How to Find Mr. Right

By KERRY GARDETTE

This book was created to assist women who want to meet men but

are reluctant to approach them because of social barriers. Many

women think it is not lady-like to approach men. Or that there is

an imaginary line women should not cross because men should

introduce themselves.

How many times have you seen a man you thought was

attractive and would like to meet? Perhaps he did not notice you or

was distracted at the time you noticed him. So, the opportunity

just passed without any eye contact or conversation. It became just

another missed opportunity to meet Mr. Right.

I have created a way for you to meet men in a fun, very

unassuming way. I call it "the game". It is designed for you to meet

men and ask questions. "The game" is a method to eliminate ineligible

men so that the last man standing is Mr. Right.

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: May 25, 2011
• ISBN: 9781456760021

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How To

Find

Mr. Right

Learn to play the elimination game.

The last man standing is Mr. Right.

KERRY GARDETTE

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Contents

Acknowledgement

Disclaimer

Foreword

Introduction

Chapter 1

First Things First

Chapter 2

Know Thyself

Chapter 3

How Important Is?

Chapter 4

What Is Important Is?

Chapter 5

What Do I Need To Know?

Chapter 6

Here Come The Don’ts

Chapter 7

Let The Games Begin!!!

Chapter 8

Let The Good Times Roll

Chapter 9

Plan Your Work And Work Your Plan

About The Author

One On One

Teleseminar

Thank You!

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

This book is dedicated to all the beautiful women who are looking for a meaningful relationship and are not totally sure of how to find and meet a good man. Hopefully, this book will assist you in finding a wonderful relationship with Mr. Right.

A very special thanks to:

Alana Gardette

Sheila Gardette

Kari Alana Gardette

Alana Kristine Gardette

Althemus Gardette

Cynthia Gardette

Maximus Gardette

McKenzie Gardette

Arlet Cicek

Karen Bradford

Toni Edwards

Tamara Hall

Mariann Aalda

Dwayne Corbitt

Carlos Perez

DISCLAIMER

This book was written to assist women in finding their Mr. Right. This book does not guarantee that any woman who reads this book will find her Mr. Right. Hopefully, this information will provide some suggestions, guidance, and insight as to how you might go about finding your Mr. Right.

FOREWORD

It Does Not Matter What Your Age Or Your Dress Size; It Is All About Positive Thinking, How You Feel About Yourself, How You Present Yourself, And Asking The Right Questions, To Find Mr. Right.

INTRODUCTION

I have been married for forty-one years; I am an ordinary man, with a traditional relationship. However, there were two dramatic moments that created the idea of writing this book. It all started with a conversation in a sales room with a lady who came in to the sales room and stated, I hate men. I asked, Why do you hate men? She said, Because they do not like me".

I asked her if I could talk to her. I explained to her that men did not dislike her and that she needed to change the way she met, thought, and talked to men. In others words, she needed to change her whole approach to men. I suggested some things she could do to change her situation.

About three months later, I saw her at a wedding. She approached me with this wonderful smile and said, Kerry, do you see that man over there? I said yes. She said, He is with me. And do you see that man over there? I said yes, and she said, I am leaving this man to go with that man. She told me that her life had changed since our conversation in that sales room, and that she would never be that other person who came into that room.

I saw her again about four months later at a restaurant with a friend. The owner came over to say hello and engaged in a conversation with this lady, and she proceeded to work this man into a frenzy. After the owner left, I said to her that she had developed meeting men into an art form. She responded that she could get any man that she wanted.

The other moment that created this book was an occasion when I was seated in a room with a lady who was on the telephone with a friend, talking about the friend breaking up with her boyfriend. The lady in the room with me was consoling her friend and trying to make her feel better about the break-up. I responded to this conversation by taking out a blank sheet of paper and beginning to write down topics on both sides of the paper. I finished with about 98 headings to discuss. After she got off the telephone I told her she had given me an idea for a book. I showed her the headings that I had written down for the book. Those headings have become the basis for this book.

And finally, the other reason for writing this book was established by numerous conversations with women who were very unhappy with their lives when it came to meeting men and their relationships with men. In these unsolicited conversations there were always two major questions that women asked: Where can I find a good man? And how can I get a good man? Those two questions were the basis of this book.

I wanted to create a way for women to meet men, and do it in a fun, unusual, unassuming, proactive way to overcome the normal barriers that keep a woman from meeting men. Thus, the game was created. The objective of the game is to meet and eliminate men by asking questions, by the process of elimination and the last man standing is Mr. Right.

CHAPTER 1

FIRST THINGS FIRST

CURRENT SITUATION

There have been many times in talking with women friends that they ask the same questions: Where can I find a good man? And how can I get a good man? If you are a very attractive, physically gifted woman these questions do not come up, because most of time men are finding ways to introduce themselves to you on a regular basis. However the average woman who is not as blessed does not have those opportunities present themselves as often but would love to be in that situation on a regular basis.

Women often do see men they are attracted to. However, because of shyness, fear, or basically, the way they were raised by their parents, they feel it is not appropriate to just walk up to a man and introduce themselves. Consequently, when women come across a man they are attracted to, through a chance meeting, they admire the man, maybe smile to acknowledge his presence, but do not think of approaching him to introduce themselves because they does not think that is something that a lady would do. So the opportunity to meet this man usually passes without an introduction.

Thus the problem of meeting men is created by a woman’s reluctance to introduce herself and her unwillingness to close that distance between herself and the man she likes, to introduce herself. These have been historically the reasons women do not meet men to whom they are attracted.

If you are reading this book, chances are you are a hardworking, beautiful woman with or without children, trying to succeed in life, trying to make it in this world without a man at this time. However, you want and/or need a man in your life to create balance and stability. Hopefully, this information will provide a fun and entertaining way for you to accomplish that goal. Circumstances often create reasons for many situations. However, most of them are caused by poor communication, poor judgment, bad relationships, and a lack of personal relationship goals.

The following are different profiles of the types of women looking for Mr. Right:

Single Women: Most young single women are usually open to new relationships and are used to meeting new men in regular social situations.

Single Women With Children: Single women with children have different concerns than single women without children. They must always consider their child first in their decisions in regarding new men. For example: when and how should they introduce a new man to their children?

Divorced Without Children: Usually women who have several areas that they are dealing with from their last unsuccessful relationship, such as emotional scars, economics, fear, distrust, pain, failure.

Divorced With Children: Women who have all of the areas stated in the divorced without children and the additional burden of providing a secure and stable environment for their children. In addition, they also must find the proper way of introducing a new man they are interested in to their children.

MR. PERFECT

Every woman has her vision of Mr. Perfect. He is usually tall, in the 6’0 to 6’3 range, and handsome like Rick Fox, Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise. He is a professional man, like a doctor, lawyer, engineer or athlete. Mr. Perfect has the most romantic bedroom eyes. He is financially secure with a minimum six-figure salary, has his own company, or is just flat-out rich from a family business. Mr. Perfect can be a famous personality, or at least a very recognizable person to the public. He is a traveling man who is going to take you on trips around the world.

Mr. Perfect is educated, he has a degree or degrees from any of the most prestigious universities in the country. Mr. Perfect is a well-conditioned, well-built, physically fit man who is very easy to look at. Mr. Perfect is a well-dressed man who wears nothing but the best designer labels. Mr. Perfect has style and class. Mr. Perfect has a wonderful personality. Mr. Perfect could have a beautiful head of hair or he could have a sexy bald head. Mr. Perfect has a beautiful set of straight white teeth and a wonderful smile.

Mr. Perfect has a very large home that sits on the cliffs, overlooking the ocean. Mr. Perfect drives the most expensive imported cars and eats at only the most expensive and famous restaurants. Finally, Mr. Perfect loves to give his woman the most extravagant and expensive gifts.

MR. PERFECT CHECKLIST SCORE (1-10)

MR. RIGHT

Most woman dream of Mr. Perfect, when what they need is Mr. Right. Mr. Right is in actuality Mr. Perfect. Mr. Right is the man who is right and perfect for you and possesses