The Love Diet
By Leigh Kellis
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Now, three years later, she admits she didn’t do any of those things. She couldn’t even eat her own donuts for terror of weight gain. She faced a downward spiral of poor health, and struggle. Kellis went on a pleasure lockdown because she was so miserable in her body. After three years, she found food didn’t cure her entirely. In The Love Diet, she shares her journey. At first, it was to solve some health issues and weight gain, and this ultimately led to unexpected healing and self-love that were nothing short of miraculous.
In The Love Diet, Kellis goes deep into spirituality to find that weight loss and health are not just about food, but about love. The love diet is a steady diet of love, faith, listening to your intuition, and trusting yourself, your cravings, your choices, your capabilities, and your ability to love. And it’s about eating whatever you want.
Leigh Kellis
Leigh Kellis is a baker, mother, and a self-love seeker. She is now, through trial and error, and much struggle, an “expert” on loving yourself, feeling good in your jeans, and spreading love and hope like crazy, because this is what the world demands right now. ‘What you love will love you back, right?’
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The Love Diet - Leigh Kellis
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ISBN: 978-1-9822-5356-1 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-9822-5357-8 (e)
Balboa Press rev. date: 02/22/2021
CONTENTS
Preface
Introduction
The Story
Trust
Risk
Hawaii
Meaning
Sadness
Beauty
Music
Wine
Pleasure Log
Shoulds
Love
Dad
Being Sixteen
Being Forty-Five
PREFACE
I am a fake. I wrote a book called Women Who Need Donuts about eating donuts, making a business out of love, and allowing oneself to eat in pleasure and joy. Honor your cravings! Live! Indulge! Allow! It’s all good!
And I’m full of shit. I don’t do any of those things.
The past three years have been a doozy. After my dad died, I continued on a downward spiral of poor health, weight gain, and struggle. I couldn’t figure out the connection. I cut out gluten, dairy, sugar, wine, life, everything. I went on pleasure lockdown because I was so miserable in my body.
After three years, I found that food didn’t cure me entirely. Restricting didn’t cure me. Restricting spiraled out of control. I was unable to fix myself and get a grip and cope with the pain I didn’t realize had always been in my heart. Today, I was talking to my therapist and confessed that I have an eating disorder.
I said, Here I am, the Donut Queen, and I don’t even eat my own donuts. I can’t.
I can’t eat them because of food fear. I literally panic at the thought of a donut because I have been tiptoeing around my discomfort in my body for these three years, and the pain has been too raw. I didn’t even know what the exposed raw nerve was, but it’s insecurity, unworthiness, and fear. It’s fear of being human, having an imperfect body,
not being loved, not feeling beautiful. I needed self-love. I needed soothing. Coping. Soul medicine.
I’ve been frantically looking for this relief through my diet. I thought cutting out gluten and sugar would save me, heal me, fix me, anesthetize the pain. It didn’t work.
I’ll tell you what worked. It was the opposite of pleasure lockdown.
This is the love diet.
INTRODUCTION
I wrote a book called Women Who Need Donuts. I read through it now, and I am amazed at the personal wisdom I had then. I believed my own words then. I do believe them now, but something got in the way: fear, doubt, and a total bottoming out of belief in myself.
I don’t know why this happened, but it’s become clear that messages and pain resurface until you get the lesson. I thought I had figured it all out; I had not. The deep sense of unworthiness was hiding beneath the surface. The beast had not been cured. The terror of not being loveable as is was sitting in me, not healed.
Right when I published that book, my dad died. I acknowledged at that time that losing a father leaves a void—a void that requires an opportunity to turn toward something else to replace the sense of security in the world that dads are designed to provide. The only option to replace that security, I found, is God.
I guess the bottoming out was the realization that my faith was rocky at best. I didn’t believe in a God who was on my side. I didn’t believe in life that can be really magical and beautiful.