A Grandson's Guide to Women and Sex

By Hank Silver

I have watched the Grandkids grow and mature and I have often wondered how well equipped they will be to enter the world away from the protection and nurturing environment they have always had. They have been raised in a loving home with a strong moral and Christian foundation that will server them for the rest of their lives. There have been no drugs, alcohol or violence to warp them. Their parents have remained happily married through many trials and tribulations, unlike so many other families.

The Grandkids have been exposed to public school and the realities of life. They hear and see things at school that they are screened from at home. As they grow and mature they will be facing the 'outside' world. They see and hear of the violence and terrible things that happen in this world but have not had the misfortune to experience. Very soon they will be in that world and will be faced with serious challenges to their beliefs, attitudes and perception of their realities.

For this reason, I have decided to write this series of monographs. It is often difficult, if not impossible to have a sit down discussion of life matters with a teenager. Either the attention span is not sufficient or the embarrassment quotient too extreme. Let's face it, some of these things are just not easy to discuss and may be uncomfortable to hear. That is why I am starting out with the blockbuster topic of 'Women and Sex'. BAM, there it is!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Hank Silver
• Release date: Feb 9, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301434930

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A Grandson's Guide

To

Women and Sex

By:

Hank Silver

Copyright 2013 by Hank Silver

Smashwords Edition

Introduction & Dedication

I am a Grandfather! I have several wonderful Grandchildren whom I love dearly. Several of them are boys becoming young men. As I have watched them grow and mature since their birth, I have always admired my daughter's ability (along with my fantastic Son-in-Law) to raise these kids and to nurture, protect, and above all, love them. Each one is different, not only in physical appearance and body type, but most importantly in their spirit, temperament and personality.

As I said, I am a Grandfather to these wonderful kids, but not by biological lineage, but by love and affection. These two, I love without exception or reservation. I admire their strength and ability to have put up with me over the decades through good and not so good times. It has been and continues to be a most excellent adventure!

That being said, as I have watched the Grandkids grow and mature, I have often wondered how well equipped they will be to enter the world away from the protection and nurturing environment they have always had. They have been raised in a loving home with a strong moral and Christian foundation that will server them for the rest of their lives. There have been no drugs, alcohol or violence to warp them. Their parents have remained happily married through many trials and tribulations, unlike so many other families.

The Grandkids have been exposed to public school and the realities of life. They hear and see things at school that they are screened from at home. As they grow and mature they will be facing the 'outside' world. They see and hear of the violence and terrible things that happen in this world but have not had the misfortune to experience. Very soon they will be in that world and will be faced with serious challenges to their beliefs, attitudes and perception of their realities.

For this reason, I have decided to write this series of monographs. It is often difficult, if not impossible to have a sit down discussion of life matters with a teenager. Either the attention span is not sufficient or the embarrassment quotient too extreme. Let's face it, some of these things are just not easy to discuss and may be uncomfortable to hear. That is why I am starting out with the blockbuster topic of 'Women and Sex'. BAM, there it is!

I will attempt to conduct a dialogue that I am unable, ill-equipped or too uncomfortable to have one-on-one with my Grandson. Some of the experiences I relate may be offensive to some, educational to others, or old information already known to many. I write this as a personal discussion I want to have with my Grandson to help prepare him for his future.

I hope he will understand that I speak from my heart, with the intent to prepare him for the 'outside' world. This discussion which neither his Father nor Mother would approve as it may be contradictory to their personal beliefs. I write it from personal experience of a life lived over 65 years; having learned lessons from my mistakes