Mens Dating Manifesto: How to become the man that women want, build attraction, romantic connection and confidence, and find the woman of your dreams: for one night or the rest of your life.

By Jared Braverman

Do you think it's possible that you can transform your personality into someone who was previously awkward with women into a confident male who can consistently create attraction with beautiful women and have an active love life? This happened to me and this book will show you what I did and how you can do the same (trust me, if I did it, you can DEFINITELY do it too!!!).

 

This book will also smash all of your self-limiting beliefs that you aren't:

• Funny
• Good looking
• Rich / famous / alpha male / popular (+ many more)

You don't need to be any of these to be successful with women; and I'll show you why and how to get over these crippling notions.

 

How different would your life be if you had the confidence that YOU are the man that your dream woman is WAITING URGENTLY FOR. You just need a little guidance on how to get to that place where YOU truly believe it too!

 

That you are 100% capable of building attraction (and this book will give you a proven system that thousands of men have adopted into their daily routines to not only have an active love life, but to also enhance their social life, and gain many new friends and business opportunities).

 

Plus, I will cover many other important dating topics such as:

• What women are attracted to
• Building an attractive personality
• How to approach a woman / open a conversation (in different social settings)
• Vibing with beautiful woman (being fun, vulnerable, and real)
• Body language and non-verbal communication
• Your mindset: thinking like a man, courage, personal boundaries, and rejection
• The best places to meet women
• A whole chapter on online dating
• What to do on your dates
• Getting physical
• And, How to give her the best sex of her life!
• Plus, you will learn: to become a master of seduction; unshakeable self confidence; charisma; small talk skills; and charm to attract and date many more women (for one night or the rest of your life)!

You probably realize this by now, but this book is definitely NOT about games or manipulation. NOT about weird "pick-up artist tactics". NOT about being fake or mean / manipulative to women.

 

This book is about creating the best version of YOU! Being honest and your true self with women. Constant and never ending self improvement! Eliminating the negative traits and limiting beliefs, and enhancing your mindset and dating skills to attract the woman (or women) of your dreams!

 

Where will you be in a few months from now?

 

Will you just continue to keep trudging on and watch other men date the women you wish you could be with? Continue to make excuses like "women don't like me for some reason"; "I'm not really very fun or funny"; "this is just who I am – women don't like nice guys"…

 

OR, are you committed to becoming the best version of YOU?

 

Will you start taking massive action by picking up this book and making a COMMITMENT to doing the steps necessary so you can have an active love life; a dating calendar that gives you so many options that you no longer have to settle for dating women you don't really want to be with; create a life filled with much more adventure, interesting friends, and next-level business opportunities?

 

TAKE MASSIVE ACTION NOW AND GET STARTED READING The Mens Dating Manifesto!

- Casanova (an ex nerd that turned into a Casanova, and found the woman of his dreams – and how you can too!)

• Language: English
• Publisher: DotAmy
• Release date: Jan 20, 2022
• ISBN: 9798201779856

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Men’s Dating Manifesto

How to Become the Man That Women Want, Build Attraction, Romantic Connection, and Confidence, and Find the Woman of Your Dreams: For One Night or the Rest of Your Life

Casanova

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1: What Women are Attracted to

How Female Attraction Works

Confidence

The Myth of Nice Guys and Assholes

How Women Want to be Treated

Building an Attractive Persona

The Lover

The Provider

The Dominant

The Submissive

Chapter 2: How to Develop an Attractive Personality

Don’t be Unattractive

Insecurity: The Anti-Confidence

Giving Her Space

Be Attractive

Appearance

Status

Personality

Attractive Personality Traits

Funny

Worldly

Romantic

Attracting vs. Pursuing

Chapter 3: How to Approach a Woman

Choosing Who to Approach

How to Open a Conversation

Being a Good Loser

Chapter 4: Vibing With Beautiful Women

Be Honest, Not Boring

Be Funny

Be Vulnerable

Be Real

The Most Beautiful Woman in the World

Dealing With Groups

Taking the Next Steps

Chapter 5: Body Language and Non-Verbal Communication

Communicating Confidence

Reading Her Signals

Mirroring Her

Chapter 6: Your Mindset

Thinking Like a Man

Courage

Focus on the Present Moment

Maintain Defined Personal Boundaries

Staying in the Zone

A Quick Word on Rejection

Chapter 7: Where to Meet Women

The Best Places to Find Women

Online Dating

Bars and Nightclubs

Hobby and Interest Groups

Dog Parks

Private Parties

Religious Gatherings

Business and Networking Events

The Win-Win Social Scenario

Chapter 8: Online Dating

Setting Up Your Profile

Matching Up

Sending Messages

Setting a Date

Chapter 9: What To Do on Your Date

First Date Activities

First Date Behavior

Chapter 10: Getting Physical

The Levels of Physical Intimacy

Getting the First Kiss

Consent

Chapter 11: How to Give Her the Best Sex of Her Life

Foreplay

The Importance of Her Orgasms

Following Her Lead

Penetration

The Afterglow

Conclusion

References

Introduction

Girls are a complete mystery.

At least, that’s what I thought when I was a young man and first started to feel the desire for sex and, secondarily, love. In high school, I was an outgoing guy with a bit of a rebellious streak and a love of parties. I found out, though, that even though I always had a large circle of male friends and was somewhat popular, talking to girls could still feel completely impossible. Getting a girlfriend seemed like it took a completely different skill set than just making friends.

As with so many things, once the idea that I was bad with women planted itself in my head, it started to become a self-fulfilling prophecy. All through high school and into my college years, I almost completely cut myself off from the dating world. I lacked the confidence to even attempt talking with women. Even if I did manage to gin up the courage to start a conversation, the thought of asking a girl out on a date paralyzed me with fear. The idea of being rejected was utterly mortifying.

But, despite my best efforts at self-sabotage, I did manage to go on a handful of dates during this time. And, of course, there were girls in my social orbit who I would encounter at parties or group hang outs. In both cases, even though I knew these women had some level of interest in me, I never knew how to take this interest to a romantic level. The first kiss was an illusory goal that always seemed just out of reach. The results were a lot of unrequited crushes on female friends who inevitably ended up dating guys with the confidence to take the initiative, as well as a string of non-relationships that fizzled out after one or two dates or hookups.

After a few years of this struggle, I resolved to fix my problem. The advantage to being a dateless nerd was that I knew how to research. So, I read books upon books on topics like dating, generating attraction, and improving self-confidence. The pick-up artist movement was at the height of its popularity and there were an abundance of resources purporting to help guys in my situation. A lot of the advice that I came across in these books sounded extreme, but I figured that, if I wanted to be a different person than I had been, I would have to do things that I’d never done.

The results were, in a word, comical. There was a lot of learning through failure. One of the pick-up artist books that I’d read talked a lot about peacocking, wearing intentionally outrageous and flamboyant clothes to stand out and draw attention to yourself. To that author’s credit, when I started showing up to parties in things like silk shirts and cowboy hats I did start getting a lot of attention. It was largely derisive, but it was attention nevertheless. Once I warmed up to the fact that peacocking was making me look less like an edgy fashion daredevil and more like a guy who is a cross between Zoolander and Bon Jovi, drawing from a stock of nothing but lame Halloween costumes, I decided to tone it down. Rather than dressing flamboyantly, I decided that I would simply dress slightly nicer than the other guys I saw when I went out: A button-down shirt instead of a tee, slacks or chinos instead of jeans, and dress shoes instead of sneakers. Surprisingly, this small step up from how I had been dressing before I went all-in on the top hats and leather pants was the first of a string of positive changes in my dating life. The comments on my outfits suddenly became complementary and, while I was still not the ladies man that I dreamed of being, it was a major boost to my confidence.

Another popular piece of pick-up artistry I tried out during this time was called negging. For the uninitiated, negging is a term for throwing out backhanded compliments and bits of mild teasing in a conversation in order to lower a woman’s self esteem by actively displaying a lack of interest in her (Strauss 2005). The idea is that, if an attractive and confident woman thinks that you are uninterested in her, she will start trying to prove to you why you should be. I’m not going to say that a little bit of playful teasing can’t be an effective way to keep things light and flirty with a woman, but I can say unequivocally that there was nothing playful about my experiments with negging. I’d venture to guess that most guys who try this out go way too far and just end up insulting the women they’re trying to seduce. I was certainly no exception. I did eventually learn the difference between this creepy mind game and good natured ribbing, but it was at the expense of a lot of hurt feelings and taking more than one well-deserved thrown drink to the face.

Despite what you might think, these initial missteps actually made the most profound difference in my outlook; they taught me confidence. These gimmicky approaches and the many, many others I tried out in my early twenties got me to break through my social anxiety and actually start approaching women. After approaching, talking to, and getting rejected by what felt like a million of them, I eventually learned that no single quality is more attractive than confidence. Simple things like an easy smile, the ability to make and maintain eye-contact, and keeping your body language relaxed can be a real game-changer. You can panic all you want internally, but if you stay calm, cool, and collected on the surface, you’ll be miles ahead of every other guy out there trying to score.

Of course there’s a difference between knowing this and knowing how to do it. While I was trying to turn my understanding of confidence into practice, I was still getting rejected by a staggering number of women. A big part of the problem is that my primary strategy was going out to bars and nightclubs, which can be shockingly difficult places to pick up girls. To begin with, there’s practically always an imbalance in numbers. There’s a reason why women always get let into crowded clubs while men have to wait in line for people to leave: there are always more guys at a bar or club than there are girls. The second issue is that, of these guys, most of them go out to try and get with a girl in some capacity, whereas girls tend to go out to have a good time with their friends. They aren’t looking to get hit on, and many of them will get annoyed with you if you do. Even if they were interested, it would be rude of them to ditch their friends for a guy. That’s not even going into the natural caution that women have to maintain towards any man they don’t know for their own safety.

All of these factors mean that they have their shields up in these environments and can often be quite rude to single men who approach them under these circumstances. If you’ve experienced this, take comfort in the fact that these brush offs are usually nothing personal. You might have been the 20th guy to try to chat her up that night and her patience had just worn out. That being said, I know that some of the dressing downs that I got from women in these clubs and bars could cut pretty deep, especially if I was already feeling down on myself.

Once I found the ability to turn on the confidence for myself,