Relationship Hell In the 21st Century and How to Cope

By Ryan Seagert

This book is about the problems that women between the ages of eighteen and eighty will or have encountered throughout their lives. It gives advice on how to solve these problems and how to avoid them in the future. This book gives practical advice on how to solve relationship problems and to live your best life.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Page Publishing, Inc.
• Release date: Sep 8, 2023
• ISBN: 9798889600701

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Relationship Hell In the 21st Century and How to Cope

Ryan Seagert

Copyright © 2023 Ryan Seagert

All rights reserved

First Edition

PAGE PUBLISHING

Conneaut Lake, PA

First originally published by Page Publishing 2023

ISBN 979-8-88960-047-3 (pbk)

ISBN 979-8-88960-070-1 (digital)

Printed in the United States of America

Table of Contents

Introduction

Nontraditional Households

Self-Esteem Problems

The Bad Boy Syndrome

Nice Guys Should Finish First?

Settling

Love Is Blind

Chivalry Is Dead

Red Flags

Young and Naive

Bad Judge of Character

I Don't Deserve You

Dealing with the Ex

How Can Things Change?

How to Get Over Being Jaded

Think Highly of Yourself

Making the Best Choice

Why Does the Pattern Repeat Itself?

Not Feeling Appreciated at Home

Blame Game

FWB

Prince Charming

Unrealistic Expectations

Interviews

Conclusion

About the Author

Introduction

Life is too short to be anything but enjoyed, and relationships are a key factor for enjoyment. Being with the right person to share life's ups and downs is necessary to live a long and fulfilling life. Relationships have become more and more complicated for both genders. Roles have changed for both men and women. The husband used to be the breadwinner, while the wife stayed home and took care of the children and the home. Roles have changed, with the husband staying at home, while the wife has the career. Some couples need to work to be able to get the bills paid. Marriages aren't the only type of relationship that has changed in recent years. Dating relationships have changed as well, making things more and more difficult for both genders. For example, men used to always pay for dates and plan out the evening. Things have become more complicated, as women not only pay for the date but ask the man out and make plans for the evening. Many men and women also date several people at one time, which further complicates traditional dating relationships. This book will include interview questions from several different women who have encountered a wide variety of problems in past relationships. How did they cope? What could they have done better? Was the relationship worth it? Was the juice worth the squeeze?

Nontraditional Households

Since more and more women have careers outside the home, has this made dating relationships more difficult? The answer to that question in my opinion is a resounding yes! Men have become confused in their roles in a relationship. Women don't need a man to support them financially or emotionally as much as they did in the past. Women have their own cars, houses, and other investments. They travel alone without a second thought! Does this sense of independence make dating relationships more complicated to the point of being impossible to have a healthy relationship? There are many factors that contribute to having a successful relationship.

Adequate money being made to allow for the couple to pursue several interests would be one criteria that would