these code words and what they imply sexually or in punishment. It’s always a good idea to stay informed and never take chances—never assume anything! Because in BDSM, assuming anything of your Dom can be a big mistake.

Trust isn’t about blind faith. It’s about identifying someone you can trust and then being confident in their knowledge of how the game is played.

So let’s proceed into Chapter 1 and discuss a very unsexy topic: health risks!

Chapter 1: The Most Common Health Risks in BDSM

The first consideration is that of the most likely health risks you might