Loving Yourself Is Always The Best Choice

By Linda Anonye

The word of God, the right mindset, and speaking positive affirmations is the key to a successful life. "Loving Yourself Is Always The Best Choice" will take you on a journey of self-discovery and self-love. Find out how you can transform your life and get rid of all the negativity that is weighing you down and keeping you from tapping into your greatness.

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This book will provide you with the right inspiration to set yourself on a positive path to start living a victorious life without ever looking back!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Linda Anonye
• Release date: Feb 14, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393590842

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Loving Yourself Is Always The Best Choice

The Roadmap To Becoming The Best Version

Of Yourself

Linda Anonye

Copyright 2021 Linda Anonye

Distributed by TheRealChii.com

This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to TheRealChii.com and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

This book is dedicated to: the Author and Perfector of my faith, Jesus Christ, and to all the wonderful people that have made my journey so enjoyable.

This self-help book should inspire you to break free from the questions and start stepping into your answers. Often, people feel insecure and unsure about themselves and don’t know how to change. They don’t know how to transition from discomfort to not only feeling comfortable but loving themselves. What many tend to overlook is that it all starts with the right mindset. The way you think about yourself and your environment is the key to positively changing yourself and your circumstances. In 2017, I started TheRealChii Blog—a space for inspiration and motivation to help people on their journey to a positive mindset and improved life. Some might call this nonsense, but the truth is, everything you do is connected to your mindset and the words you speak. If you want to be successful, have positive relationships, overcome challenges, and stand victorious on the other side, you must change your thoughts and confessions accordingly. This guide is an extension of the articles I published on my blog. If you want to read more, please visit www.TheRealChii.com.

Hopefully, this book will inspire you to step into your victory zone —your life is too precious not to!

Love,

Chii

Contents 

Intro: Why Loving Yourself Is Always The Best Choice

The Right Mindset Is The Beginning Of Wisdom

Want To Be Comfortable With Yourself? Be Yourself!

Winning Is The Only Option

Leaving The Negativity Behind

The Secret To a Happy Life: Being happy!

Finding Fulfillment By Giving To Others

What’s Next?

Intro: Why Loving Yourself Is Always The Best Choice

It took me a while to completely master the whole loving myself thing. Like many, I struggled with a lot of insecurities that started from my physical appearance to my skills and abilities. Many daunting questions would circle in my head: Am I attractive enough for people to like me ? Am I really an expert, or professional, in my field ? On my worst days, I thought: Am I good enough for anything ? And the answer was YES! Once that yes legitimately sank in, my entire life changed. I finally realized that any limitation I faced was a limitation I had placed on myself. If I wanted to achieve anything, I could do it with God’s help, even if I didn’t get support from anyone around me or faced fierce opposition. I learned not to sweat the shallow stuff anymore but to focus on the things that truly mattered. Does that mean I accepted myself with all the flaws, called it a day, and just kept it moving? Nah! I consider myself a masterpiece, so I understood that I needed to keep adding the right layers to get that highly anticipated and beautiful end result. My understanding of loving and accepting myself was: striving for something better at all times without putting myself down and at the same time constantly building myself up. Still, there are moments I catch myself entertaining feelings or thoughts of self-doubt—to combat those I declare the word of God over myself and speak affirmations in line with it. Do some people find that weird or even crazy? Maybe. But that doesn’t matter. What matters is that I have what is referred to as receipts (proof) in urban lingo to show that God has certainly placed me in a position of greatness. That proof is my testimony. As you read further, be encouraged that loving yourself is truly always the best choice.

The concept of self-love is often considered narcissistic or even selfish. But the root of your ability to love others or to be receptive to love starts from loving yourself. Imagine that you are starting a business and put your time and money into it. You strategize, make plans, and set all the necessary things in motion to get the business one step closer to success. You sacrifice quality time with loved ones and even ditch precious hours of sleep at night to work on your business venture. Wouldn’t your conviction that your efforts are worth the sacrifices motivate you to continue investing your resources into that business to see it thrive? In the same manner, you will take the time to build yourself up and to keep progressing, only when you realize that the most significant investment is in yourself. Everything you do to make yourself better revolves around that. You would never think about furthering your education, look for ways to develop yourself, or take that step towards advancing your career if you thought it was not worth it, right? Nobody would spend time and money on a university degree with the expectation that it would not be useful to them, and they would never find employment with it. Investing in yourself starts with believing in yourself. If you don’t believe in and love yourself, nobody else will. That means the beginning of loving yourself starts with seeing your worth.

Another great example comes from the word of God. God is our Creator, and to demonstrate how special we are to Him, He uses the most beautiful words to describe us. It also illustrates what we mean to Him and how we should see ourselves. Matthew 5:14-16 (NIV) says:

‘You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good