The Journey to an Unstoppable Break Through

By Evelyn Saah-Giegbefumwen

This book was written to empower men and women. It served as a source of answers to many peoples questions and a source of solutions to the problems of many out there. This book helps to shed light on those who have not given their life to Christ. By reading this book, one will know that only God can make all the impossible possible. It will help people understand that there is someone greater than us and that is God. He is in control at all times and has the last day in our life.

This book also talks about relationships, and it emphasizes the importance of taking time to look and pray carefully before saying I do.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Jan 4, 2017
• ISBN: 9781524573317

Evelyn Saah-Giegbefumwen

The author was born in Cameroon ( West Africa ) came to the US as a teenager and obtain the US citizenship. She studied and went to college in the US. She is married and a mother of three children. She worked as an intake counselor in New Jersey . Collecting data and entering information in the computer helping mothers completing their application for food stamps. And listers to their stories every day while going to college. The author's desire and interest on enabling and empowering people started from this experience . She is currently a member of The Redeemed Christian Church Of God Strong Tower Sanctuary in PA. She is currently a minister and a Sunday school teacher. Given her life to Christ and seeing how God has transformed her life from grass to Grace encouraged her to write this book to help encourage someone else to God's Glory.

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Copyright © 2017 by EVELYN SAAH-GIEGBEFUMWEN.

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Contents

Dedication

Acknowledgment

Chapter One Social Organization of a Primitive Society

Chapter Two Emotional Abuse Chapter

Chapter Three How to Stop Your Abuser

Chapter Four Healing the Scars of Emotional Abuse

Chapter Five God Allows Trials and Tribulations

Chapter Six Characteristics to Look for Before Getting into a Relationship

Chapter Seven What a Woman Needs to Know before Getting into Marriage

Chapter Eight Communication in a Blessed Home

Chapter Nine Christ Being the Center of Our Home

Chapter Ten Side by Side with God

Chapter Eleven Having an Unbeliever as a Friend

Chapter Twelve Life of Legacy

Dedication

I dedicate this book to the Almighty God who gave me the vision to write this book. To him alone be all the glory. Also to my beloved mother, Mrs. Christine Saah, the woman who made sure that I, as her seed, was well taken care of.

Acknowledgment

I thank God for making my life meaningful. To my beloved husband (Anthony Sr.), the man who lifts up my heart and my life and was willing to begin a challenging venture to love me. My sons Anthony and Derek and my daughter Sandra, you are all the best. I’m blessed to have you all in my life.

Special thanks to Sandra Giegbefumwen, my beloved daughter for inspiring and encouraging me to go ahead and publish this book, for helping me editing and typing it, and for standing by my sides at all times during the process. May God richly bless you with long life and prosperity.

Pastor Bolaji, Ajasa of Redeemed Christian Church of God, thank you for lifting me up in prayers, for helping me identify my callings. May God bless you for the good works you are doing for his church.

All my fantastic siblings, Mathias, Felix, Paul, Lawrence, Emmanuel, Lilian, and Arlethia, for all your encouragement and support during this process.

All my brothers and sisters in Redeemed Christian Church of God.

All my coworkers and to you and many others not mentioned by default, I thank you all.

Chapter One

Social Organization of a Primitive Society

A number of distinctions based on status and physiology are important in daily life. Perhaps the most conspicuous and most important is the distinction between males and females, and what each has to do as he or she becomes an adult. In primitive societies, males are more valuable than females.

The story of Dora goes. As a little girl, she was obliged to tend her younger brothers and sisters. She was expected to help her mother in other chores such as cooking, hauling water, and collecting firewood. By the time Dora reached puberty, she had already learned that her world is decidedly less attractive than that of her brothers. She was also promised by that time she has no voice and in the decision reached by her elder kin in deciding whom she would marry. She was largely pawns to be disposed of by her kinsman, and her wishes were given very little consideration. Dora’s husband elect started raising her from part of her childhood. She inherited most of the duties without enjoying many of the privileges.

Dora finally