How to Know When Your Man Is up to No Good

By Nelson Brown

  

     So you couldn’t get a hold of him the other day?  He’s told you more than a few times that he’s out with his male friends you seldom see, or know?  Maybe, he stayed out hours after everyplace in town had closed?  Or perhaps he’s displayed some other behavior that had you suspicious of his real whereabouts.  Well, if you combine these seemingly minor discrepancies with other actions in a relationship, then possibly your man is up to no good!  He could be having an affair right under your nose.

 

     It doesn’t matter if you’ve been with him for three weeks or thirty years.  There are men in our society who simply refuse to be faithful!  It’s like they just have to be like a dog!  They will attempt to use all kinds of tactics, and lies, to keep you thrown off of their casual encounters.  In a nut shell, they don’t want you to ever discover that they are up to no good.  After all, they did use whatever skills they possessed to land you in their life.  These men want to have their cake, and eat it too.

 

     What has it really gotten you?  If you’re anything like most women who have gone through being with an unfaithful man, then it’s probably consisted of countless days of headaches, heartaches, and a bunch of unnecessary drama in your life. 

 

     Now, here is the chance to know when your man is up to no good!  This book, written by a man who cares, and has over 25 years of experience with relationships, will shed more light to every woman’s eyes to particular behaviors to be aware of from the man who is in your life, or attempting to be in your pants.  And it will share specific characteristics to completely avoid from the very beginning.  “How to know when your man is up to no good” will have you paying much more attention to small details that you once ignored. In the end, if you do it right, you’ll have much more satisfaction in your personal life. 

 

A must own for every woman on the planet!

  

• Language: English
• Publisher: AuthorHouse
• Release date: May 5, 2006
• ISBN: 9781467814072

Nelson Brown

This is Nelson’s first children’s story. His vision is to help children believe in themselves when they are very young, and hopefully that belief will stay with them their entire life. Nelson is married to JoeAnn, and they have four children and two dogs.

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Contents

Thank You

Clear Definition

Foreword

The Perfect Couple

He frequently comes home late at night, yet he smells fresh.

You’re at his home sitting by the phone, and it rings

You surprise him with an unannounced visit at his home, or job, and he gets upset

He’s hanging out with the boys. That’s why he couldn’t return your call

You’re out with him and he’s constantly checking his watch, or cell phone

You go out dancing together and he asks if he can dance with other women

He tells you he’s separated or going through a divorce

He tells you he’s married

You have never been to his home

He always seems to be, or have been with that one particular male friend of his

He gives you a cell number, or work number, but not a home number

He has the nerve to accuse you of being unfaithful when you come home a little late, or when you don’t answer his calls right away

He finally goes to church with you

You found a piece of paper or business card with a woman’s name and number

You found lipstick, or makeup on his clothes

Hair on his clothes, or in his car that’s not yours

He has a computer that you rarely see

The teen aged young lady

The Cheap Man

The man with long fingernails

He spends more time in the mirror than any woman on the planet

The strong silent type

You find out he’s a regular at strip clubs

The Hustler/Gangster

It’s either his way or the highway

Does he have to curse so much?

How many children did you say you have?

He still lives with his mama!

What else can a woman do?

Your Spiritual Connection

Finally, my last piece of advice

About The Author

Many Thanks

To all those people who directly, or indirectly contributed to this book. First there is my family. My mom Mary Brown. My children Marcel, and Myah. Myah, I know as you get older, you will know what to do when faced with no good men because you have the love of your daddy. Marcel, you will not be one of these men because your daddy will kick your butt. My Uncle Lawrence for his wisdom. Motherlove, Kennedy, and Jamal. Dennis (double low) and Gretchen, Chris and Tasha. My cousin Diana. See, I told you I would get it done. Cousins Monique, Vonnette, Michele, Brianna, Felicia, Terri, Tiffany, Wesley, Big Al, Nathan, Vincent, Warren, Greg Jr., Ramon, Uncle Stan, Marvin, Ike, and Greg. My favorite Aunt Amy, My Uncle Fred (rest in peace) My home boys back in C-town, Gus-Kevin Harris, Reggie Burnett, Spud, DJ, Gary Robinson, Teddy Burns, Ricky Jordan, and the rest of the fellas. Chatty and Angela, Hector and Ida, Joe, Ricky, Tom, Greg and Nan. Bill, Richard, The following ladies, Donna, Arlene, Natalie, Vanessa, Diane, Jennifer, Nancy, Sylvia, Adreine, Nichie, home girl Tammy, Marnita, Tami, Lori, Ebony, Maria, Monique, Robin, Kianna, Rosalind, Rose, Theresa, Valerie, Vivian, one of my key life advisors Dee Hall.

I also acknowledge my sister Nicki, and brother Jason. We should be closer.

Clear Definition

Right from the very beginning, I’m not messing around. You see, entirely too much game playing goes on everyday! Women are being used, confused, and stepped on by vultures every single day. Men disguised as people who care. So, being a man who really does care, I have to just be totally real, and break it down!

A no good man is white, black, yellow, red, and any other color of a person that exists. Not to miss any realm of a being, and to be politically correct, you may choose to call him Caucasian, African-American, Latin, Asian, European, Indian, Puerto Rican, or any one of the smallest speck of a country on the planet. It doesn’t matter! The most unmistakable classification is that he is of the male species. He thinks more with what’s between his legs, than what’s between his ears. He prefers to chase then conquer, rather than to care, and support. He’s attractive, and he’s not. He’s athletic with a toned body, and he’s not. He wears stylish clothing, and he does not. He drives an eye catching car, and he does not. He’s tall, short, or somewhere in between. He’s wealthy, or broke. He’s a husband, father, or friend. He’s the student, and the teacher. He’s the celebrity, attorney, doctor, garbage man, bus driver, or any other career or job a man could have. He is the man standing next to you in the elevator with the friendly smile. He is the trainer at the gym who flexes his biceps as he’s talking to you. He is the neighbor, who on a regular basis may ask you out for drinks.

He’s the guy driving next to you on the freeway who has the audacity to somehow signal you to pull over to exchange phone numbers. He’s that man with the puppy in the park who is so cute you just can’t resist. He’s the co-worker who is extremely friendly with all of the women in the office, and the one they secretly inquire about. He’s that great looking pastor you sometimes hear rumors about, but can’t quite get a handle on. He’s been the president of the United States whose secret servicemen know more secrets than you think! Other words, he is all around you. He is the man who goes out, stays out, then scouts you out. And in the end, if you allow him, he will break your heart!

Foreword

How to know when your man is up to no good became an idea for a book because on a daily basis I would hear and see so many women in pain. In pain from all the games that were played on them, and their lives. I’d see women at the grocery store with children by themselves looking so worn-out from a stressful day.

During a time when I worked for a wireless company, I’d sometimes hear other women