I come to you today with some tough love. My intention is to move you in the right direction. In the direction of what you want. Of what you DESERVE. Which is a stable man to build an exciting and solid future with. A committed masculine man on whom you can rely to just fucking be there. This week I’ve had more than 20 one-hour calls with women to discuss whether they’re ready to make a PERMANENT change in their life and start attracting a different caliber of men. Better men. Not the ones who are wishy-washy, don’t know what the hell they want from life or who they are. These men are waiting for a woman to come in and tell them what to do. Do you want a man like that? Yuck. That’s what I thought, too. And also not the man who’s so cocky and alpha that you can smell his ego before he walks into the room. Too full of himself. Too proud (and too scared) to have a real connection with a woman. Too chicken to take responsibility and commit to one woman and create a family. All the women I talk to don’t want these types of men but they seem to be attracting exactly those. These women are intelligent, hard-working, ambitious, and independent. They’re brilliant. I know you’re one of those women too. You keep hitting the same roadblock in your dynamics with men. You keep seeing the same pattern. You keep falling asleep at night knowing the clock is ticking. Thinking that it might be too late. Knowing that this is painful enough that you book a discovery call with me on a Saturday night. And yet you’re too afraid to admit that this is such a deep pain of yours and afraid to take the next step and invest in yourself to make the necessary shift. Because you’ve been running on independent masculine engines for so long. Because you think this is not so bad. It’s not actually that important. “I’m going to wait and see. To read a few more books, buy a few more (useless) $300 courses. Listen to a few more podcasts.” Well, you’ll be listening and reading for a long time. Because this stuff is hard to figure out on your own. It’s not impossible, but just really hard if you’re not a professional in it, living and breathing it day in and day out. And it’s going to take time. Hell, it took me four years (!) to get this shit sorted through courses, books, and starting my own podcast talking to men all day long. Do you have that time to invest? Likely not. So you gotta get real. You gotta finally admit that this is too painful. That this is consuming 80% of your emotional, mental and material space and energy. And you gotta get serious about solving this issue NOW. You also have to understand that all the money, energy, and effort you’re putting into finding the right guy, looking good, spending hours and hours talking to girlfriends, and listening to podcasts is COSTING you. It’s costing you your youth, it’s costing you reproductive success and it’s costing you money. Women tell me they don’t want to invest $3,000 in a high-level program that will surely bring them the men they want to be attracting but they do spend waaaay more than that on beauty treatments, shopping, hair, and nails in 3 months. And all these things are great but they do not solve the core issue: your limiting beliefs about men that keep you in the same pattern of attracting the unavailable or feminine men. And they definitely won’t fix you being in your masculine energy all the time. You can look at an amazing feminine woman on the outside but be hard as a rock on the inside not letting any man in. Putting things into such a perspective helps you see that you can’t afford not to do it. So ask yourself how long are you willing to do what doesn’t work? And how much is getting that stable solid relationship worth to you? Because there is not enough time. You can’t sit there and wait for things to fix themselves. Your man is not going to arrive out of nowhere. Great men want great women who stand strong in their feminine power. Great men want women who know how to be women. So st