Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 2: 97 Tips On How To Work With Your Dom To Create The Ultimate BDSM Experience

By Matthew Larocco

Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom’s goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism.

During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable.

Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM":

- What is your "Ideal Scene"...
- How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene...
- How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom...

- Etiquette on being a sub for the first time...
- How to enjoy the pain as a sub...
- How to work with multiple Doms...

- How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure...
- How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you...
- And much more...

• Language: English
• Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
• Release date: Jun 7, 2016
• ISBN: 9781311614223

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Submissive's Guide To BDSM

Vol. 2

97 Tips On How To Work With Your Dom To Create The Ultimate BDSM Experience

Matthew Larocco

Copyright© 2016 by Matthew Larocco

Smashwords Edition

Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 2

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1: Who Started Masochism, Anyway?

Chapter 2: The Best Way to Hurt Somebody

Chapter 3: How and Why the Body Reacts to Pain

How a Dom Makes a Sub Fly

Aftercare

Chapter 4: The Right Way and Wrong Way to Inflict Pain

Aftercare is Part of the Punishment Schedule

When Subdrop Happens

Chapter 5: Etiquette on Being a Sub for the First Time

Chapter 6: A Sample Script of a Dom and Sub Dialog

Chapter 7: How to Read (or Write) a Curriculum for Pain & Pleasure

Chapter 8: Improvisation—Even at the Worst Time

Syncing Body Language with Your Words

Chapter 9: Male and Female Submission – How They Differ

Understanding Antiquated and Modern Female Submission

Submitting to a Woman as a Man

Submitting to a Woman as a Woman

Chapter 10: How to Make Your First Date with a New Dom Hot

Chapter 11: Working with Multiple Doms

Dealing with Subdrop

Chapter 12: How to Make Your Spouse Punish You…and Enjoy It

Conclusion

Introduction

"Just going to stand there and watch me burn.

But that’s all right because I like the way it hurts"

You may have heard that song before but never given much thought to what it means to like the way something hurts. In fact, most of us have been scared away from the idea of masochism, given the associations it has with rape, torture and misogyny. However, there really is an unexplored world of positive and consenting masochism if we look beyond the negative associations and controversy.

This means that we are going to explore the science of BDSM and masochism specifically since this is Volume 2 of our Submissive's Guide to BDSM series. You may know how to play as a Dom but a sub requires a bit of a different mindset.

And as you’ve probably figured out by now, being a sub means this game is all about your pleasure. The Dom’s goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism.

However, the more you know as a sub, the less disappointing these experiences will be, even if you are entertaining a Dom for the first time, or even if your Dom has limited experience. A really good sub who has enjoyable sessions will oftentimes help the Dom to create a scene that works. Ideal subs are usually not passive, expecting the Dom to be perfect and getting everything right the first time. They help the Dom to make a good scene, a good curriculum and contract, forming a partnership, just like any friendship or sexual relationship. It takes two to dance.

This book is going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. There’s no question that the failure to take control of your BDSM experiences is a recipe for disaster. If you give your Dom total power over you, and yet he doesn’t know what he’s doing,