Dating for Men: How to Meet the Women you Want, In-Person and Online

By Nate Strauss

Are you sick of getting stunned or freezing up when you have to make conversation with a beautiful woman? Do you find yourself running out of topics or going blank when conversing with women? Do women lose interest in the middle of the conversation?

 

If you want to stop these terrible behaviors from occurring again, then keep reading!

 

Learning how to naturally talk to women and indulging them into open conversation is a skill that few men have. You will have to understand the diverse communication styles that each gender adopts and also incorporate behaviors that make you look confident. It will help you be heard and also increase your chances of a successful conversation.

 

Dating for Men is the perfect guidebook for shy or under confident men who are looking to attract the women of their dreams. It entails insightful details about the successful methods that can help you build conversational skills.

 

It mау ѕееm daunting аt fіrѕt, but learning these skills are absolutely achievable. In this book, уоu'll learn thе fоllоwіng:

 

• How and where to meet women;
• Ideal ways to approach a woman;
• Non-verbal cues: the most important aspect of communication;
• Managing social anxiety to encourage talking to women;
• Tips to avoid the friend zone ;
• Conversational tips to talk to women;

 

AND SO MUCH MORE!

 

Whatever the reasoning is, know that a pursuit of this knowledge does not somehow make you an inferior man. This is not some radical crazy problem in your life that can't be fixed - It certainly can. If you want to leave behind your boring sex life and truly become the man of every women's dreams, then you need this book today.

 

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• Language: English
• Publisher: Publishing Forte
• Release date: Jan 7, 2022
• ISBN: 9798201519629

Book preview

Introduction

As you presumably already know, dating is difficult for various reasons. Some of the males I work with are undecided about their desires. Some people have recently ended a long relationship and learned that dating is a completely different game. Others are in their early twenties, have little experience, and require assistance in gaining confidence. Many of the men I train are successful by all other cultural criteria but find women perplexing. This may or may not surprise you. To put it another way, you can be in any stage of life and still struggle to form a sustainable relationship.

Certain cultural shifts haven't made this journey any simpler. Technology advancements, such as the widespread availability of dating apps, have made meeting single individuals in person quite uncommon. Our minds aren't built to handle the plethora of alternatives given by apps like Tinder. They've also developed a dating public used to novelty—the idea that there's always someone better out there if you swipe long enough.

In addition to these issues, the evolution of traditional gender roles and the rise of a more sex-positive culture have significantly altered the way people date. This is, by and large, a good thing. It can, however, be perplexing. The term relationship has become more elastic in recent years, and men have been required to present themselves differently than they have for decades. They're required to learn consent language, be more vulnerable, and abandon the traditions associated with toxic masculinity. Many men have been compelled to reconsider their interactions with women and the underlying power dynamics that govern them due to the long-overdue reckoning over sexual harassment and violence, as expressed in the #MeToo movement. While this work is vital, it may have the unintended result of making males more hesitant to approach or open up to women for fear of being dubbed a creep—or worse.

The goal of this book is to help you gain confidence in your own skin and carry yourself with vigor and passion—to give you the tools you need to attract, engage, and ultimately create true, long-term relationships with women on your own terms. Unlike other dating resources for men this book provides direct guidance from the source. You'll find not just my professional guidance and knowledge on these pages but also pertinent testimonies from real women.

Some parts of this book may be more appealing to you than others. However, the ideas presented herein won’t work for you if you don’t apply them. Knowing the concepts isn't enough. You must integrate them into your daily life. I always joke that I offer people who work with me a 300 percent guarantee: what I offer helps 100 percent of the people who do 100 percent of the work 100 percent of the time. The ideas in this book have empowered men like you to push beyond their comfort zones, reach their full potential as purposeful men, and attract their dream women in the process.

So, without further ado, I welcome you on this incredible adventure! Know that as you work through this book, I’m rooting for you every step of the way.

Happy Reading!

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Understand What Women Want

How do you become the kind of man women desire while remaining true to your own identity? The information in the following chapters will help you answer that question, so read on for some helpful advice.

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As a general rule, we associate dating with the search for love. When you're the best version of yourself, love has no choice but to fall in love with you. Dispelling popular beliefs about what men should be and what women are looking for in a potential partner is the focus of this chapter.

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The lies men believe about what women want

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We often think of dating as the way we find love. But the truth is, when you become the best version of yourself, love has no choice but to find you. Here, we’ll dispel popular notions about how men should be and demystify what women are looking for in a potential partner.

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We’re all brought up to believe certain ideas about how we should look, behave, speak, dress, and interact with the opposite sex. So much of what we’re taught from a young age fails to align with what we discover about ourselves as we grow older. Though we often consider personal development as an additive, it may be helpful to reframe your growth as subtractive—the process of removing what shouldn’t have been there in the first place to reveal the truest version of yourself.

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Ask yourself: what do I think women are looking for in a man? Regardless of your age, race, or cultural background, it’s likely you’re thinking of a similar set of traits: an outward projection of strength, both physical and emotional; the ability to assert one’s dominance, perhaps by being boisterous or condescending; monetary wealth. From high school to Hollywood, generations of conflicting messages and conditioning have polluted the definition of masculinity. As a result, most guys’ ideas of what women want are shockingly universal.

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But they’re not necessarily true or healthy. These traits can lead to toxic behavior when unchecked, particularly in interactions with women. They can also affect you personally: if you are, for example, brought up to believe that sharing your emotions is a sign of weakness, it’s only natural that you’d have a hard time opening up to people and forging deeper connections.

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I’ve detailed five lies men hear about what women want in the pages to follow. The goal here is to question expectations around masculinity in the context of dating to gain a deeper, more nuanced understanding of the kind of attributes women are attracted to.

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Women Don’t Want a Man Who Shows His Emotions.

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Men traditionally discouraged emotional expression because they were taught that it was unmanly. For example, think of the typical American man of the 1950s, a sturdy, hard-working man who shies away from revealing much about himself for fear that doing so might make him seem untrustworthy. When a star athlete at the top of the high school food chain is told by his coach to take it like a man, he feels humiliated and chastised. Men's idols include athletes, world leaders, and writers like Ernest Hemingway. A man's emotional health is often sacrificed in the name of a man's courage, but this couldn't be further from the truth.

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Many men cannot express their feelings because they lack the tools to do so. Anger and resentment may fester in men who don't feel they can express themselves freely because they aren't given the support they need. Suppression can be lonely and isolating for those who are subjected to it. Especially harmful in romantic partnerships. Males prone to lash out in anger or shut down may display unhealthy and violent behavior, making it difficult for their partners to penetrate their defenses.

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In reality, a man can have a strong character while also being open about his feelings. On the other hand, women say that they feel closer to their partners when they open up emotionally. To build a strong and lasting relationship with someone, you must express your feelings to them! Real men don't cry, someone may have told you. On the other hand, real men aren't afraid to show their emotions.

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Women Want the Man to Take the Lead

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If you're looking for happiness, you're going to need more than you think you do. Many women have told me they desire to be in charge of their own lives and businesses. Despite this, some of these women report feeling less sexually attracted to their partners once they reach this level of success.

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When it comes down to it, most couples want equal power distribution. In other words, equal doesn't always mean the same. For example, your girlfriend may have the upper hand in the bedroom, even if you decide where to go on vacation. Instead of a man who takes the lead by default, women want a confident man to cede control and demand it, depending on the situation.

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Women Are Looking For a Provider

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Anyone who attempts to uphold it, especially in today's world, will be infuriated by this generalized statement. Even if this is true, it's no longer true given the rising living costs and more women than ever before entering the workforce.  (in the United States at least). Even in countries where men are traditionally the primary breadwinners, most women agree that working and contributing financially to their relationship brings them great joy. Women's attraction to a provider isn't based solely on their ability to support them financially but rather on their ambition, accountability, and willingness to put in the hours. In today's world, women are looking for men who can provide them with love, support, and empathy rather than men who can provide them with money.

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Women Like ‘Macho’ Men

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All the movies about the hero who gets the girl,