BDSM 101: For The People

By PRECIOSA JANAE

We've all seen the movie that must not be named, and it got us all 50 shades of excited, but my book is here to help you get all 50 shades of READY to do this ISH in real life. This book is here to give you the 101's on all things kink & BDSM, knowing how to stay safe, having lots of fun, and be the best kinky mofo you can be!

• Language: English
• Publisher: PRECIOSA JANAE
• Release date: Jan 18, 2022
• ISBN: 9781005843564

PRECIOSA JANAE

Janae here! I'm an LA gal that digs living the alt lifestyle and helping others navigate this world. I've learned a lot, done a lot, and failed A LOT when doing all the kinky ish and finally found my ever-changing groove. As with most indie lifestyles, it can be a crazy journey finding community in this space, even more so for people of color aka (People of The Global Majority). So, as an author and creative, I'm hoping to bridge that gap and inspire others to join me in this journey. Here's to living your best kink life!

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BDSM 101:

For The People

Copyright © 2021

Preciosa Janae/ Kink In Kolor

All rights reserved.

ISBN: [Your 13 Digit ISBN Goes Here]

Table of Contents

BDSM 101:

For The People

First and Foremost

Why BDSM?

What does BDSM stand for?

What BDSM is not:

Consent & Code of ethics

Fetish Vs Kink Vs BDSM:

How to find my Kinky

I know what I am, what’s next?

I’m ready to mingle?

I want to be discreet?

So let’s play?

Staying Safe & Understanding Risk

You Did It!

Glossary

Basics

Common Play

Book Recs

First and Foremost

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There’s nothing wrong with being a kinky ass mofo! BDSM is a spectrum and there are no hard and fast rules on how kinky you have to be to enjoy it. Whether you like pain or the softer side of BDSM it’s all GOOD! Not gonna lie, 50 Shades has seriously warped the expression of BDSM, but even with all the bad ish happening there, it opened more people up to this side of the slash! So, no matter how you got here, I’m happy to see you here! Pro tip: Kink & BDSM are very personal and only you know what really gets you going.

If a role speaks to you, learn all you can about it & explore it!

You can choose many or none. Kink & BDSM are ever evolving and changes with you. You can be a sub (submissive) today and a Domme (dominant) next year! Maybe after exploring a bit, you realized you were more into kink and had no interest in BDSM...or maybe, just maybe, you found out you really weren’t into any of it and went back to good ol’ vanilla living. That is totally okay!

It’s all up to you.

Yes, there are guidelines and a loose idea of what you can do, but at the end of the day it’s your life. The only thing others can

Reviews for BDSM 101

[Carlos Ferrerra · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Great introduction to BDSM terminology. Author has a relaxed and funny way of writing. I enjoyed this book a lot.