How to Analyze People Dark Psychology : Cheating, Relationships, Motives, Manipulation and Religion: Dark Psychology, #3

By Jason Gale

 

 

 

How to spot a cheater!

 

In America statistics from the Marriage and Divorce Journal report up to 70% spouses have some sort of extramarital affairs during the lifetime of their marriage.

 

The implications of this are serious and more astonishing than anyone could ever have imagined!

 

With the advent of social media, dating app and meet up groups, cheating has become easier and enabled on a much larger scale.

 

One could only imagine the depraved things done behind closed doors.

Marriage is supposed to be a sacred thing. A promise between two individuals who unite together and become one flesh.

Honour, trust, and love are all shattered when one partner decides to break their oath to stay faithful.

 

How did our society become a state of moral depravity? -Where once virtue, honour and integrity were upheld.

But now infidelity, lawlessness and disorder runs rampant in society and has become the norm.

 

In this book I'll show you how to spot a cheater. The tell tale-signs you need to look out for in a partner to know if they're being faithful or not.

 

I go into in-depth detail and reveal insights that will give you the knowledge you need to stay protected, and save yourself from a world of heartbreak.

 

What You'll Learn

 

• Infidelity in men and women
• Dark psychology
• Upbringing, factors and influences
• Role of religion
• Tell-tale signs of deception
• Are there any good people left in this world?
• Controversial themes
• And, much, much more!

Before diving into any relationship its good to have a well-rounded perspective from a critical lens and psychological view-point of how human behavior has evolved over time and the way we currently interact with one another.

 

Learn how you can protect yourself from unscrupulous individuals and how to spot deception.

 

The greatest investment you can make is an investment in yourself!

Enlighten yourself with the truth and set yourself free from the deception that awaits you in the this morally depraved world.

 

Buy Now!

 

• Language: English
• Publisher: Healthy Pragmatic Solutions Inc
• Release date: Apr 2, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393770985

Jason Gale

Jason Gale a world renowned communication and social skills expert. Majored in behavioral psychology, his valuable life experiences go even further and expand as some people consider him a top relationship/dating guru. He found his vocation in empowering others who lack social skills, have communication impediments or even relationship problems with powerful techniques and approaches that seem to always work with great success. Jason stated in his earlier years he was quite an introvert in high school and socially awkward, he feels obligated to give people the freedom of socializing that he didn't have due to his social inadequacies at the time. Through the passage of time he started to become more observant and spent a lot of time in his college library reading books trying to understand human psychology, social culture, communication skills and behavioral science. In incremental steps he became an expert, and soon enough became an excellent communicator when engaging anyone in conversation. Jason now works as a life coach for personal development and devotes much of his time writing empowering books, answering emails and phone calls for people in need of guidance in the realm of communication, relationships and socializing. In his leisure time he spends it with his loved ones, he's a family man and spends much of his time with his wife who he's been married to for over 23 years, and two children. He also has a dog whom he's quite fond of. He enjoys traveling the world gaining new experiences , lessons and nature watching. Jason desires to travel the world and impact lives one person at a time and fulfill his true purpose in life, helping others in need.

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How to Analyze People Dark Psychology: Cheating, Relationships, Motives, Manipulation and Religion

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Table of Contents

Chapter 1: Brief Introduction to Dark Psychology and Why People Lie

Introduction

Lying

Dark Psychology and Lying

Conclusion

Chapter 2: Infidelity and Affairs

Introduction

Infidelity in women

Proximity

Technology

Sex Appeal

Infidelity in men

Proximity

Technology

Sex appeal

Controversial Central Themes in Infidelity

Affinity

Falling out of love

Bachelor and Bachelorette parties

Conclusion

Chapter 3: Upbringing factors and influences of antisocial people

Introduction

Dysfunctional families

Childhood neglect

Childhood trauma/abuse

Single-parent upbringing

Antisocial personality disorder

Psychopathy

Sociopaths

Undiagnosed mental disorders

Poverty

Cultural and societal influences

Conclusion

Chapter 4: Role of religion in keeping society in check

Introduction

Ensuring social cohesion

Ensuring voluntary social control

Foundation of morals

Encouraging stable marital relationships

Encouraging education attainment

Influencing politics and governance

Psychological subversion

Balancing tolerance and tension

Influencing personality development

Conclusion

Chapter 5: Tell-tale signs of a deceitful person

Introduction

Body cues

Fidgeting

Avoiding eye contact

Sweating

Irritation and hostility

Inconsistent facial expressions

Behavioral change

Tone of voice

A high pitched voice

Voice cracking

Sudden changes in volume

Delay in response

Contradicting oneself

Conclusion

Chapter 6: How to identify people operating under dark psychology

Introduction

Dark triad personality types

Narcissism

Machiavellianism

Pathological Lying

Brainwashing

Reverse psychology

Gas-lighting

Emotional manipulation

Memory manipulation

Chapter 7: Are there truly any good people in this world?

Introduction

Proof that there are good people in the world

Nature and nurture argument

The negativity bias of news media

Humanitarian action

Conservation efforts

Proof that there are bad people in the world

Oppression of the poor

Inherent Narcissism

Historical injustices

Conclusion

Chapter 8: Summary and Conclusion

References

Chapter 1: Brief Introduction to Dark Psychology and Why People Lie

Introduction

Psychology is broadly defined as a study of the behavior of humans ranging from thoughts to actions. Dark psychology is a subset of psychology that deals with the tendency of humans to prey on others. People that operate under dark psychology often manifest thoughts and actions that purposefully manipulate and exploit others in a predatory way. There are different levels of dark psychology manifestations in people depending on their ability to control or suppress their predatory thoughts and behaviors. Some people know how to use dark psychology tactics intentionally to get what they want. They include salespersons, politicians, and many leaders who can subtly manipulate people so that they can close a deal, get votes, or become more popular. To the extreme end of dark psychology, others have limited control over their dark psychology tendencies and end up drowning in both deviant and unethical thoughts or actions. Often, they turn out to be narcissists and sociopaths among other things. Common to all levels of dark psychology tactics is an age-old trick: deception.

Lying

Lying is a common but still complex phenomenon. Dishonesty pervades many aspects of human life ranging from small harmless lies like saying you were stuck in traffic when late for a meeting to big lies such as cheating in romantic relationships. Therefore, dishonesty is common but has a wide range of implications.

There are four types of liars: occasional liars, frequent liars, smooth liars, and compulsive liars.

Occasional liars seldomly lie, though they can lie but will feel guilty for this. Frequent liars often tell small and sloppy lies daily and do not go to the extent of covering their lies. Many people will either be occasional or frequent liars. On the more extreme side of lying, smooth liars tell more serious lies and are very good with their words and cover stories. Many salespersons and politicians will fall into this category. The last type of liars are compulsive liars. This is the problematic group that often lies under the influence of dark psychology. They can lie even when they don't have to and can spend significant amounts of time and effort coming up with more lies.

Dark Psychology and Lying

Dark psychology can be used to understand better the motivation for lying and separate casual lies from the rather intense and problematic lying.  According to Dr. Michael Nuccitelli, a psychologist, all humans are capable of manipulating each other, though, most can restrain this tendency. Lying is one of the more commonly exhibited dark psychology tactics. Noteworthy, casual liars are able to restrain themselves from using deception to exploit others. However, people operating under dark psychology will usually have lost the ability to control themselves and will actively use lies as tools to exploit or manipulate others. 

Casual lies are common and almost ingrained in modern social behavior. For instance, causal lies are used to avoid hurting other’s feelings or increasing chances of success. This type of lying can be explained as a typical tendency using many psychological principles such as the psychoanalytic theory and behavior theory.

Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalytic theory regarding the id, ego, and super-ego can be used to explain why humans casually lie, even to themselves. The id is the aggressively instinctual part of the brain operating under the pleasure principle while the super-ego is the moral conscience that's driven towards perfectionism. The ego is the mediator between the two parts of the mind and it is responsible for compromises that ultimately shape up one’s behavior. The id uses primitive and powerful urges that push one to seek pleasure while the ego keeps devising realistic strategies to help the ego attain pleasure within the confines of the super-ego.

When the ego is unable to control the headstrong id, the mind experiences anxieties, and defense mechanisms are employed to relieve the anxiousness. Thus, whenever our id leads us into predicaments, part of our defense mechanism might include lying to ourselves (our superego) or others in order to ward off the anxiety.

As for the behavioral theory, human behavior is built based on lessons from a mix of experiences and potential consequences in one's environment. It, therefore, follows that lying is a learned tendency acquired from society. When we repeatedly see that lies result in favorable consequences for others, our behavior patterns become more inclined to lying. These psychological theories, among others, can explain baseline human behavior and casual lying.

However, predatory deception falls outside these explanations, rather it falls under the realms of dark psychology. While exploring a research gap linking dark psychology to deception, Baughman, Jonason, Lyons, and Vernon carried a study that proved that the dark triad personality traits are pre-disposed to dishonesty.

By evaluating psychopaths, Machiavellians, and narcissists, the researchers were able to find causative forces pushing such