Loving What Is- Using The Work

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Loving What Is- Using The Work

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Today we are discussing one of my favorite leaders Byron Katie- and The Work. This process pairs beautifully with The Model by Brooke Castillo and helps to further investigate our thoughts and the results they create. For free worksheets, and more info check Show Notes

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This podcast is for those wanting success in life, motherhood and business. The balance isn't about doing more. To achieve success, it's learning to BE more and do less. End the hustle. You can find out more at www.chantelallecoaching.com

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