The Thinking of Men: 200 Considerations for Single, Soon to be Married, Happily Married and Recently Divorced Women

By JR Gohagen

The two hundred considerations provided are mere reflections. These statements offer insights into the typical thought processes of men and provide advice on sustaining a meaningful relationship. It's important to note that these statements may not resonate with every woman's life circumstance, and they are not intended to prescribe moral virtues. Instead, the suggestions aim to guide readers towards a certain perspective, fostering healthy dialogue in relationships. 

Furthermore, individual maturity, life experiences, and circumstances will influence how readers respond to the presented suggestions. While most women may find the considerations familiar, some might have overlooked them for various reasons. It's worth acknowledging that although these suggestions are primarily directed at a female audience, many of them can be equally relevant for men.

Some women may engage with "The Thinking of Men" to gain insights into their partner's thought processes, while others may seek to broaden their understanding of the games men play. There will also be readers who find the book reopening old wounds they would rather forget. Regardless of the motivation, my hope is that each reader uses the information provided to initiate meaningful dialogue—a crucial starting point for any adult relationship.

• Language: English
• Publisher: JR Gohagen
• Release date: Feb 6, 2024
• ISBN: 9798224134793

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The Thinking of Men

200

Relationship Considerations for single, soon to be married, happily married, and recently divorced women

JR GOHAGEN

The Thinking of Men

200

Relationship Considerations for single, soon to be married, happily married, and recently divorced women

CAG PUBLISHING

Copyright © 2023

JR Gohagen,

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Gohagen JR

The Thinking of Men 200 Considerations for Single, Soon to be Married, and Recently Divorced Women.

Keep your silent communication with God to yourself.

-Unknown

Never love something so much that you cannot let go of it.

-Ginni Rometty-

Contents

Introduction

The  Considerations

Questions to Ask Before You Commit to Him

Divorce Fact Sheet 2016

Final Thoughts

Also by the Author

A Note

When I speak of spirituality, I am not referring to traditional religious doctrine. Instead, I am talking about a higher level of consciousness and awareness, which can only be accomplished through quiet meditation.

The aim of spirituality is to balance the mind, body, and spirit, by remaining connected with the Source of it all. Some people call this entity God, Divine, and sometimes Father.

To be means to have an awareness of self with little regard for your past or future experiences. The only thing that matters is now. This simply means right where you are—now.

Introduction

When I originally published Tales of Deception and the Thinking of Men in 2015, my aim was to provoke dialogue about the reasons for male infidelity. However, what I later discovered is that most women have little interest in reading about male sexcapades and would prefer meaningful discourse on important issues that affect adult relationships. These include love, trust, commitment, loyalty, family, and more. Given the change in perspective, I have revised the original publication with a new and expanded emphasis on the relationship considerations only. With this new book, my goal is simply to get couples talking.

A few months after Tales of Deception and the Thinking of Men was released in 2015, the Ashley Madison data breach occurred, resulting in millions of individuals having their secret affairs made public. This incident provided validation to one of the central claims I made in Tales, which was that couples are having affairs because privately they are not happy in their relationship. In fact, in a 2016 Globe and Mail newspaper survey, they found 33 percent of women revealed they had an affair, compared to 40 percent for men. Frankly, I think the number is much higher. People are still careful about revealing adulterous affairs, due to the stigma it carries and the possible financial implications that could arise.

The considerations outlined in this new book