Why Do I Think I Need You!

By Cynthia Anderson

The book was composed in respect toward many sources of women who believe that men are the main spectrum in their lives. The book will identify a womans need and perceived needs from a man. There are many women globally that have their own perspective and ideology on how to satisfy a man. Therefore, how do women overcome battles in finding the right man? Perhaps it is just a psychological process for women to believe that they can gain ownership through their flesh and desires. When one evaluate it content is their every ownership involved, even in midst of marriage or commitment. The book displays parts that women play in a relationship; it shows values in having a relationship. In addition, it will identify peoples views, realities, concepts, and experiences toward the nature of having a relationship. Many have forgotten the significant dynamics in having a healthy relationship. Therefore, it is not a male-bashing book; it is for one to address problems, get insight and knowledge on issues so a person can correct them. In order to do so, men and women had to be mentioned within the book because two people are needed to make a relationship.
In addition, the book was diplomatic to give inspiration and examples to the young and the old in gaining healthy relationships. Many of the stories are funny, sad, exciting, exotic, damn sexy, and explicit from a womans point of view. The purpose in that is, we live in a real world and pretend not to see things for what they really are, leaving room for disappointment. The book was based on interviews, research, life experiences, and a bit of fiction.

My hopes are for you to enjoy this book as much as I enjoyed writing it again! I like to give thanks to many who believe in my creativeness in Why Do I Think I Need You?
Sincerely,
Love you all!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Jul 11, 2011
• ISBN: 9781477170397

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WHY DO I THINK I NEED YOU!

CYNTHIA ANDERSON

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Contents

Acknowledgment

PREFACE

Introduction

Male Players/Womanizers

Definition of Female Player/Gold Digger

What Are Some of the Rules in Being in a

Committed Relationship?

A Committed Relationship

 (We Only Have Intercourse Once in a Blue Moon)

Religious Relationships

Financial Crisis

Strategies That May Be Considered in a Relationship

Young Girls and Older Men

Relationships between Older Women and Young Men

Symbol of Diversity

You Are My Boo

Unconditional Love

Love and Sacrifice

Love and Pain

Abusive Relationships

Is It Good to Reflect on Your Relationships?

How Well Do You Know Your Partner?

Overview of the Survey Questionnaire

Can a Man Be Married and Have a Mistress

and Be In Love with Both Women?

Why Get Involved with a Man Who Is Already

Involved with Someone Else?

Feedback on the Story Written Above

My Man’s on Lockdown

Why Didn’t You Tell Me?

You Were My Bestie

This Analysis Is from Two Males’ and

Two Females’ Perspective

How Can We Stay Together

What a Difficult Situation—Let’s Reflect

the Above Story!

Why Can’t I Love Thee?

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Acknowledgment

I do want to thank many who have inspired me through this journey and believed in me more than I believed in myself. They kept me on my toes while I stayed up late nights and espoused on my manuscript. They were there to listen to me no matter the time or hour. With that said, special thanks go out to Sharon Anderson, Reginald Moye, and Darryl Carathers for the energy and help. Also a big shout-out to my backbone Rashemia Simone Williams in helping me to have silence to get it done. I also would like to thank God for giving me the strength and intelligence to make this book possible. Furthermore, he put the right people in my path who want to see this through and reassure me that I could make it happen. Further, I am forever grateful and would like to give thanks to a special person who is very dear to me, my mother, Lucy B. Jones, whom I love very dearly. There are not enough words to express the love I have for her; she has always been a mother and friend—just to name a few. For that I am forever thankful. If I miss anyone, I love you all! Enjoy!

Kisses and hugs.

PREFACE

The book was composed in respect toward many sources of women who believe that men are the main spectrum in their lives. The book will identify a woman’s need and perceived needs from a man. There are many women globally that have their own perspective and ideology on how to satisfy a man. Therefore, how do women overcome battles in finding the right man? Perhaps it is just a psychological process for women to believe that they can gain ownership through their flesh and desires. When one evaluate it content is their every ownership involved, even in midst of marriage or commitment. The book displays parts that women play in a relationship; it shows values in having a relationship. In addition, it will identify people’s views, realities, concepts, and experiences toward the nature of having a relationship. Many have forgotten the significant dynamics in having a healthy relationship. Therefore, it is not a male-bashing book; it is for one to address problems, get insight and knowledge on issues so a person can correct them. In order to do so, men and women had to be mentioned within the book because two people are needed to make a relationship.

In addition, the book was diplomatic to give inspiration and examples to the young and the old in gaining healthy relationships. Many of the stories are funny, sad, exciting, exotic, damn sexy, and explicit from a woman’s point of view. The purpose for explicitness in language is, we live in a real world and pretend not to see things for what they really are, leaves room for disappointment. The book was based on interviews, research, life experiences, and a bit of fiction.

My hopes are for you to enjoy this book as much as I enjoyed writing it again! I like to give thanks to many who believe in my creativeness in Why Do I Think I Need You?

Sincerely,

Love you all!

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We all have responsibilities in a relationship or partnership. However, you have a title to sustain within that bond. The words we and us should be defined and displayed with such greatness and respect, but it must be earned. We should pray for anything that is worth having when it comes to our lives. We are in control, and the same respect should be given to the person in your life. God will guide that relationship, commend, secure, and bless you in all you do! Love supplies a hurl of trust, support, spiritual faith, faithfulness, inspiration, emotion, and love. It is a melody to the heart.

All you have to do is listen to music and harmony; it is a pleasure to have good rhythm. The concentration will bring forth memorable moments for a lifetime of great lyrics. Don’t downgrade your gain for one-night flings; you want him or her for winter, spring, summer, and fall. In order to have that, stay true and you will have a gift for life. Let her know you need thee. Don’t be despair; the Lord hears all your prayers, so just remember, Do unto others as they may do unto you. In God’s name we should trust.

Introduction

All women have learned morals and values from being conditioned by parents and guardians. Example: cooking, cleaning, and taking care of siblings help to condition them for life’s journey. Mothers do not usually teach daughters the simplicity of love and pain; it is achieved with time and experience. Psychologically and physically, women find men to be therapeutic, someone to share inner thoughts and emotional sins. Once that man has inserted his penis into the midst of the vagina, the blood circulates into the walls of the vagina, and sperm reaches the cervix of the vagina. He has just planted his spirit into you and has just connected with a special part of you, placing his demons, sins, and trash into your body. That is why it is important to know what type of person you are giving yourself too. More importantly, does he deserve your heart? Purity should be a factor. Is the person worth sharing your plans? However, let us not exclude man who’s dedicated to one woman. He may have the incentive to notice a variety of women but will not take part of the aura given off by these attractive women.

Nevertheless, do not believe for one second that he wouldn’t lust over being with another. Women, you must face reality when it comes to men. They have the instincts of a male dog (no, I am not saying they are actually dogs); it is just a phrase meaning males think with their penis.

Men are naturally stimulated by the female species, and many times, a switch goes off automatically in their brain and creeps through the testosterone. Men are visual creatures, especially in the presence of women. In addition, there is a big difference between lust, having sex, and making love. First of all, when men are using women as a sex object, he does not care how he is banging out the vagina or what your lifestyle is about or your family history; there is no romance. It is just a nut—nothing more, nothing less. On the other hand, when he is interested in your occupation or spending time and concerned with your welfare, chances are he may have good intentions in having a committed relationship. Further, when a man is making love, he communicates with your mind and body in a sensuous way. His touch will feel like an electrical shock. The result of that will be teasing, squeezing, and holding you so tightly that you will hear his heartbeat. From there, he will dip inside your vagina like a warrior with great stamina. Therefore, his embracement should make one feel like their electrolyte is going out.

Many women should look beyond the scope. Women have been, and always will be, considered—in the eyes of society—a commodity of lusts and sex (i.e., the media, strip clubs, escort services, prostitution, music, videos, and magazines). It has been going on for eons. Therefore, many of the examples mentioned influence the male gender to have a certain outlook and expectation of women and sexual activities. Many men look at women as categories, e.g., wife, easy prey, one-night stand, mistress, freaks, hoes, and bitches. Women have to decide which category they would like to be labeled as.

In one respect, individuals are so engrossed with media hype and brainwashing materials that indicate what a person should be, what they should eat, what they should look like, or what is healthy and unhealthy. Again, due to media, all these examples mentioned above play a significant role on relationships, worldly views, and expectations.

On the other hand, the majority of women like men who have swagger, are a bit jealous, speaks with authority, takes care of the home, and takes charge. During the biblical era, men were taught to take charge and protect a woman, so naturally, women are turned on by a man of strength. This type of man is a challenge, a chase; women are naturally nurturing, so when they want something and cannot get it, she will chase harder in getting what she want.

Many women walk all over a soft man who does not place their foot down when needed. This kind of man, she considers him to be half of a man. Many women believe a soft dude is boring and too simple; he does not bring excitement to her life. The above statement happens to be a biased thought but has a lot of truth within the words. Once again, the media publicizes people’s worldly views with dictation and expectations of a real man. Some people follow right behind particular rules Why? Because people want to live their lives like television, but what is really funny is that stars, actors, and actresses don’t live what they portray on television. Some men do not have an aggressive attitude and may not like confusion, so they avoid many situations and do not have a lot of fight within them. Many women will say, How can he protect me from a situation? or run the household, i.e., His punk ass, I’ll beat his ass anytime, I feel like it, dumb ass, He acts like a girl, He don’t have any backbone, and so much more.

Female species have to understand most males like to hang out with their boys and talk on subjects such as sports, cars, drinking, strip clubs, employment, and women. All the subjects mentioned above become their main theme, and it is exciting for them as a human being. Further, when it comes down to relationships, communication is straight to the point. Most men like their relationship to be simple not complex. Many men believe that women talk entirely too much and wish they would just shut the hell