Instant Charisma: Attract People like Magnet and Built Personal Connections

By I J N

Unlock the power of "Instant Charisma" with I. J. N, the guide to attracting people like a magnet and building profound personal connections. This transformative book falls within the genres of Personal Transformation, Self-Help, and Public Speaking Reference, offerin

• Language: English
• Publisher: I J N
• Release date: Dec 2, 2023
• ISBN: 9798869031938

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Instant Charisma

Attract People like Magnet and Built Personal Connections

This text was originally published in India on the year of 2023.

The edits and layout of this version are Copyright © 2023

by I J N

This publication has no affiliation with the original Author or publication company.

Instant Charisma

Attract People like Magnet and Built Personal Connections

I J N

India

2023

CONTENTS

Part I - FIRST things FIRST

1 - Understanding Human Nature

2- The most important subject of any language

3- MAKE PEOPLE feel important

4- The most important character AFFAIR WITH PEOPLE.

5 - How to CONVERT PEOPLE to be like you immediately

6- HOW DO I MAKE A GREAT

7 - HOW TO CONNECT PEOPLE

8- How to develop an HTML0

9 - It's what they want Not what you want.

Part II – Communicate EFFECTIVELY

10- LISTEN to active people

11- Become an influencer

12- HOW TO CONVINCE PEOPLE EASY

13 - GET PEOPLE TO SAY YES TO YOU

14- TALK SLOWER Do More

15- RESPECT OTHER People's OPINIONS

16 - BE TRUE. Be transparent. Be YOU!

17 - Communicate effectively

18- THE DEATHLY SIN In HUMAN RELATIONS YOU MUST AVOID

Part III - BASIC Rules

19 - SEND THANKS YOU!

20 - CONFESS YOUR FAILURES

21- STOP OSSIPING

22- STOP JUDGING

23 - GIVE EVERYONE A CHOICE

24 - KEYWORDS TO KEEP Word

25 - TAKE CARE OF OTHERS as you would like OTHERS to treat you.

26 - Remember the names of people

27- AVOID arguments

Part IV - LEARN by Example

28- PRAISE and ACKNOWLEDGE PEOPLE honestly and sincerely

29- SHOW EVERYONE HONESTY and RESPECT

30 - DO NOT GIFT Direct Orders - - BE MORE SUBTLE

31- BELIEVE in the people's POTENTIAL

32- BE A EXAMPLE

33 - DO NOT REMAIN HUMBLE

34 - LET THE OTHER PERSON COME UP WITH YOUR IDEA

35 - REMEMBER TO SET TIME

36 - THINK ABOUT the OTHER person's strengths

Part V - If You Have to Say It SPEAK IT SMOOTHLY

37 - DON'T CRITICIZE.

38- HOW DO I CREDITIZE PEOPLE CONSTRUCTIVELY

39 - HANDLING COMPLAINTS SMOOTHLY

40- A GREAT WAY TO GIVE

41 - LET THE OTHER PERSON SAVE FACE

42- MAKE PEOPLE feel content about what you're telling them to do

43 - LISTEN TO Your Body LANGUAGE

44- RECOGNIZE the worth of each Individual

45 - SPEAK ABOUT YOUR OWN MISTAKES First.

Part VI MULTIPLY YOUR CONNECTION BY INCORPORATING THESE HABITS

46- BE NICE

47 - Be Positive

48 - Praise and praise a lot!

49- HOW DO I MAKE A PERFECT IMPRESSIONS

50- HELP OTHERS TO LIKE YOU BETTER. BRING UP YOUR SELF-ESTEEM

51- MAKE IT LOOK EASY

52 - USE POSITIVE TALK

53- BE FRIDGEY

54 - SCREEN A SPECIAL THANK YOU NOTE

PART VII - LAST BUT NOT THE LAST

55 - CAREFUL OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE A FALSE SELF-ESTEEM

56 - DISPLAY YOURSELF IN OTHER

57 - BE SYMPATHETIC WITH THE OTHER PERSON

58 - DO NOT READ OFFERS

59 - DON'T USE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

60- STOP PASSING YOUR TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT RIGHT FOR YOU

61 - GET RID OF PERFECTIONISM

62- SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS RIGHT AWAY

CONCLUSION

Part I - FIRST things FIRST

1 - Understanding Human Nature

If you're looking to build skills for people the first thing you must do is to need to know how people think. You must understand the reasons behind why we do what that we do, and also how we respond in certain situations. Understanding people is about acknowledging them for who they really are. Not as what you would like them to be, or for what you think they're instead of what they truly are.

What do they mean? Let's remove the elephant of the room at the beginning:

People are, more than anything concerned with themselves. Yup. Sorry. Whatever you're doing, the people around you will be 1000 times more attracted to themselves than you. There is no judgment here.

I'm sure you're in fact a thousand times more interested in you than other people aren't you?

No worries. This is fine. Human nature is what it is. There's no need to judge here. Accept this unsettling reality. You could be thousands of times more interested in you than others, and still be doing good things for them. But we'll discuss the subject in the future.

People's actions are determined by self-interest. Period. Like I mentioned before this isn't a problem. There is no need to be all self-conscious or ashamed. Human nature has a way of doing it. It's always been this way, and it likely will always remain that way. We all have something in common.

In any human interaction the other person will be thinking or asking themselves what's going on for me? Remember this question What's to gain from it? By the way, you're asking this question throughout your interactions, either consciously or not.

Does this seem too negative? It's getting better today. Once you've accepted this reality, you will be able to make use of it in all interactions with other people. It will be apparent in the subsequent chapters that a lot of successful methods for engaging and influencing others are based on this knowledge.

People are most attracted to themselves, and not in you.

2- The most important subject of any language

Are you looking to enhance your communication abilities? Are you looking to learn the most important and the most fascinating topic on the planet that any person would like to talk about?

Ready? Okay. Here's the link:

The most important topic that everyone will want to discuss in conversation with you...

THEMSELVES.

Sorry if I appear to be cynical, but that does what it says. Be patient, though. This book will alter your relationships with people and how you interact with them. Keep reading.

When you speak with others about yourself They will thank you for your smart choice of topic. They will be completely captivated by the topic and will show an immense enthusiasm. Have you ever attended a networking event or social gathering and needed to talk to someone who was talking about themselves constantly? What was the experience like? Did you feel very enthralled by the person? Do you wish to get closer with them? Are you waiting for an excuse to get out from Dodge City?

In the opposite direction, may have spoken to someone with interpersonal skills who spoke about you all the time or asked questions as well as was curious about your story and wanted to know more about you is going on and what you're doing? What did you think of that?

Who among those two do you prefer to be with?

When you're speaking to someone, you should forget about I, my, and mine for a moment and replace it with a word that can make you a desired conversation companion YOU.

What could I do to help you? Is there anything I can assist in? This can be extremely beneficial for you. How do you feel currently? What are YOUR top three? ...?

If you go the distinction between I, my, mine, to YOU and YOUR your influence and influence will rise significantly.

Are you interested in learning how to harness the interest of others in themselves? This is how you can Get them talking about themselves. Who doesn't want to share their stories? If you show genuine passion and inspire people talking about themselves and their lives, they'll like them a lot. So, ask many inquiries about