SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL: But They Would Say That Wouldn't They

By Bobbie Grove

An Expose Of The Widespread Abuse Of Women In The BDSM Movement.

Combined With Practical Information On Safety, How To Be A Dominant Woman, And How A Submissive Woman Can Find A Good Man.

And Questions Do You Really Want To Do This.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Bobbie Grove
• Release date: Jan 13, 2015
• ISBN: 9781310196584

Bobbie Grove

When a woman cross-dresses it is cute or fashionable. When a man cross-dresses it is ... well. Why? As for myself. I always wear women's clothes. And, live a women's lifestyle. I identify as a woman. But, I never try to impersonate a woman. When I am out, I usually wear women's jeans and jumpers. In plain styles and colours. People just assume that I am wearing men's clothes. At home, I usually wear a knee-length skirt and round-neck cardigan. In hot weather I wear cotton, sleeveless dresses. My 'homely-housewife' style is simple, comfortable and practical. And, reflects my inner-self. I have been a live-in housekeeper for a career woman and then for a businesswoman. And, am seeking a role-reversal relationship with, or a position as a live-in housekeeper for, a woman in Australia. My fiction is so character-driven that my characters write it for me. Spoiler alert! Emma and Bobbie do end up happily married! I'm making sure of it! You can contact me through the Contact Bobbie Page in any of my books including my free ones.

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SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL

But They Would Say That Wouldn't They

Copyright © 2012, Bobbie Grove.

This Edition Copyright © 2015, Bobbie Grove.

[March 2017 Update.]

Written and Published by Bobbie Grove.

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ISBN: 9781310196584

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DISCLAIMER and DISCLOSURE

DISCLAIMER

This eBook, is my personal opinion, and is not to be taken as professional advice.

People seeking professional advice, should do so from appropriate, professional people.

DISCLOSURE

I am a man who identifies as a woman.

I live a woman's lifestyle.

And always wear women's clothes.

But, I do not try to impersonate a woman.

PREFACE

Dominant and submissive tendencies are probably genetically programmed into us.

Because group survival depends on leaders and followers.

And, we cannot survive alone.

It is for us to understand these tendencies.

And, to manage them wisely.

So they do not become self-serving and abusive.

And, might even become enjoyable.

Be kind to each other.

Always lead with kindness.

Only follow those who are kind to you.

And, only lead those who are kind to you.

Take care.

Bobbie.

SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL: But They Would Say That! Wouldn't they?

Always Lead With Kindness.

Only Follow Those Who Are Kind To You.

And Only Lead Those Who Are Kind To You.

Enough Said.

There are many BDSM sites and clubs.

But, I try to warn people of the dangers of BDSM.

Not to minimise them or ignore them.

As, so many others do.

At a free talk the speaker said that, you can walk into a BDSM party, of 50 people, and trust everyone there.

He later said, that a dominant can pick you apart and then put you back together again.

I wonder in what shape.

And, why anyone would want to do that.

Or, worse still, have it done to them.

Such talk makes my hair stand up on end.

Do not be so gullible.

People who will use you, and abuse you, will not hesitate to lie to you.

Safety

I am not impressed with the trite expression, 'safe, sane, consensual'.

Because abusers will say it and not mean it.

Amateurs might mean it