PERFECT LOVE: BEYOND HUMAN CONCEPT OF LOVE AND MARRIAGE

By John King Hill and EVETTE YOUNG

Besides the LORD God guiding the believer in marital love relationship decision-making, God can also show who would be the right husband or wife to the believer. The believer must have the spiritual ability to know and understand what God is doing in his or her life. In the case of the Adam, we see God bring his wife unto him, but in other bibli

• Language: English
• Publisher: World Harvesters
• Release date: Dec 12, 2019
• ISBN: 9781087854472

John King Hill

Apostle (Dr.) John King Hill was ordained by the world-renowned servant of God, Rod Parsley, Pastor of World Harvest Church, Columbus, Ohio. Apostle John King Hill holds the following degrees: Bachelor's degree in Biblical Studies, Master's degree in Theology, Doctorate of Divinity, and PhD in Ministry from Canon Bible College and Seminary, Orlando, Florida, USA. Apostle John King Hill is the founder of World Harvesters Outreach Ministries Conferences & Crusades, Inc. Apostle John King Hill is the Host of the Power&Glory World television and radio broadcasts, and has appeared on many Christian Network Televisions around the world: WHT, WHNO 20, The Word Network, Oracle Television Network, The Miracle Channel, Sky Angel, TBN, The Church Channel, Impactv, BellTV, ShawDirect, TelusSatTV, SaskTel Max, TelusOptik TV, and several others. World Harvesters Outreach Ministries Conferences & Crusades, Inc. produces conferences and crusades dedicated to reaching the world with the Word by the power of the Spirit. The call upon this ministry is to reveal God to suffering humanity through the Word of God, and by radical demonstration of His glorious power, until people's heart-troubling questions and circumstances are laid to rest, and they find genuine confidence and good courage to overcome life's obstacles, difficulties, provocations, aggressions, challenges, confrontations, demons, and elements of God's creation.The goal of this ministry is to reach the world through providing education, leadership training, mentorship, media outreach programs, worldwide evangelistic conferences, and crusades; caring for the needy and less privileged; supporting other organizations of like faith; and showing an example of Christian life.

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Table of Contents

Copyright

PREFACE

CHAPTER ONE

PARENTAL AND FRIENDSHIP OPINIONS

THE CODE OF LIFE

CHAPTER TWO

REMAINING COMMITTED AND DEDICATED

UNTIL DEATH

CHAPTER THREE

QUALITY AND VALUE

THE KILLER LOVE

JUDGING BY OUTSIDE APPEARANCE

CHAPTER FOUR

THE MAGNIFICENT BEAUTY OF LOVE

CHAPTER FIVE

THE CRY OF A LAD

CHAPTER SIX

WINNING LOVE WITH LOVE

FEELING VERSUS THE LIFE OF LOVE

CHAPTER SEVEN

LOVE FOR THE WIFE, CHURCH AND PEOPLE

FOREIGN OR STRANGE BODY

CHAPTER EIGHT

SUBMIT YOURSELF ONE TO ANOTHER

DIE TO LOVE

RULING OVER YOUR HOUSE

CHOOSING A SINGLE OVER MARRIAGE LIFE

CHAPTER NINE

INTERNAL HEALING

KEY TO PROBLEM SOLVING

WHERE ART THOU?

DEFENDER VERSUS COVERING

CHAPTER TEN

DEATH OF IMMORTAL

REVERSION OF ORDER

POWER OF WOMAN

LOVE GOD ABOVE FAMILY

A WARRIOR WOMAN

Preface

Besides the LORD God guiding the believer in marital love relationship decision-making, God can also show who would be the right husband or wife to the believer. The believer must have the spiritual ability to know and understand what God is doing in his or her life. In the case of the Adam, we see God bring his wife unto him, but in other biblical scenarios, we see God guiding men in the search for a wife. The same principle applies to the men of God. Both can find each other, and both can recognize each other depending on their spiritual capacity to estimate and appreciate spiritual things. He that is spiritual judgeth all things (1 Corinthians 2:15). Spirituality is so fundamental in the believer’s life that it is the backbone of his or her prosperity.

Until the believer is spiritually empowered, his or her life will remain disproportionately balanced. The power to know and understand secret things belongs unto the LORD God (Deuteronomy 29:29). Therefore, it is why the believer needs the life of God, which is the key to His authority and power. The Bible said, my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge and lack of vision (Hosea 4:6). Seeing and hearing beyond this human life takes the great authority and power of God, which no academic institution can confer. Until the life, authority, and power of God rules in the life of the believer, he will continue to live by trial and error, which are equivalent to self-betrayal! Omission is not a matter of whether what the believer is searching for is there or not, but having the authority and power to know and understand hidden things. Timing is very important in making critical decisions because opportunity can come and go. Learning and practice has marginal errors, which could be very costly. This is why rulers surround themselves with counselors because where people are not functioning under the power of rulership, they need counselors to offset the power of their decision-making. Trying it to see if it fits is not the alternative answer to making the right decision at the right season, time or moment.

Great decision-making takes great authority and power. The believer’s marital decision needs the depth of God, even as the believer cannot live without the fullness of God. ‘Perfect Love’ is written to guide the believer into the depth of the love and power of God and to help him or her through the most complex – radical marital love relationship decision-making.

I pray that as you read through every page of this revelatory material that the LORD God will give you deeper knowledge and understanding of the mysteries contained in this manual. May your life experience the unusual surge of God’s revelation to operate in the decision-making power of Heaven. Amen.

In His Love,

APOSTLE (DR.) JOHN KING HILL

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him… Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh (Genesis 2:18, 24).

Besides meeting each other’s needs, the root of marriage is love. A help meet must be welcomed and received in love, or the relationship will not last. ‘…And they shall become one flesh’ even as one bone, and therefore, one spirit and one body. Marriage goes beyond walking in unity to unification, which requires God’s activity besides human effort. Love is the nourishment of a loving relationship; therefore, where the action of love fails, pain and hurt abound. The greatest challenge love faces is the lack of power to act. Although communication conveys the message of love, communication of love is not enough to establish love in perfect rest. Challenges can easily dry fountain of love, unless it builds up immune system that can stand the toxic radiation of the suffering of life. Sleep is equivalent to rest, but it is equally death. When the man lay dead in love for the wife, the marital love relationship is relieved from abusive pain and hurt.

The medication for martial dysfunction illness is prescribed in this scriptural verse:

And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept: and he took one of  his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof  (Genesis 2:21).

Human sensitivity does not do much for an ailing loving relationship until a measure of love is administered. We must know that death cannot be faked just as true love cannot be manufactured. Therefore, acting in love calls for investigative work that reaches beyond the boundary of the human life, and until the woman sees the man lying dead – separated from emotional over-reaction and expression, which can only lead to dangerous consequences, she would never submit. The only way the woman can protect her rights from being trampled underfoot is love. Her only security is the love voucher, which she would never trust in the hands of a man so every time she hears, I love you, she would look deeply into the statement of confession and wait to see the demonstration. Her love voucher is seeing the life of the man sacrificed or lay down for her. The words I am sorry and I promise not to do it again are promissory notes attached to the love voucher to create volumes in a library of meaningful information. Although the man may think that his affection towards a woman is a lucky charm, it does not stop the woman from maintaining a written record of every second of the relationship. Lovemaking or sexual intercourse does not spare a man from dying to keep the love relationship alive, or else he would watch it wither and die like the morning flower. Love is tender, and there is a thin line between love and hate. It is like walking between life and death, unless we possess advanced knowledge, understanding, wisdom, counsel, might, fear of the Lord, and judgment to help us respond promptly and precisely. Although God gave man ‘help meet,’ believers need all the help they can get from God, or their marital love life will collapse and die.

Then said his wife unto him, Dost thou still retain thine integrity? Curse God, and die (Job 2:9).

When death occurs, there is no feeling and emotional over-reaction and expression. A dead man has no emotion or feeling. It is quietness and peace, which is better than million explanations. Love works together with joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance (Galatians 5:22-23), or you will break every rule. The Bible concludes, against such there is no law. Feeling, expression, and over-reaction go together, and without certain qualities and abilities to guard your actions, you will not know where to stop. The key is in your hand, and that key is love. There is a difference between self-inflicted wound versus love-inflicted wound.

PARENTAL AND FRIENDSHIP OPINIONS

For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? (Matthew 19:5).

The interference and influences that come from parents, loved ones, and friends can poison a marriage relationship. Some influences are manipulative and controlling, and they lead to dangerous actions, which can open the doors for demonic powers. Families and friends have destroyed more marriages than devils. Some of these failures are the result of wicked acts, and others, ignorance and illiteracy. Some are result of cultural inclinations and traditional observances. Together, they work as catalyst in opposing the law of God to make it ineffectual. How far can parental and friendship opinions reach in a marriage relationship? The fact is, some meddling by friends and family have led to separation and divorce, which are secondary in God’s order of marriage. The big question is, do they see these acts as purporting a crime or sinning against God? I believe that in many cases, they do not. The reason is parental and friendship relationships lack the capacity to diagnose the key elements that nourish the life of marriage relationship. The marriage relationship is unlike any other because it calls for separation and seclusion besides unity and unification. Part of the reason is because the focus it takes to go from unity to unification calls for undistributed and undisturbed attention. Accord or common agreement takes the intervention of people but unification takes the application of the spiritual law of life!

For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife and they twain shall be one flesh? (Matthew 19:5)

The efficiency of any law depends on its enforcement. The outline of the law of marriage shows progressive and intensive measures to accommodate unity and unification, and defeat any attack that could lead to separation and divorce. The more reduction in the volume of people that get intertwined and entangled in a marriage relationship, the greater success the marriage will see. Outside influence and manipulative control will drive the marriage to collapse. The male and female Adam were the only people in the Garden of Eden. I use the word male and female Adam to show that both were called Adam until the male Adam called her Eve. (See Genesis 3:20; 5:2). A successful life is not dependent upon volume, but mastering and doing one thing until it is established in eternal order.

In some cases, marriage counseling is useless because each marriage relationship will face a different direction in life. There is not one human plan that can guide every relationship, but there is only one order of a godly marriage.

If married partners are properly trained and equipped, their benefits will extend to their family and friends. Instead of consulting a witch or warlock to control the marriage, the couple will pray for God to help the marriage succeed. Meddling with spiritual law can lead to major consequences, and it is often difficult to reverse the outcome. The Bible said, what God has joined together, let no man put asunder! Until a marriage reaches the point where they two become one, it remains vulnerable to many attacks that tend to separate and destroy marriage relationships.

Unity is accord, and you can agree to disagree, but unification is perfection because it is switching to the last number to form unbreakable link or barrier. Unification is the master key to remaining joined together as a whole. Opinion does not outweigh the rule of law, so breaking the law to save yourself will destroy the future of the relationship. The opinions of parents and friends are often good, but when they lack godly