Survival Guide for Single Men: Problems and Solutions

By King Dphax

In a NUTSHELL, Survival Guide for Single Men: Problems & Solutions, was NOT written because another perspective is WANTED. Survival Guide for Single Men was written because it is NEEDED!

My hope is that this book will create much dialogue that UNCLES, FATHERS and GRANDFATHERS did NOT discuss, did not know HOW to discuss OR were AFRAID to discuss! This book was designed to be brief and “to-the-point” so that it can be read multiple times for understanding and application. This book can benefit BOTH men and women. This is the kind of book that can be read during lunch breaks, at the barbershop, to or from work or while you sit on the toilette!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Sep 17, 2007
• ISBN: 9781469114736

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SURVIVAL GUIDE FOR SINGLE MEN

PROBLEMS & SOLUTIONS

King Dphax

Copyright © 2007 by King Dphax.

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Contents

DEDICATION

INTRODUCTION

CHAPTER 1

CHAPTER 2

CHAPTER 3

CHAPTER 4

CHAPTER 5

CHAPTER 6

CHAPTER 7

CHAPTER 8

CHAPTER 9

CHAPTER 10

CHAPTER 11

CHAPTER 12

CHAPTER 13

CHAPTER 14

CHAPTER 15

CHAPTER 16

CHAPTER 17

CHAPTER 18

CHAPTER 19

CHAPTER 20

CHAPTER 21

CHAPTER 22

DEDICATION 

I humbly dedicate this book to my dear mother Ms. Rose King, who has literally made it possible for me to live like a KING. I dedicate this book to my sister & Grandmother, both named Florence Evans. I also dedicate this book to my father, Mr. Tony D. King and my step-mother Maxine King for their tireless encouragement and positive words that make me feel like a KING. I dedicate this book to Deborah James-Gross, a hard-working family member in Atlanta, Georgia. This book is also dedicated to a few loyal friends such as Charles Hardy, Spencer Tracy Winston, Carl Hill (said I should marry Tyra Banks), Dremere Foxworth and Mary Bush-Anderson for their multiple expressions of interest in the many subject matters of this book. Finally, Survival Guide for Single Men is dedicated to all the nice guys of the world because everyone knows that nice guys finish last.

INTRODUCTION

This book is long overdue!

I have been waiting to write this book for years! In life it is very important to make sure you do not put the cart before the horse. It was extremely necessary for me to complete my education at the prestigious TEMPLE UNIVERSITY before writing this book.

First, I would like to say that there are literally millions of books out there explaining millions of problems. Very few books give you actual skills, tools or wisdom that you can apply IMMEDIATELY to give relief or solutions to your day-to-day problems. I hope that you will have some immediate relief or solutions to some of your dating problems as a result of reading this book.

MEN are in a unique predicament. Do you want to know how unique of a predicament men are in? Very few women would trade places with a man. In fact you may be able to find MORE men who would trade places with women than women who would trade places with men!

I will not be using any fancy four-syllable words in this book. I will get to the point very fast! I would like to add that this book is for EVERYONE from the janitor to the Judge. This book is for the local actor to the Hollywood movie star and the local lawyer to anyone on Capital Hill. Women may benefit from reading this book as well.

There are quite a few differences between what various racial groups of men experience during dating. For example, white males are the most requested and sought-after men in the WORLD! Anyone who wishes to argue this point can not be from planet earth. They MUST be from Mars. According to women of all races, creeds and colors, white males are at the top of the food chain. If you need proof of this, spend six months to a year reading hundreds of newspaper personals and internet dating profiles. Despite what you may hear, one thing is said in the name of political correctness and another thing is said behind closed doors, on paper and websites.

It would be a tragedy to finish reading a book called Survival Guide for Single Men and NOT know where you RANK in the EYES of women. If YOU were asked to rank the most favorable men in the EYES of women, what would YOUR list look like? If I was asked to rank the most favorable men in the eyes of women, my list would read as follows:

1. Caucasian men

2. Hispanic men

3. Mixed/Interracial men

4. African-American (black) men

5. Asian men.

This list may be alarming. Keep in mind that this ranking is based on the hundreds of personal ads and internet dating profiles that I have studied over the years. According to your country and geographical area, YOUR list may look a little different. This ranking is what I found to be true here in the U.S.A. Numbers two through five do not always get red carpet treatment from the ladies. Naturally, the lower the ranking, the more stressful and frustrating dating experiences can be. Don’t even think about turning to a talk show and listening to a topic like this. You will NEVER hear a topic like this. This is the beauty of books where one can soar high above or plunge far below the surface-level, politically correct garbage!

Despite this ranking, some dating experiences are COMMON to all men. As a result, this book is for EVERY MALE of every race, creed and color. This book is a quick reference guide. It is a book that you can read on your lunch break, at the barbershop, to or from work or even while you sit on the toilette. Finally, psychology is the study of BEHAVIOR, human thought processes and human nature. Human behavior, thought processes and human nature are a CONTINUOUS learning process. I don’t claim to be a know-it-all on any subject matter. As a result, feel free to submit any comments or questions regarding any subject matter in this book. Address all correspondence to the following email address: [e-mail]. This is a lifetime email address. In other words as long as Temple University remains in existence this email address will remain in existence.

CHAPTER 1

PURPOSE

PROBLEMS:

The PURPOSE of Survival

Guide for Single Men: Problems and Solutions is simple. When it comes to sports, men have DIARRHEA of the mouth. When it comes to women and personal relationships, men have CONSTIPATION of the mouth. On the other hand, when it comes to sports women have CONSTIPATION of the mouth. When it comes to men and personal relationships woman have DIARRHEA of the mouth. The 80’s hit song called Count Your Blessings by Ashford & Simpson, reminds me that Though they don’t complain, doesn’t mean that there’s no pain.

There are two reasons why men lack freedom of expression and women do not: fear and conditioning. From the cradle to the grave boys around the world are reared to be macho. Being macho also means to avoid verbal and/or emotional expression. Being macho also means you’re not supposed to care about your appearance and how you look. I have observed both boys and men jumping when caught looking in the mirror. The price for stepping outside of this conditioning is very high. As a male